What do you look for in a guy?

Question

Include both personality and looks.

xxJillexx · Accepted Answer

Honestly, I of course value personality over looks, but most of the guys I date are "cute", but this is what I look for.
Personality- I'm gonna want a guy who can make me laugh, but also have intelligent conversations with me. Also, as a gamer, I enjoy guys who play video games. I also want a guy who is totally cool with saying no to his guy friends one day on the weekend to go on a date, or hangout with me. Because, we need some alone time too. He's gotta be respectful towards my opinions, and me in general, if not, no way in hell I'll date him. I want someone who is confident in their own body as well. Super sweet and sentimental is a bonus as well.
Looks - I happen to love tall men, even though I'm quite short (5'4"), nice cheeks, strong dark eyes, dark hair. As long as your hair isn't quite long I'm okay with however you want it. People have described me as a chubby chaser, which I'm cool with cause 3/4 boyfriends have been heavier, and its okay. Also, I (along with many girls/women) look for older guys.
Hope this helps!
:)

Lindajackie · Accepted Answer

Personality: someone I can see myself with on a Friday night having a Netflix marathon eating pizza and wings. Fighting over the last slice which in the end we share anyway. Also if they can make me laugh, if we have different interests (keeps the relationship interesting) and basically someone who will love me for me. Someone who will reciprocate my love.
Looks: light skin, any hair color and texture (although I'm a sucker for wavy/curly hair), any colored eyes, nice hands (big one), skinny-kinda fit (not into muscular or fat) and good hygiene (clean nails, teeth, hair)

BeSomethingDifferent · Accepted Answer

Personality- Strong but willing to let me be strong too. Loves family and makes them a priority. Respecting of me and my family. Gentleman and puts others ahead of himself without being a total pushover.

Looks- I'm a sucker for a guy with a great smile 😊 Because most of my male family members are tall I relate that to security but it's not a deal breaker. Curly hair is adorable, I also like it spiked in front. And of course in shape would be nice.

Everything in the looks department comes second to the personality. That's so much more important to me.

MissNowhere · Accepted Answer

This about sums it up.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

What girls look for in a guy -Big Dick -Big Muscles -Six Pack -Nice Face -Nice Hair -Deep Voice -Intelligence -Gets lots of hoes

teenagegirl1999 · Answer

I like a guy who is sweet, compassionate, kind, respecting and has a strong passion to keep the people he loves safe. Looks wise I'm not very picky, the only thing I would have to say is a deal breaker is if the guy is like drastically shorter then me. i just find it a little awkward when I'm a lot taller then someone. I like having someone around me that is taller then me its makes me feel safer. I'm 5'11 and most of my family members are 6 foot or above, I'm just used to it.

dogenaut · Answer

I've never really cared for looks, I don't know why but I do care about how he cleans himself up. I always went for guys on the chubbier side with long hair and beards but my current boyfriend is quite the opposite (except the beard part, kinda). I look for honesty, humor, kindness, a hard worker, responsibility, attentiveness, etc. The basic stuff. I try to keep it simple but I do not settle for less than what I deserve.

bang678 · Answer

I'm not very particular on looks. But I'd like someone who treats everyone kindly, and gently pushes me outside my comfort zone but still lets me be me. Also someone who can tolerate my passionate rants and the fact that I cry for every extreme emotion.

ConfusedAnon · Answer

Looks don't mean anything unless their personality attracts me. this is really lame and i can't believe im saying it but it is the connection between the two people that make the biggest difference - but there are some set backs, like obviously to get initial attention you need to be a minimum attractive, and things like hygiene and smell are very important to me- just is haha. if on top of that you get on well then spot on

Xoxoxooo123 · Answer

I look for someone who is physically there, I hate that long distance crap. Someone who is compassionate, educated, happy outlook on life, and is motivated to succeed. Also funny.
Emphasis on being physically there. Also loyalty.

Horf123 · Answer

This is based on me creating a guy
About 6'0"(give or take 2 inches)
Dark hair and eyes
Beard
Tattoos
Likes kids and animals
Has pets
Loves sex and snuggling
Is willig to try to make things work even when its not convenient

mooky06 · Answer

Someone affectionate, caring, loving, intelligent, thoughtful and loyal. Passionate, motivated about life and wants to have fun being around someone who would be very similar.

MysteriousFlower · Answer

Eh whatever, as long as he is kind which is hard to find in a guy. I don't like Geminis, they can be very bitchy.

PepeandShrekrmybaez · Answer

MOSTLY PERSONALITY! I need a man who can show me off and I'm gonna show him off and we can go places and have inside jokes and swear and laugh so hard we cry together. He also needs to help me when I'm sad... I would help him too! :D

danceforlife · Answer

he has to be smart both book and street. athletic, funny, kind, honest, loyal and look wise im not to picky

sm17deloro · Answer

I look for a nice smile and blue eyes (soft longish hair). And a adventurous also humor personality... Im too picky

Homicidal_Queen · Answer

Personality- caring, intelligence and loyalty looks- nice eyes and proper hygiene

apple24 · Answer

Guy&girl : a punk rocker type style/ haha/ musican/ akward/ shy/ mysterious/ funny!

Anonymous · Answer

Good manners Good character Handsome... it's ok if he is not.

lorelliemarino678 · Answer

loyalty and honesty i guess. someone who just gets me lol

Anonymous · Answer

A big tool maybe girls?

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