Why do women treat men as cash-machines / ATMs?

[Anonymous]

Women under 40 now outearn men, however, their expectations remain the same. To exploit men as their workers. Everybody knows that men are expected to pay for dates and be the one buying gifts, open doors, pull chairs, do all the work in bed, carry shopping material, fix minor problems etc. while women JUST WATCH. Everybody's seen those videos about women agreeing to date someone because of their money or cars.

However, what you may not know is that:

70% of UK women would instantly change their minds about leaving a boring man if he won a lottery jackpot. 78% of US women said a partner with a steady job was the most important trait in a future spouse. 75% said they’d have a problem with dating someone without a job. Only 4% would go out with an unemployed man.

The list goes on...

Are we living in a society that PRIDES ITSELF in equality, or a society which supports special treatment of women at the cost of men... pure discrimination based on sex?

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ATM = Any Time Money

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Women won't stop this exploitation. We'll have to do it ourselves

[BuchitaBuchys]

Even if we are becoming more equalized, it's barely been a century that women finally have power and choice in dating. You cannot expect a large population to get on board with equality in just a century when we've been drilled on this for centuries to depend on men's resources.
It's a lot harder than that and it will take more time.

Hell, there have been laws against racism and segregation way before anti-sexist laws, and we're still not seen/treated as equal even in egalitarian/progressive societies like the US.

I feel that men are being a bit impatient, we need time to catch on. We need room for errors. Oprah wasn't built in a day.

[dudeman]

nah thats just dumb.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@dudeman well, keep complaining and asking questions about it then. It's on y'all for refusing to understand.

[dudeman]

whos complaining?

[BuchitaBuchys]

@dudeman not complaining but you in particular make very shitty comments about women in general. You have no insights to add just bitter red pills.

[dudeman]

i dont make shitty comments about women. i make truthful comments. i basically say exactly what you said in this comment however i dont excuse personal responsibility.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@dudeman being truthful is not your forte. Because being bitter clouds your judgement.

[dudeman]

whos bitter? certainly not me. i just am aware of female nature the same i am aware of male nature. i think you just dont like my affinity to being blunt.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@dudeman, oh no. I like bluntness. But you're not blunt. It's like when people say "Donald Trump is just saying the truth!" What truth? Being an asshole isn't the same as blunt honesty. I think many people confuse those two.

[dudeman]

asshole sure but thats because im blunt. doesn't make me bitter or anything that i say to be untruthful.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@dudeman you're clouded by it. This is going nowhere, we're both stubborn.

[dudeman]

i understand the truth hurts. its ok i forgive you

[BuchitaBuchys]

@dudeman lol whatever. You mean the truth that you're stubborn?

[dudeman]

it finally comes out

[Asker]

Dudeman, don't fall into the trap of discussing your personal life with women. They'll try and lure you with "you're bitter" and then due to training by feminist society, you'll be forced to defend yourself or react.

DON'T. Just stick to the general points and social problems. Getting personal with them is suicide. They are personally not at all admirable either. You really think a woman is someone to tell you how to conduct yourself or what to do? Trust me, you don't need anyone telling you what to do in your personal life.

That's why it's your PERSONAL LIFE.

[MargaritaPeach]

I share bills, expenses, and travel costs with my man, and even give him an allowance when he runs low on spending cash. I work more hours than he does, and still make considerably less. I know plenty of women who do the same. A lot of my friends have husbands who stay at home, raise the kids, do chores, and bring in zero income. So I am sure there are some girls who use their men for money, but that's sure not my story.

[MargaritaPeach]

You're clearly either in denial, or spending time with the wrong women. And, no... not all women are liars.

[Octavius]

The whole thing about 78% of women want to be with someone that has steady income is that they don't want to fucking starve or freeze in the streets in winter... A lot of girls want to have families and it's much easier just because they are the ones that carry the baby to have the dad make the majority of the income. It's hard to work when pregnant. They have to piss all the time they get morning sickness. Ideally it's best that she can rest at home and keep herself stress free and healthy while pregnant to assure that the child gets the best development possible. SOMEONE has to be making money during that time though.

[Octavius]

There's plenty of women out there that out earn their husbands.

[Octavius]

The majority of marriages where women are breadwinners probably don't end in divorce.

[Asker]

lol my comment got deleted by some feminazi

[dudeman]

actually when the women is the breadwinner the marriage usually does end in divorce.

[SIGguy]

You're poisoning the well and that's completely unfair. The same logic applies to men who are in relationships for sex, and a constant sex. Women you confuse for being gold diggers are making sure there's insurance in case something happens. You need to stop listening to bitter ex-husbands.

[Asker]

No it doesn't because even those men are paying for it or getting the shorter end of the stick in some way.

[Asker]

"bitter ex-husbands)

Jesus, that's appalling. Millions of men are victims of oppression

[SIGguy]

Are you one of them? If not, stop complaining. And how does the same logic NOT apply? Seriously, no more MGTOW for you.

[jacquesvol]

My wife always had about the same income as I have. I wasn't ever anyone's ATM. Nor was she.

[Asker]

You're a known feminazi troll on this website. I bet you're a woman in disguise

[Asker]

But anyway I'm not talking about the exceptions, I'm talking about the general cases. Stop being so impossible.

[jacquesvol]

You fail!
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[jacquesvol]

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[Asker]

there will always be exceptions...

[jacquesvol]

Got it NOW?

[Asker]

meh I'm not even reading your petty insults...

[jacquesvol]

Learn to read then.

[Anonymous]

Generalization at its finest.

[Opinion Owner]

And this isn't entirely true. Just because some women are like this doesn't mean they all are.

[Asker]

lol feminazi deleted my comment

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you shouldn't violate the rules then

[elfears]

Heck no. I make my own money!

[jonathanDOE]

cos you let them do it to you.

[Asker]

i don't

there are guys that would let women hit them. Does this mean women should start hitting us on a massive scale? No.

[Anonymous]

Because men let them.

[Asker]

Generally men are nice and may allow you to beat him up as well... does that mean you should violently beat up men regularly?

Stupid logic to shift the blame on men.

[Opinion Owner]

But that's the exact reason why.

[Opinion Owner]

Easy money.

[Opinion Owner]

You guys need to learn to put your foot down and say tell them no.

[Opinion Owner]

Only if your money is the only thing you've got going for you.

[Asker]

I've got going? LOL. Relationships are meant to be about love and all that shit... but thanks for admitting they're actually about women making money

[Opinion Owner]

A lot of women care about other things more than money. I would date a poor guy as long as he was hot.

[Opinion Owner]

And has a decent personality.

[Anonymous]

Because us men have lots of money.

[Asker]

LOL. nice one

[Opinion Owner]

Of course its nice. Its true lol.

[Asker]

Didn't you read that women under 40 now earn more in the US and UK overall? 80% of homeless people are men. Men are way more poor than women. Soon women in their 40s will also outearn men because the reverse wage gap is INCREASING steadily.

Only the top 1% of men have "lots of money". Women are becoming the richer sex and extending their margin. You support your OWN SLAVERY on baseless, feminist myths.