Girls, Why do girls dislike hairy guys?

[Anonymous]

Being a very hairy guy it makes me sad and insecure to know that girls hate and dislike very hairy guys and almost half of the women say it's a major issue and total deal breaker :(
Should I take female hormones and maybe get testicles removed , since I don't want to keep on waxing religiously every inch just to look normal and less hairy as the way women want. I would rather have less expensive and one shot treatment.

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Just a simple question.

[Love-Ninja]

Society is a bit*h. Very focused on looks and appearances.

However, while the perfect hunks only have their looks and a lacking personality, YOU can sharpen your good sides! Be kind, be thoughful, be charming (get a nice body? i dunno if you have one already but hair on abs and on a strong, defined back might not be too bed, aye? Its even considered to be manly with hairy chests! Yay you!)

In the end, that's gonna get you a girl that's not just in it for the looks ;) (true love *nudge nudge* *wink wink*)

(Oh and by the way, welcome to our world. There's things women feel obliged to because that's what men want. I'm not saying only girls have these kind of issues, your problem is a big onel too, right next to the issue of being short. Those are pretty tough ones, one being impossible to change! Sigh... poor guys)

Conclusion: Fake it 'til you make it!

Be confident in yourself, the more aware you are of your hairiness and accept it, the less attention the girl is gonna pay to it. And work on your good points! (personality and maybe even start building some muscle? *wiggle eyebrows*)

Good luck! And write back to let me know what you think! ;)

Love-Ninja out!

[Asker]

" but hair on abs and on a strong, defined back might not be too bed, aye? Its even considered to be manly with hairy chests" , I guess these thoughts don't really exist in other girls heads! Lol.
Do you personally feel this way? You wrote hair on strong abs and even back looks nice. You kidding me?

[Love-Ninja]

I was trying to give you more confidence and some examples, but if you want something concrete, here you go. I really don't think hairiness is all that bad unless you make it yourself. Abs and hair are far, far from bad, that's what I really think. But a SUPER hairy back doesn't look good no matter how hot your body is, that is what I think. But I don't think you're that hairy...

[Love-Ninja]

I also have hairiness problems... so don't feel like you're in this alone

[Asker]

Okay. normal hairy back, shoulders and upper arms with REALLY hairy abs, chest? And hairy arms, legs and thighs?
You also have hair problem? But I bet it's not as bad as it's for me. How do you feel being a bit fuzzy on legs? U shave legs?

[Love-Ninja]

How you described yourself can totally be okay! Getting a nice body will help a lot though! (just google fit hairy guys and you'll see, lol xD) That's the same for yourself too! It's very unfortunate that you are hairy, but try to make the best out of it and get a fit body. It's good for your health too!
Yes, I have lé hair problem. Very hairy arms, like upper arms too. And it's not just hair.. it's freaking dark AND long maddafakkas that stretch out like they want to reach the damn sun!
However, I've learnt to accept them, because, A) I'm afraid it will get worse if I remove them. B) If I let them be and sunbathe a lot they might not be that visible as time passes

C) (and this is the most important one) I seriously thought, "if I have to shave my arms just for someone to like me, then I'd rather be hairy." (Rebel, yo!)
Legs are hairy but I wax them so the hair decreases in both quality and quantity. Going out with hairy legs is a nono! And I also have a hairy-trail down my belly

[Anonymous]

Some don't like it, others don't mind it and some might even like it. Not everyone is the same. But as a society standard, a bit less hair might be more desired because that is the fad now. Look at the standards society puts on women. It's not really fair, but sadly that's life. Just find someone that will like you for you.

[Anonymous]

Get waxed or do laser removal

[Asker]

Laser isn't too food option. Castrtion or female hormones?