I would actually feel really unsafe and put-down and disrespected. It would ruin my day. I can't describe the panic and hopelessness girls can feel when they get sexually harassed like that, and yea, I would classify it as sexual harassment because it's been worded as if it's non-consensual. It's obvious the guy's a creep, but I don't think that would stop the victim from feeling like absolute shit.
Duh we take measures? We sit away from creepy dudes and we sit with our legs closed. Dude, just don't. Get a girlfriend and ask her to help you play out your fantasies, so that it's healthy for both of you. Don't go out there and make a poor girl feel miserable just because you want to get off.
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First of all, uncomfortable. A guy should never look up a skirt or dress. It's one of the reasons most girls cross their legs or ankles when they sit. There is a specific difference between a quick glance at a girls assets and looking straight up her skirt. There are several issues with this: periods and parts. If a girl is on her period she isn't gonna want you to see she is wearing a pad and therefore certainly won't want you to look up her skirt. If you aren't dating a girl she certainly won't want you looking at something she doesn't want you to have. In conclusion, don't look up people's skirts. You wouldn't like it if we looked down your pants.
It would make me feel like an ojbect honestly. I wasn't just put on this earth for sexual pleasure.
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I cross my legs and occasionally wear bike shorts or spandex underneath
I'm kinda unusual in that I like make attention, even unwanted. I was raised in weird family. My dad's side is liberal, so I'm a feminist and I believe women aren't sexual objects, etc, etc
But my mom's side is mega conservative and they believe a woman's worth comes from her attractiveness to men. As such I love male attention.
I love it when guys check me out as long as they're not obvious. If you're blatant about it, it's rude and gross. If you're briefly looking me up and down or checking me out out of the corner of your eye or briefly looking at my boobs while we speak I find it thrilling and flattering.
What I'm trying to say is, if I caught a guy looking up my dress I would kind of like it. It would honestly turn me on.There's nothing wrong with looking a little bit, but if it's indiscreet enough for me to notice if instantly becomes uncomfortable no matter how attractive you might be.
And if that happens a lot on the same day it becomes frustrating and I'd leave the place I'm at, or I'll put something else on to cover my chest.
Guys, don't stare to the point of scaring us please : )Just basic stuff like...
cross my legs when sitting down or knees together.
knees together when getting out of a car, same for standing up.
pull my skirt or dress tight against me when walking up or down stairs.
choose a skirt or dress according to the weather.
how would I feel. like kicking him where it hurts.I do, it's not something I desire or get a thrill for when a stranger looks up my skirt, so I do make sure of these things to prevent, going up stairs etc.
First of all id stick my middle finger up and tell where to shove it but I'd definitely where something under my clothes so even if they were looking they'd see nothing
That's why most girls wear shorts under dress's. Only place that that really happens is in vags and Japan lol.
I would probably slap him. No, I don't take measures to make sure they don't, because it's common decency not to look up someone's skirt.
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Uncomfortable and my solution is to never wear skirts and dresses. Ever.
I would act like I don't know while recording them then plaster their face all over the internet.
I would personally feel very awkward and weirded out
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