Girls, I need your femalisim experience, may you all please answer?

[Anonymous]

Girls this is really a big question and it means a lot for me!
So, I have met a lot of girls saying stuff like: I like your sunglasses/ I like your beard/ I like your shoulders …etc

So the question is:
Can I say the same thing for girls or would it be harassing? Like:Hey, I like your body/ I like your short/ I like your glasses.. etc

and when a girl says these things does it mean that she likes me?

[snowangle]

"I like your body" is questionable. That may make girls uncomfortable.

Usually, when a girl feels harassed, it's because of one or more of these reasons:
1) Disrespectful tone of voice
2) Perverted/sexual comment (even if it is technically a compliment, girls don't usually want to hear that from a stranger)
3) Not quitting when it's clear she isn't interested.

So as long as you're polite and respectful, generally girls will appreciate your compliment. Some may be interested in getting to know you further, and others won't. But either way, you probably made her day!

[Asker]

What if it was some thing between sexual and clothes? Like for me I think that high boots are sexy but it's consider clothes, so would that be a negative or positive compliment?

Would there be any different if her legs were appeared, like if she was wearing skirt because she might think I'm into her legs! Woow whenever I think about how do girls think I get confused 😭

[snowangle]

That's a good question... honestly I can't think of a way for a strange guy to compliment a girl's attire without sounding either perverted or (no offense) feminine. I mean my best guy friend lets me know when I'm wearing something that is particularly flattering, but he's been my friend for years; I've never had a stranger compliment my clothes as a way of hitting on me lol! Exception: when I'm wearing a video game t-shirt 😜

I'm gonna trust my gut here and say that as long as your compliment is genuine, she'll be able to tell you mean well. Again, just be polite and respectful and you'll be fine!

[Letstrend]

Uhmm.. Complimenting a girl on her body is not the same as complimenting her for something she's wearing, in my opinion.

I personally like being complimented on my appearance, it proves that my efforts aren't for nothing lol. A guy complimenting me for my personality though is something which I'd choose over any other kind of compliment, those are the most sincere to me.😊

[Asker]

(The same question need other opinion) What if it was some thing between sexual and clothes? Like for me I think that high boots are sexy but it's consider clothes, so would that be a negative or positive compliment?

Would there be any different if her legs were appeared, like if she was wearing skirt because she might think I'm into her legs! Woow whenever I think about how do girls think I get confused 😭

[Letstrend]

Yeah we have a tough life, I'm telling you

[Looraz]

Yes, it means she likes you (or she just really likes those things. Also a chance you're friendzoned..) and no don't say those things to a girl, it sounds kinda gay. (exept for the shirt/face/hair/jewelery)

[Asker]

What if it was some thing between sexual and clothes? Like for me I think that high boots are sexy but it's consider clothes, so would that be a negative or positive compliment?

Would there be any different if her legs were appeared, like if she was wearing skirt because she might think I'm into her legs! Woow whenever I think about how do girls think I geT confused!

[cokestrbl]

Yeah of course you can say that! Sometimes just a small compliment like that can make a girls day! Though some girls might over think it and take it as a insult! It happens don't worry. Be open and give them compliments!

It depends if she is always complimenting you there is a chance that she does!

[Asker]

I want to specify more:
What if it was some thing between sexual and clothes? Like for me I think that high boots are sexy but it's consider clothes, so would that be a negative or positive compliment?

Would there be any different if her legs were appeared, like if she was wearing skirt because she might think I'm into her legs! Woow whenever I think about how do girls think I get confused.

[cokestrbl]

It would be a positive yet to some people it can be a negative. I guess you have to get to know the person and sort of joke around with them then you can tell them that and they will be happy about it!

She might think you are into her and staring at her legs. But I mean its a compliment she will appreciate it in ways!