Find a girl who isn't shallow and doesn't care about your appearance or your accent. It'll pay dividends when it comes to having an actually GOOD relationship. It'll last much longer than if she's only with you because you're asian.
I'm 20, and I wouldn't care, but I already have a boyfriend ;)
What you hear them saying "I don't find Oriental guys attractive" is just some of them, don't generalize every white girl. Just be confident, groom yourself and approach her and if she's not into you, there are others out there who might find you sexy, funny,etc.
I'm Asian Chinese dude, and I find Caucasian girls super attractive, approach her like how you approach any other girl, dun be shy man! show her the other side of you being fun, sexy, cool person to hang out with!
Even if you know people like half of my friends who are asians who are against it - that's their racist problem and not yours to care. Best of luck dude!
lol yeah all these comments are pretty much right man I'm Vietnamese in America but I've dated more of other races then my own just like black an white guys think Asian girls are hot sexy w/e even fetish the same goes for Asian guy unless she racist never met Asian guy before just try not to be a stereotype like nerdy an weird lol but its cool if you are there is a white girl out there for you the first 5 might not be the one though but don't worry
A lot of non Asian girls are racist and don't understand, or try to understand, Asian culture, so they have a sterotype that Asian guys are nerdy and have no sense of humor, etc.
Try making friends with them and don't ask them out until they know you fairly well, and they can overcome these stereotypes.
Personally I'd just forget them and stick to the beautiful Asian women, but that's just me...
OMG, dude you have it made, its all about confidence! I am a brasilian female and I am married to a filipino man. You can find me on Facebook if you like some more advice on how to get what you really want! I'll help you out. Although my husband would be a better person to ask this because he won ME over lol You can find me on fb, my email address is njchic2104@aol.com. -Nikki ;)
Exactly! It's all in the confidence bro. No need to migrate over here, just believe in yourself, and bring out your inner swagger. A good starting point would be to approach each girl with the attitude of "do I like her", as opposed to "will she like me?". Good luck man
It's not so much your race that repels women.. It's your lack of confidence that throw girls off. Stop looking at things in colors... attraction has no boundaries.
You don't have to be so politically correct. If race doesn't matter, why do white girls always say that they find black guys hot. But they barely say it about Asian guys?
Why are there so many black guys who can get wiht white girls but it's sooo hard for an Asian to do so?
Race and attraction matter more than you may think.
When a white girl says she doesn't like Asian guys, that has nothing to do with my individual confidence. It means she doesn't like Asian guys.
i have seen a lot of white girls who end up with asian guys here in canada , I know there was a recent example in the news ( now a tragic story unfortuently ) but this asian police officer here who was murdered had a white wife who was canadian and he was from vietnam . so it does happen that such hook up and get married .
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all white girls are not the same. some may be into asians, don't blanket them all based on a few you've heard say they don't like asians in that way. and all white girls don't date black guys. there is no reason to be jealous. just be confident and go for a girl that you like, not just because she's white. and remember just because 1 girl didn't like you doesn't mean that all white girls don't like asian guys
In real life a lot of them like black guys and barely any like Asians. Also, when I see questions on here about black guys, the white girls always reply with "black guys are so hot" and stuff like that. You will NEVER see white girls say things like that about an Asian guy.
Sure not all white girls like black guys. But they would more or less always choose a black guy over an Asian guy. That is why I am jealous.
This is going to sound a bit harsh or unfair, but it's honestly about race and genetics. The average size of a man's penis will equal that of the depth of a woman's vagina, according to your race. African's normally have the largest penises and the deepest vaginas; Caucasians and Aryans are in the middle; Asians and those of Oriental decent are usually the smallest. I apologize if this offends anyone, this is not my intention, there are actual scientific facts.
strange. I was born in the U.K and lived there for many years, granted, there were not many Asians around. BUT I knew 3 or 4 that liked Asian men a lot, I don't know why you think they "tend to go for black guys" the ones I know liked white, Asian, or Spanish guys. anyway there are plenty of white girls who would jump at the chance to date you.
oh, and btw many American girls love the British accent, or they hate it.
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Honestly you're not a bad looking guy at all (judging by your icon) so I don't know why you're so hard on yourself. Just be confident and shake off rejections because it happens, right? Guys have to be willing to put themselves out there.
I think you're going for the wrong type of girls.
If you're severely lacking in the self-esteem department, girls won't find you attractive.
I actually think your kind of cute.. and british accent? *win* Be confident, be out-going, and you'll find someone. Smiles are important, and so is personality, so make sure to be charming, but not cocky. Hope this helps!
Haha yeah we DO love guys with British accents! But I don't think you should have to move to find a girl. Try hanging out with new people. Surely you'd find someone who likes you. I don't look at a guy and say ooo he isn't attractive just because he is asian or black or any other ethnicity. If you're cute, you're cute. No matter what ethnicity you are. And someday you will find a girl who feels that way! P.S. You are cute! So don't think that's the problem either. Just try meeting new people!
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Dont buy into the stero type, you can find someone who is into the person not the ehtnicity, its part appearance, but its part mental attraction, true you may find a lot of girls who aren't interested in you but some are, just need to find them. You can probably find a girl to date, but if you are a jerk they will stop seeing you..
Im from the USA and I'm a white girl and I think Asian guys are soooooo sexy and hot! I'm obsessed with them and I have plenty of friends that agree...and did you say you have a British accent? Omg You sound perfect to me! Asians are look so exotic and mysterious to me. I would try the US...I guarantee there's plenty of girls that would love U.
Just talk to them. If they say "I only like white guys" then come up with something witty to say back to her. Just try not to worry about it and have fun with things. Being carefree will shine through
I realize that, but do you realize how much farther ahead with these things you are than me? I've just recently (in the last 3-4 months) quit even so much as worry about girls. I'd have to say that it's helped me focus on me. Try to figure all your stuff out first, then white/black/latin/etc won't even matter anymore.
You're letting their opinions get to you. Just accept that people have different preference and it doesn't mean they don't wanna date you because your Asian. The Caucasians are always on the top preference. I'm sure there are girls who prefer Asians because they have unique taste. Asians aren't common there so there has to be.
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Find a girl who isn't shallow and doesn't care about your appearance or your accent. It'll pay dividends when it comes to having an actually GOOD relationship. It'll last much longer than if she's only with you because you're asian.
I'm 20, and I wouldn't care, but I already have a boyfriend ;)
Everybody is different! There are white girls out there who would be attracted to you.
Just don't set yourself up for failure! "Oh I like her, but she's white so she won't like me" is not the way to think.
Be confident and you will find a girl who appreciates who for it.
What you hear them saying "I don't find Oriental guys attractive" is just some of them, don't generalize every white girl. Just be confident, groom yourself and approach her and if she's not into you, there are others out there who might find you sexy, funny,etc.
I'm Asian Chinese dude, and I find Caucasian girls super attractive, approach her like how you approach any other girl, dun be shy man! show her the other side of you being fun, sexy, cool person to hang out with!
Even if you know people like half of my friends who are asians who are against it - that's their racist problem and not yours to care. Best of luck dude!
lol yeah all these comments are pretty much right man I'm Vietnamese in America but I've dated more of other races then my own just like black an white guys think Asian girls are hot sexy w/e even fetish the same goes for Asian guy unless she racist never met Asian guy before just try not to be a stereotype like nerdy an weird lol but its cool if you are there is a white girl out there for you the first 5 might not be the one though but don't worry
A lot of non Asian girls are racist and don't understand, or try to understand, Asian culture, so they have a sterotype that Asian guys are nerdy and have no sense of humor, etc.
Try making friends with them and don't ask them out until they know you fairly well, and they can overcome these stereotypes.
Personally I'd just forget them and stick to the beautiful Asian women, but that's just me...
OMG, dude you have it made, its all about confidence! I am a brasilian female and I am married to a filipino man. You can find me on Facebook if you like some more advice on how to get what you really want! I'll help you out. Although my husband would be a better person to ask this because he won ME over lol You can find me on fb, my email address is njchic2104@aol.com. -Nikki ;)
Exactly! It's all in the confidence bro. No need to migrate over here, just believe in yourself, and bring out your inner swagger. A good starting point would be to approach each girl with the attitude of "do I like her", as opposed to "will she like me?". Good luck man
That's a great way of looking at it thompson!
You should simply be yourself and I guarantee u,
u'll find a nice girl.
U shouldn't pay attention to any girl who is so shallow
not to want you just because of your descent!
And by the way, what about the bollywood guys?
Sooo many girls who love them and what are they?
Asian!
It's not so much your race that repels women.. It's your lack of confidence that throw girls off. Stop looking at things in colors... attraction has no boundaries.
She said it...
You don't have to be so politically correct. If race doesn't matter, why do white girls always say that they find black guys hot. But they barely say it about Asian guys?
Why are there so many black guys who can get wiht white girls but it's sooo hard for an Asian to do so?
Race and attraction matter more than you may think.
When a white girl says she doesn't like Asian guys, that has nothing to do with my individual confidence. It means she doesn't like Asian guys.
Easy for her to say..
She's an ASIAN GIRL
They have it MUCH easier than us asian guys.
But anyway, don't give up hope, bro.
i have seen a lot of white girls who end up with asian guys here in canada , I know there was a recent example in the news ( now a tragic story unfortuently ) but this asian police officer here who was murdered had a white wife who was canadian and he was from vietnam . so it does happen that such hook up and get married .
all white girls are not the same. some may be into asians, don't blanket them all based on a few you've heard say they don't like asians in that way. and all white girls don't date black guys. there is no reason to be jealous. just be confident and go for a girl that you like, not just because she's white. and remember just because 1 girl didn't like you doesn't mean that all white girls don't like asian guys
In real life a lot of them like black guys and barely any like Asians. Also, when I see questions on here about black guys, the white girls always reply with "black guys are so hot" and stuff like that. You will NEVER see white girls say things like that about an Asian guy.
Sure not all white girls like black guys. But they would more or less always choose a black guy over an Asian guy. That is why I am jealous.
Hey..i said you were hott.. that's one tim you heard a white girl say that about an asian guy, right?
This is going to sound a bit harsh or unfair, but it's honestly about race and genetics. The average size of a man's penis will equal that of the depth of a woman's vagina, according to your race. African's normally have the largest penises and the deepest vaginas; Caucasians and Aryans are in the middle; Asians and those of Oriental decent are usually the smallest. I apologize if this offends anyone, this is not my intention, there are actual scientific facts.
strange. I was born in the U.K and lived there for many years, granted, there were not many Asians around. BUT I knew 3 or 4 that liked Asian men a lot, I don't know why you think they "tend to go for black guys" the ones I know liked white, Asian, or Spanish guys. anyway there are plenty of white girls who would jump at the chance to date you.
oh, and btw many American girls love the British accent, or they hate it.
Honestly you're not a bad looking guy at all (judging by your icon) so I don't know why you're so hard on yourself. Just be confident and shake off rejections because it happens, right? Guys have to be willing to put themselves out there.
I think you're going for the wrong type of girls.
If you're severely lacking in the self-esteem department, girls won't find you attractive.
I actually think your kind of cute.. and british accent? *win* Be confident, be out-going, and you'll find someone. Smiles are important, and so is personality, so make sure to be charming, but not cocky. Hope this helps!
Um..thanks =)
Haha yeah we DO love guys with British accents! But I don't think you should have to move to find a girl. Try hanging out with new people. Surely you'd find someone who likes you. I don't look at a guy and say ooo he isn't attractive just because he is asian or black or any other ethnicity. If you're cute, you're cute. No matter what ethnicity you are. And someday you will find a girl who feels that way! P.S. You are cute! So don't think that's the problem either. Just try meeting new people!
Dont buy into the stero type, you can find someone who is into the person not the ehtnicity, its part appearance, but its part mental attraction, true you may find a lot of girls who aren't interested in you but some are, just need to find them. You can probably find a girl to date, but if you are a jerk they will stop seeing you..
Im from the USA and I'm a white girl and I think Asian guys are soooooo sexy and hot! I'm obsessed with them and I have plenty of friends that agree...and did you say you have a British accent? Omg You sound perfect to me! Asians are look so exotic and mysterious to me. I would try the US...I guarantee there's plenty of girls that would love U.
Just talk to them. If they say "I only like white guys" then come up with something witty to say back to her. Just try not to worry about it and have fun with things. Being carefree will shine through
Years of hearing white girls say "I don't like Oriental guys". It is very hard not to worry about it.
@asker- how long have you been these things?
and also how many white girls are you talking about?
i mean.. it can't be the whole world/country, right?
and for the record.. I'm Asian too. lol
I realize that, but do you realize how much farther ahead with these things you are than me? I've just recently (in the last 3-4 months) quit even so much as worry about girls. I'd have to say that it's helped me focus on me. Try to figure all your stuff out first, then white/black/latin/etc won't even matter anymore.
You're letting their opinions get to you. Just accept that people have different preference and it doesn't mean they don't wanna date you because your Asian. The Caucasians are always on the top preference. I'm sure there are girls who prefer Asians because they have unique taste. Asians aren't common there so there has to be.
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