Why are teenage girls attracted to boys?

[Anonymous]

They're physically less developed, and most of the time only care about sex and don't care about emotional attachments...

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I meant why are teenage girls attracted to BOYS and not older MEN, this isn't about sexual orientation!

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So teenage girls like boys because they're "cute"? Well little kids and some animals are "cute" too.

[Anonymous]

Because they have more in common with teen boys at the moment. Also... all the good dudes I know now were good dudes in high school. People don't magically develop good character with age. Yeah, they mature and grow, but their basic nature generally stays similar. High school relationships are a good place to learn love with someone else who is learning. It's like anything - a big gap in experience and skill often makes an activity less enjoyable and productive. It's why you have minor and major leagues in baseball, for instance or beginning and advanced classes.

[Asker]

If I wanted someone I shared stuff in common with I'd go to my friends. I want a hot man not a scrawny boy!

[Opinion Owner]

Plenty of high school guys are built well, from what I remember. Abs everywhere! Though some are scrawny, as they get older more are fat and out of shape. Every she had its pro's and con's.

[tuttilady]

You talk about boys in contrast to older men. You're not mature enough to handle an older guy. If you think teenage guys are only interested in sex try a 25-year-old guy interested in the 17-year-old girl, that is only for sex no matter what they say.
The fact that you are talking about emotional attachment at what I expect an under 19-year-old asks, the fact that you are asking that at such a young age is not a positive. You should be enjoying your life not looking for emotional attachments and melodrama

[Anonymous]

Bc of age group. Nobody wants an older man when they still have the mind of a child themselves. I always found older guys or guys even 3 years older than me with facial hair at the time as pedophiles. I mean, they would be by the time I became a sophomore and the thought of me introducing them to my family, an 18 or older man, gave me nightmares bc it would be shameful and embarrassing if I ever did. I never liked keeping things secret from my family either so it wasn't worth it.

[Falling4UTC]

They're just really cute. I am not a fan of muscular older looking most of the time because I'm small in stature myself and seem young so I feel weird being around people who seem or are older

[Asker]

lol... well, have fun having orgasm-less sex

[Asker]

Little kids are "cute" too... are you a pedophile?

[Falling4UTC]

I'm 16...

[Asker]

A 16 year old being attracted to little kids is still a pedophile.

[Falling4UTC]

I dont have sex and you're not using the same definition of cute as I am. I meant they're attractive without having to be super manly, not they're actually adorable and I want to squeeze their face lol

[Asker]

"not they're actually adorable and I want to squeeze their face"
A lot of teenage girls DO go by that definition

[Falling4UTC]

I know when my friends talk about guys who are hot they say "he's really cute" BC hot sounds kind of sexual. I don't know it sounds more casual to call a guy cute, just like how guys call girls pretty instead of hot

[Anonymous]

Adult men are even less tolerant of less sexual relationships than teenage boys are.

And to be honest, I knew more guys who wanted just sex at 30 than at 16. Most but not all teens I knew actually wanted a girlfriend and a relationship - only a few guys who were both popular and douchebags just wanted to hookup a lot.

But as guys got older had more crappy relationships and also have more power in the dating Game they got less, not more quick to commit.

[Anonymous]

Some of them do like older guys/Men, but the men don't want to get in trouble and know it's not worth it until she is older/ 18+
Also, most men won't ask out a girl that young 18 or 19 so she would probably have to ask him.

[TheOneAndOnlyBart]

Because teenage girls themselves are physically and emotionally less developed than older women. Go figure.

[LadyTerror]

The same reason teenage boys are attracted to girls.

[AriadneSky]

bc girls want sex and are also not ready for deep commitment. it fits.

[AriadneSky]

and young guys areattractive when you're young. older guys are gross. its like dating an uncle. ew.

[CisScum]

Are you saying teenage girls have to be attracted to girls?

[evelator_253]

she explained it in my opinion ^^

[CisScum]

Well I couldn't understand that. Well considering teenage girls are around what 13-17 which most of that is the illegal age I doubt it would go very far. Besides guys 18+ are also in it for sex. I guess a teenager would have to date someone 30 to get any real progress. But besides even when I was younger I always wanted something other than just sex, just gotta look for mature younger guys and there is some.

[evelator_253]

no i mean i also posted an opinion and she explained it to me

[evelator_253]

that's true tho.

[CisScum]

@evelator_253 Ah ya that's what I meant, I couldn't understand the question so I needed an explanation LOL. I wasn't really trying to "troll". But thanks for pointing that out!

[evelator_253]

XD yw

[SiberianTiger]

The best experience I've ever had was form a teenager when I was a boy though

[Anonymous]

do you think thats why a lot of women are bi? they like women at a younger age, then start to like men, older

[Anonymous]

What a fucking stupid question. My IQ dropped significantly by just reading your question.

[Asker]

Did it drop so low you forgot to answer it?

[Anonymous]

in many countries 13yo girl + 18 yo guy would be illegal

[bizzz]

Because they're immature teenage girls?

[Whaaaaa]

Boys r stupid but cute

[Asker]

You're already 18 so you should be over "boys" by now

[Whaaaaa]

Even older men act like boys

[evelator_253]

one word. puberty.

[evelator_253]

and why wouldn't a teenage girl be attracted to a boy?

[evelator_253]

isn't that called being straight/heterosexual?

[Asker]

I wasn't into boys, I only lusted after older men (I obviously didn't act on it though)

[Gommers]

Most women 18-30 at this point in time are self depreciating their intellectual potential. Most of them are barely above retarded. Somewhere less than half are reasonable, and a very rare few are intellectually capable of holding my attention. Of those rare few almost all of them are hippies or druggies and they're out if they're oppressively vegan.

The future has one chance, and your generation can be the ones to save us. Don't strive to be like your older siblings in that age range, aim to be the exact opposite and your generation will have a viable chance.

[evelator_253]

what?

[Asker]

Ignore the troll, just respond to my comment:
"I wasn't into boys, I only lusted after older men (I obviously didn't act on it though)"

[Gommers]

The fact that this question exists should be an indicator that you shouldn't strive to be like someone the asker's age.

Save yourself while you still can.

[evelator_253]

i don't know, why did you do it?

[Asker]

@Gommers What?

[evelator_253]

it might be because the guys born around a girl's year are unattractive or still going through puberty.
and she finds them gross or..

[evelator_253]

is he talking to me?

[Asker]

Older men have fully developed male bodies unlike teenage boys, and they're more interested in actual relationships too

[evelator_253]

and don't worry, Gommers. I only have a romantic interest in guys born at most 3 years older than me.

[evelator_253]

yeah that could be why.

[Gommers]

I'm just telling you not to contribute to the stupidity that my generation has developed. Really, begging you.

[evelator_253]

not all of us are like that?

[Gommers]

You're not part of my generation, and well over half of the women in my generational grouping are.

[Asker]

How old is your current and past boyfriends?

[evelator_253]

who? me?

[Asker]

Yes...

[evelator_253]

I'm 13...

[evelator_253]

and i only had one when i was 12, he's a few months younger than me but still the same year

[Asker]

12? And he's a few months YOUNGER? A lot of boys haven't even lost their voices at that point! How did you maintain an attraction? And I know you're 13, but the fact you're on GaG implies you're interested in dating.

[evelator_253]

I'm born early in the year.

[evelator_253]

i broke up with him a few days later becuase i realized i didn't like him. and I'm not interested in dating atm, it's on my profile that I'm "taking a break"

[Lighskinboy]

why don't you eat a raw steak?

[Polocrew]

Tf u talking about, I'm 6'3 228

[Anonymous]

lol u dumb