If you’ve been following me by now you should know I get tons of guys, guys approach me all the time, I do nothing special, but girls who say themselves that they have been told by people that they are attractive still struggle with guy attention and barely get approached by them? Even girls I know that I think are pretty don’t get as much attention as me? Why?
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Whoa that’s a good amount of girls that’s struggling
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I get a lot of attraction as soon as I walk in the room.
and I don't do anything special but You will never catch me looking a hot mess. I have people who I never even see before saying hey beautiful I see you all the time and im like well there was nothing creepy about that. *that the shit you really should keep to yourself"
Seriously I think it because I have no fucks. It can not be because of my shining smile and happy go luck tude. Im none of those things and I wear mostly black and I still stand out.
But I do make direct eye contact and it can get pretty intense... I think some guys see that as a come catch me if you can. when I'm being my normal serious self _-_ get me free coffee and stuff though. Especially if I can muster a smile...
My friends hate/love me because they want my confidence and style clear skin etc. and im like... Just stop caring what others think and focus on what you think and you will excel at being the best you.
But I won't lie it feels good to turn a group of guys heads when im walking back... during those time I do wink cause you know im flatter.
I also wear a lot of shorts skirts... well because I got long legs and love to show them off
I would consider myself pretty cute, but nothing majorly sexy. I've had guys flirt with me quite a bit these last two weeks which is unusual compared to normal. I would have to say it would be my personality change that's caused this? Just because I've become happier with myself and who I am. I'm happier and that shows in what I do as opposed to before. So may maybe just rocking a different confidence level and being super friendly?
It barely happens no one approaches me in general I am always alone people tell me I'm weird even though I am quiet or crazy because they don't understand my anxiety
Change your username - give yourself more confidence. That'll help. If you think you're ugly, then find specific qualities you like about yourself. Your teeth. Your smile, how your eyes look, face shape, legs, hair, anything. List 5 good things about them and it'll help you glow and focus less on what you don't like about yourself.
That's a possibility, but I'm earning this amount for over a year and this has just started happening in the last months or so. And now I'm in Prague for work with a couple of female colleagues and they want to have an evening out 😂😂
It obviously has to do with how good you look. But even if you’re attractive, guys might be discouraged if you don’t pay any attention or just seem dismissive.
Also, just because she’s “told by people” that she’s attractive, doesn’t mean she’s an eyecatcher.
Probably depends on the guy. When a girl simply smiles at me, I already start considering her as a future partner. Hasn't worked out yet though. Either it was just an innocent smile or I'm just retarded.
Yes, that is exactly what persona means. One need not know you on a personal level to get a feel for your personality. Even from a distance men and women can in a moment observe you to likely be more 'open' or friendly. More easily approached then perhaps than your equally pretty friends you surround yourself with. Quiet and shy doesn't work for men nor women where attraction comes into play. If it did, a large number of the quiet shy types would be posting something other than matters of depression and of being alone. My friend, he's a good guy with a solid career and all that jazz... but he is quiet and even if gals try talking with him, he can be a bump on a log, which is self defeating. Who gets excited about that? He's very slowly breaking from his shell, but still, just how things go, the gregarious get more attention.
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