Why do guys fall for some girls but not others?

[shaysh87]

Online dating for many years. I can say I've had many guys who had fallen for me. Out of every 10 guys i meet, 8 would fall for me. On the other hand, i have heard girls complaining that its so hard to find a guy that likes them. I just feel like its weird cuz i never really had a similar problem with guys.

[FilmGuy93]

That's just how personal chemistry works.

[Zolly99999]

Personality will make or break a person.

[caring__1]

There are various reasons guys would pass on an opportunity with a girl. The first would be the girl appears unapproachable. A simple smile or look can let people know she is receptive. Showing interest in the guy, rather than expecting him to read her mind and approach her is also very helpful. Though some guys like girls with attitude, it can be a turnoff to many guys. Any extreme behavior is more likely to limit your options than increase them. Next, show an interest in self-care, but don't focus on hiding behind fancy makeup, hair, nails and clothing. It's not like these fancy coverups hide lack of basic self-care. Next, never expect of another what the other can't expect of you. Stop believing it is the guy's place to initiate everything. Also, Prince Charming will not be knocking on your door. Put yourself in situations to allow people to get to know you... as a total package, not just for single aspects. What you get from a relationship is highly related to what you bring to the relationship. Be an active equal participant.

[shaysh87]

We aren't talking about approaching or making a first move. Im talking about during dates

[caring__1]

Even during dates, guys can tell when a girl is interested or just expecting to be entertained. If he feels she is just in it for herself, he'll reciprocate in kind and just focus on whatever he wants. If a girl wants a guy to stay interested, it's important for her to show interest in him. Be curious without interrogating. Be as relaxed as possible rather than rigid or standoffish. Guys like to be touched by girls, but they don't generally like clinging girls. Be easy to talk with, and never be judgmental or push your agenda onto the guy. Show depth with your communication. Showing jealousy or talking about other guys will cause him to lose interest quickly. Complaining, criticizing, blaming, accusing or gossiping are also turnoffs. Learn to read guys, so you can determine when you're pushing too hard or holding back too much. By being observant, it becomes easier to tell what is working and what isn't working. Make healthy choices.

[Lionman95]

it´s hard to say because it´s the misterious side of love why some people get likes and others don´t but online dating makes dating harder in general because it concentrates dating completely in shallow factors mostly looks and choice of photos. Truth to be told if you´re not good looking, there´s no chance for you to win in this situation. Because a guy judges you depending on the way you look not matter what kind of qualities you might have.
For me one factors that made me down a woman was an uncreative profile text instead telling something about themselves many women wrote their sentence: "This text is in process have patience."
"Not creative enough for a creative text?"/ "Don´t know what to put in here..."
Some just write contact infos like insta accounts or snapchat IDs or other similar accounts
I don´t know about but for me something like this is a turn-off because I feel like she didn´t take time to think what to write in there.
Where if not bio text is your chance to show me other sides of you than in the photos. It´s a chance many women miss and so as a guy you just have her pics.
But generally I was also one of the people who got lost in online dating and I think the future will be that many if not most people will be single or playing in fwbs rather than be in relationships because of the rising self-entitlement and expectations guys and girls have in each other.

[DannyUk2017]

All guys fall for "other woman".
The thing is it goes both ways... If in convo He ask to see Cleavage (after a good while talking), he is stereotyoed as a sex freak/harrases...
If she asks to see his c**k and he is "not in to thise things, then He sterotypes Her as a s**t/sex freak, so they both end up finishing chatting, giing for one another... so i think is vice-versa all the time... Depends of the other things also, such as... Mood, time, type... etc

[genericname85]

out of 10 guys you met 8 would fall for you and you call that "not many that have fallen for you". what? you should try being a man and like 1 in 100 or 1 in 1000 falling for you. that's when you know what "not many" is xD

[Tommy789]

Wow! I always scratch my head when I hear that, usually it seems harder for guys to find a woman who likes them.

[shaysh87]

Not really. Its just that men are more desperate so they seek more than women. When you seek more, you get rejected more

[In_Trance]

For the same reason girls fall for some guys but not others

[darealkevin]

Either 1 they personality/looks are a turn off; or they say they can’t find no one because their expectations are too high

[Guardian45]

Why do girls fall for some men but not others?