How come some guys get girlfriends easily while other guys don't?

[Anonymous]

And what can a guy do to increase his chances at getting better results?

[Aysen]

Attraction and charisma are the main keys to success when it comes to finding a boyfriend/girlfriend but everyone has a different version of what they consider to be "attractive". From my experience and what I researched, people will either look for a casual relationship that requires little/no responsibility for easy intimacy/sex or they want a serious relationship with all strings attached for a long term commitment. Finding a date isn't the struggle; it's finding someone who's compatible to what you're looking for.

Girls mainly look for a guy who cares about them, has a great personality, is able to be independent financially/emotionally and/or wants to spend quality time with them. The more you get yourself out there with dating people, the increased chances there are of you finding that one girl who matches mostly, if not everything you're looking for! Feeling no confidence in yourself? Analyze yourself and see what needs improvement. Having trouble finding someone? Write down the qualities you want for a girlfriend and narrow down your searches. Feeling shy about confronting people? Practice in a mirror or with someone you trust to become more outgoing and more charismatic!

Doing research will also help increase your odds of finding a girlfriend. I honestly don't believe it comes down to luck but to those who work hard to give themselves a good impression to whoever they meet! Hope this helps with your question since getting a girlfriend isn't always a cakewalk for everyone.

[YvanKarma]

1. They have looks

2. Got money, or got rich parents etc etc lol

3. They have that IT factor:
by them having charisma
or just simply being educated, which is an attraction.
By them being tall
or simply are just interesting enough, which is pretty much the same as having charisma.

4, OR, they kept their standards low and don`t really go for the trophy type girls/women

Those are the only reasons i can think of to why some guys get girls/women easy, and others don`t due to them lacking those features above

[LoveLife0812]

It's all about charisma. Some guys just have it, but others don't. You must behave openly and in a friendly way, do not be obsessive and intrusive, don't be forced and try to find an approach to the girl through friendship first

[windknowsmyname]

i dont know man, they come to me, i dont trust there motives, i typically treat them with respect and treat them as though as if i already know them. i say things and do things that are very energetic. also i dont put them above me nor pay 100% attention to them. with all that, they jus come to me.

[winterfox10]

I think that it's partially a numbers game, but there's also an element of charisma, and general playfulness. The guys I know who have the most success with women are really playful. considering the guys women often go for, it doesn't seem that too much else matters besides playfulness...

[Lance1965]

I have no idea exactly. I am a ugly guy with not much money and I have never found it hard to date someone. Often these dates don't go anywhere but meeting them has never been a problem. I think numbers have a lot to do with it. Meet only one women a month and your chances are very low. Meet 10 women a month and your chances for success go through the roof.

[mrbobz]

I will let Rod speak for us

https://youtu.be/sY2WIFGQttE

[Liam_Hayden]

I can always get a date. Too many guys strike out a few times and give up. I don't care how many K's I have because I know I will eventually connect.

[Anonymous]

Being better looking might have something to do with it.

[jacquesvol]

They easily ID girls they can influence.