How do some guys get girlfriends so easily?

[Anonymous]

While other guys struggle a lot just to get one, there's guys out there who get all the girls like its nothing. For them its super easy

[Oliverlogan263]

There's a few things that can give some guys an easier time getting girls:

- Looks - Harsh but true, really good looking dudes will obviously draw more interest just based on that. Girls notice a hot face and body.

- Confidence - Some guys just exude confidence in themselves. They don't come across as needy or desperate. Girls like that vibe.

- Social skills - Popular guys who are good at talking to anyone, making people laugh, hosting parties and events, they meet a lot more girls through social circles.

- Wealth/status - Obviously having money or being really successful in sports/business/whatever can make you stand out in a good way to potential girlfriends too.

- Experience - Guys who dated a lot learn what works and doesn't work to attract girls smoother over time. Newer guys are still figuring things out.

- Luck - Sometimes it just comes down to being in the right place at the right time and hitting it off. Can't force that kind of thing.

For those of us not dealt the best hand in those categories, we just gotta work harder on being our best self, putting ourselves out there, taking chances respectfully, and learning from any rejections. Gotta kiss some frogs before finding the princess, ya know?

[OtterMan68]

1) they're good looking
2) they're confident
3) they know what women want to hear

[kylee2437]

A lot of them are great with words and women easily get sucked into it. Don’t worry, those men equally have flaws like you.

[Asker]

Damn...

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Finding the best ones can still be extremely difficult. I did all right when I was a bachelor despite being a nerdy goofball but the way I did it was to mingle very aggressively.

If I was at a bar, nightclub, social event like a friend's home party, business party, etc, I talked to everyone (men and women). I was genuinely interested in talking to every single person there. I wasn't there to pick up women.

So typically along the way of having a great time and talking to almost every single person in the building, it wasn't uncommon that I find myself in an engaging conversation with a pretty girl and then it just naturally followed that I ask her out.

Same thing with friends. A lot of guys focused on the fact back them that I always seemed to have a girlfriend but they overlooked that I also made a lot of friends and acquaintances easily. My strategy wasn't to be the smoothest guy or deliver awesome pick-up lines. I lacked the good-looks and charm and smoothness. So I just showed up at a place looking to have a good time and talk to every single person I can there.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Also don't stand next to super good-looking and taller guys than you at social events. The girls will all flock to him. It's better to have no wingman than a wingman who is way more charming and good-looking. So avoid standing next to such guys. If you stand next to a guy, stand next to one that's shorter or less charming or both. That actually helps in my experience.

Lots of girls (and guys) seem to judge how cool someone relative to the people standing next to them. It seems to be a defect in our psychology. We don't evaluate this in absolute ways as much as relative. So just knowing who to stand next to can help a lot.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Be a decent guy with a lot of friends. Have a decent career. Be a good communicator. Being aware of your green flags will give you confidence and then work on your red flags. Good women are looking for good men and if you are a good man with lots of friends, your friends will try to set you up the moment your single. That's what happened to me.

[IDoNotConsent]

The only requirement to get a girlfriend is to find a girl who consents to you being her boyfriend.

[Asker]

Wow genius advice

[IDoNotConsent]

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