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I don't think you should believe the videos because I can't be sure whether they are staged or not, so just let me give you some advice.
I've been approached by guys in public many times. Some are successful, some are not. As humans we all make a judgment on our first seconds of seeing someone, and then later on once they start talking and we observe their body language we make a second judgement.
These first impressions are vital. You will get categorised one of three ways, either a threat, forgettable or there may be some attraction.
I think the first think you need to do is be prepared for failure. It's a bit risky when approaching a stranger. If you don't expect anything to come out of it, then you won't feel let down, and that way you can behave in a confident manner without being nervous - likelihood is - you won't see them ever again. That way if you get rejected, you just accept it graciously.
Secondly, you need to make sure you look a bit appealing. If you are dressed too down, in dirty or baggy clothes, looking a bit rough, you don't look very attractive. It's not necessary to put in a huge effort, just make sure you are clean and presentable.
Approaching someone it very difficult, overconfident and you appear threatening, nervous and you lack sex appeal. You can't be too persistent because that's a turn off, but you also have to seem interested. So I can't really provide any fool proof advice, except I will tell you about two times where I met men who really knew what they were doing.
I was walking around Oxford street, London doing some shopping I passed a man who was sat on a bench who tried to catch up with me. He said Hey a couple times and I stopped walking. I think he was slightly nervous because he actually waited a bit to catch his breath. It's hard to recall, but I think he said something like 'I saw you walk past, and I thought you had great style, I just thought I had to come talk this pretty girl.' What he said worked because he had clearly taken the time recognise that I'm very into fashion and mentioned it so I was very happy. He was tentative when he said it, but also confident, he was looking me in the eye properly. We introduced ourselves, and after like 5 mins of conversation my bags were actually slipping off my shoulder and he helped me hook them back on again and touched my bare shoulder. From that, there was actually a great deal of sexual tension. Then he said he had to dash somewhere, so took my number and left. I've always felt that he really knew what he was doing, because he was mysterious, confident, not overbearing. And from knowing him now... yes he knows what he's doing. This guy is a bit of a player. We had a fling for like a month or two, but now we're actually really close friends. And he introduced my to my current boyfriend, which was great.
Even though we didn't end up a couple or anything like that, I was definitely nuts about him for awhile. And his strategy is very good, as I've seen.
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I’m pretty sure those videos are either fake (scripted) or edited to not show the rejections. Picking up girls is really just a numbers game. You miss every shot you don’t take. If you’re a moderately attractive guy with a moderately pleasant personality then there’s basically a 50/50 chance that girls will be receptive of your advances. The more girls you talk to the more girls you’ll hit it off with. Just have the confidence to approach women. Be polite. And accept the rejection gracefully if they’re not interested.
I want to start by saying I'm a big fan of these guys, the Dropout crew little' Joe there, and Juan. And I know my pranks and I know for a fact these guys do not fake pranks, they are dead set against it very principled on the matter, and as a prank fan I can quite easily tell staged pranks from genuine pranks. Not that you said or implied this but there's always some douchebag calling pranksters phonies without looking into the matter or knowing what the hell they're talking about. You want fake prankster hit up Trollstation, Fouseytube, Roman and Vitaly; the more popular ones, because as with most things the masses prefer the unimaginative fake option to the hard earned real.
So now that's out of the way, yes they film all day and cut loads out. Occasionally they upload outtakes. That said, it's not difficult to work out that these guys are confident, they have a degree of charisma that comes with that, they don't take themselves too seriously, they are not afraid of rejection, they're brave.. but there's also a degree of camaraderie.. I reckon I could give it a crack and eventually score if I had little' Joe, Steve Schapiro, Big Daws, Kid Febreze and Lara Fraser egging me on. The fact they have a crew motivating them and that they want to prove themselves too is probably a factor too.
The irony is that most of these guys are actually with someone so they don't actually get with the girls in the videos.. even they get their numbers and everything and then they have to say it's for a video they get the vocal release and everything and they're not really looking to hookup or whatever. I always think the girls seem to take it surprisingly well when they find out that.. if a girl came up to me and wanted my number then said it's just for a video I'd be like "ohhh.. haha.. yeah, funny.. ha.. ha.. so.. fun.. [god damn it]"
Yoyoyo. L-Dawg in the house. Educating the motherfuckers on Gag!
Check out Steven Schapiro's videos too.
To answer your question.
It's just practice. A huge amount of balls. Not giving a shit. And expecting (not getting unduly affected) by what will be a huge amount of failure. If you're going to go up to women, you should expect and be okay with a huge amount of failure and rejection. If you expect to talk to women, and for things to be rosy and movie like, then you're going to be in perpetual disappointment mode. Not least because even if the woman is attractive and nice , you won't necessarily have anything in common or any kind of chemistry. That's why you should be as casual and non-expectant about it as much as possible. You should set yourself some small reasonable realistic challenges. Say to talk to a few girls who give you a good vibe or look at you on a night out. The other thing is, a lot of those guys won't hugely care if they get rejection. Take Steven, I'm sure he has his own girlfriend, and is pretty comfortable in his life. A rejection won't make or break him.
Also, people need to stop saying those videos are fake. Some will be fake. But there's not really that much huge benefit to faking those vid's. There's no reason why they can't be done in real life.
I remember talking to one super hot Aussie on a night out, bloody shaking inside I was!
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It fake these girls are paid off Craigslist and are usually aspiring actresses desperate for money most the time given a script and go home after they get their money.
I hate videos like this because it gives young naive men the complete wrong idea about women and sets them up for disappointment. Most women are brutal when it comes to men approaching them and its risky as hell for a man to do something like that. One of 4 things will happen, she will tell you to fuck off, get scared and think your gonna try and rape her , think your a over confident fuck boy or give you their number is your extremely good looking.
I wouldn't say these videos are fake but its probably because the girls didn't want to come off mean and felt intimated so probably gave a fake number and it's also not hard to get a girl on a college campus. Most College students /uni students will fuck anything.
Up vote because of brutal honesty and I love the avatar. Freaking cute dog lol.
Okay so I'm ugly and need to avoid women?
@Red_Dawn94 no i have no idea what you look like but you gotta play the slow game with women realistically. Get to know a girl, become friendly without getting yourself in the friend zone. Let her get to know your best self and if she isn't interested it wasn't ment to be and someone better will come along.
@Red_Dawn94 Probably
There thats what I look like so no you know how ugly i am
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That is fake fake fake fake.
I don’t care if it’s uncut or people claim they don’t like fake videos. It’s obviously fake a video can be uncut and fake. They just plan it before hand.
It was so fake they all suck as actors and he is REALLY obnoxious. I wouldn’t talk to a guy telling me he likes me when he doesn’t know me. Just shows all he cares about. That he can’t tell the difference between liking and physical attraction. He’s dumb. Also he’s very annoying in the way he says hello -all frenetic. #PASS
Just watched the second video. (The dwarf might be getting pity.)
I believe this 100%. They probably edited out some failures, but it's not that hard if you think of it. He's probably hitting on college freshmen who are extremely impressionable and not too paranoid. I can't say I was this smooth, but I got enough numbers (back in the day) from total strangers to know it's not impossible. When I was about 18, I worked a festival booth at an all girls school. Like shooting fish in a barrel...
Guys like girls and girls like guys. It's like a pair of magnets.
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To be honest, it's better to be with someone with deeper interests than "Hey you look nice!"
It wasn't until I got into my late 20's that I had better relationships with girls.
If it's just about "losing those awkward teenage blues", then it's not so great.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGLyFYMsmqA
Thatwasepic guy actually approaches girls in university/college because it’s considered a social place for them and easily will interact and look for new friendships. If he would go to a club or any other place that adults socialize at it would be much harder because then girls will consider more his personality , his appearance and his social and economic standard. In my opinion. You shouldn’t be looking for “girls” you should be looking for the girl whom you will marry and have a family with because that’s life and that’s gonna make you comfortable in more ways. Yes people talk bullshit about marriage but they always forget to talk about the good things in their life. Now , where to find that girl? You socialize. Meaning that girls are humans too. You need just to make new friends and get to know new people. When you find the right girl for you marry her and please don’t make girls whom you’re not getting married with become pregnant or tamper with there feelings. We’re all humans.
No the videos aren't fake. Yes they cut footage of them being outright rejected (those people wouldn't agree to be on camera anyways). Most importantly, this isn't "picking up girls", these are just number closes. Girls will often give out their number, because it's a nice way to end the interaction. At least half those numbers will flake, especially if the interaction wasn't memorable. Since these interactions are so short, I doubt they would qualify as memorable. It's kinda sad how many people will just shout FAKE, because it doesn't match their reality.
You could even tell that the girls in the first video were feeling sorry for the dwarf
I'm little suspicious with those clips. most likely a lot of cuts.
Apart of that.
It is that easy today since very few if at all goes up like that because of how society is developing. especially on campus since vast majority is single and are open for what ever in that age group in that circumstances.
Everything is how you deliver and appear to be, what kind of feelings that got triggered. (sexual feelings usually works best to get anywhere with female's in the short time perspective)
Its basically a con
Step 1 you do some recon and try and fuiger out if she is a girl who can be picked up check for wedding ring and signs she's single and looking and see if you can gain any information like the book she's reading extra
Step 2 you use all the information to craft a approach if she has a book do a quick Google on the plot is she's is wearing a band shirt google the bsnd extra
Step 3 you make your approach and i would suggest if everything goes well just leaving her with a card with your number so she doesn't feel pressured and the ball is in her court
Of course they edit them out. But not all of them. The second guy, I've seen plenty of his other videos, he has been rejected many times. When you feel confident the girls will be more responsive, you won't get nervous or awkward, and even if they reject you, you won't care. The second guy has done it so many times he just laughs off the rejection.
*you know these are clickbaits around 98% of them right? And the short guy talking to girls, girls can have no interest in you and wana be nice and they give you their number and then ignore you.*
A) They're low wage paid actors on youtube. (The girls I mean.)
B) the girls are simply being nice. Do you know how many #'s I get when I approach girls. tons!
From 40 girls, I might end up sleeping with like 4 of them that month.
Girls generally over all the hotter they are men dont approach them. So they like when a guy just talks to them.
*I like you i want you and etc..* its all BS I dont buy it. Its very child like.
Its a mix of both.
Women love confidence. In fact, you'll even have better chance coming off as cocky than you will coming off as down to earth. Approaching a random stranger and flirting with them in a socially calibrated manner comes off as extremely confident.
However, no matter who you are, or how confident you are. Not every woman will find you attractive. Even the greatest modern day casinova will be rejected at least 60% of the time.
You just need to learn to deal with rejection in a healthy manner. Instead of taking it like a peronal insult. There are a million reasons a woman might reject a man, and only 10% of them have to do with the man himself. Just take it curiously and move on to the next woman.
Yes--of course they are only showing you the examples where the succeed! Kind of like how ALL of social media works. Of COURSE the only pics that show up on Instagram have been curated!
You need to get out in the field and practice, practice, practice. You can take inspiration from these vids in terms of things to try out, but YOU need to try them out and work on your delivery and reactions.
Good news is your a freaking Air Force dude! THAT is going to have some cache with a lot of chicks! Not ALL chicks mind you, but for the ones interested in God and country, there's a lot to be said for being a military man! Good luck dude!
This isn't science of stupid TV show where you get to see ugly videos of trial and error. Most often than not, uploads like this are either fake and edited or focusing on result only.
Do not compare yourself with such.
That'd be madness.
Yes; that's exactly it. These men probably got rejected 10-20 times for each girl who was positive to them. They probably spent two or more days filming. Some of them are probably just actresses or the crew's friends, too. Any success with women is partly a numbers game and partly having high market value (tall, good looking, fit, confident, young, etc).
(Holy hell; this post is from 4 months ago? Why are they telling me to fill it out just now, then?)
Yeah lol the rejections aren’t shown, and sometimes it’s staged with a girl they know or pay. But some guys can do it because of how confident they are in themselves and women are really attracted to that because it sparks curiosity wondering what this guy has that makes him so confident, or what about him gives him that fearless way of approaching them.
Also they are descent to good looking guys to some girls so that helps
They are also really comfortable talking to girls and are really smooth talkers and good at flirting. But a lot of that confidence is because your making a video and try to talk to most of the girls you see so who cares when they say no, and if they talk then it’s a game
If you approach women to get with them, then your dependence on the outcome will kill your vibe. But if you approach women without being concerned about the outcome, then you are more likely to be successful. Having said that, in today's METOO culture, your simple approach has the potential to ruin your life. If you think that's worth risking, then go ahead.
Depending where you live, you might succeed but you might also go to jail for herassement lmao it depends on your luck. From my own experience i can say that women like men in uniform, girls like aproachable/funny men in general more then a man in uniform.
I think it's all staged that's why... also I don't know if that is the right way to do it... if a guy came over to me out of no where in public... i would feel uncomfortable if a guy randomly did that in public... would give off the wrong impression of you... you want to meet a girl... you could meet one through a friend, dating site, nightclub or bar?
These looked scripted and painfully acted out. That being said there is one thing that all men who are successful with women have in common, it's attitude. Once you realize that really the worst a girl can do is tell you no it becomes easy to ask them out. Even in the worst case scenario where a woman gets theatrical in her refusal if you play it off like it's no big deal the attitude backfires on them.
We do this really wired thing. We go up and start talking to them, be kind and make them laugh. It's really that easy. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. When it doesn't, don't look at it like you failed. We are not meant for everyone. Just learn from it and live on.
My dad used to say that anyone can get laid at anytime. They just might have to settle.
Go for it and hit on the best looking ones!
I was always ugly and very skinny and dated many WAY out of my league.
I got a real rude rejection once.
I apologized, told her I was gay and thought she was a guy.
She changed her tune and got interested!
Not a bad blowjob for a woman!
Now, get out there and strut your stuff!!
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