My boyfriend likes to smell my dirty panties is this weird?

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redeyemindtricks · Accepted Answer

Ok, so, look, here's the deal.

The fetish of "liking dirty panties" ••ITSELF•• is... sketchy and disreputable, on a gut level, because of what it's USUALLY associated with.
Specifically -- Like 99.7 percent of men with that fetish, are interested in sniffing the dirty panties of STRANGERS (... and a disturbingly high percentage of them are after the panties of UNDERAGE strangers, too... like, in Japan especially there's a whole burgeoning black market for stolen schoolgirl panties, I shit you not).

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On the other hand... This boy likes YOUR smells.
And THAT, my girl... is hot as HELL.

Being attracted to someone's NATURAL smells (as opposed to colognes/perfumes/other artificial smells) is actually a very strong indicator that the attraction between a couple is going to **last** for the long haul. Really... it is.
The sense of smell is HUGELY important in sexual attraction, intimacy, and bonding.

So... If you LIKE this boy... You should do 3 things

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1)

Obviously, you have some misgivings about the panty thing (... understandably enough). Otherwise you wouldn't be posting this question here.

So...
COMMUNICATE with the boy.

If you find this sketchy -- probably because it's USUALLY associated with the disreputable elements I mentioned above -- TELL him this, so that he can understand.

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2)

Give the boy tons and tons and TONS of other ways to... inhale yr smell.

• Watch tv/movies together, and have him put his head on yr lap when you're wearing a skirt... or nothing but leggings.

• Go to the gym together, and, go directly to bed with him without showering first.

• More generally, make a HABIT of going to bed without showering first -- trust me girl, you will be rewarded with sweet, sweet, and LONG-lasting oral pleasure from the boy. Let him spoil you ROTTEN. #fuckyeah

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3)

... Occasionally, give the boy a little of this *actual* fetish (but not so much that it overwhelms you).

• Stuff 'em in his mouth when you two fuck. Ahahah <3

• You think you'll EVER have to do yr own laundry, when you're with this boy? Hahahah not if you're smart, you won't.

Get it.

IvyOp · Accepted Answer

It may not be appealing to people, but it's actually really common. Did you know that in come cultures there are vending machines that sell used panties? Seriously:

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

i've heard guys like to smell a woman's panties but if i knew this i would be creeped say a worker stole my panties so he could sniff them that would be weird

MasterHiruki · Accepted Answer

I never done it myself i didn't know it was that common lol, I never minded my ex's being sweaty even though more than few only like being around me when they were clean. If you don't mind it then let him have it but it might take some getting used to. There is nothing wrong it its just another fetish as long as he isn't doing with other woman you don't him to start used panty raiding lol.

ShortCircuit · Accepted Answer

It's called a panty fetish, and it's more common than you would think.

I think girls look sexy in panties - sometimes even sexier than naked, but smelling them wouldn't do anything for me.

Anyway, you shouldn't worry about it. I mean, if a girl sniffed my boxers, I'd be flattered. Confused, but flattered nonetheless 😂

Anonymous · Answer

Most women don't realize it but your panties collect the most sweat and pharamones along with some discharge from when you get wet down there.
It is not much different from a woman loving the smell of her man after he went to the gym. I have heard that a lot of women find that they are usually turned on more when both them and their partner come back from the gym and have sex before showering.

btbc92 · Answer

Sorta, but not really. It's not your dirty panties he likes. It's the pheromones that's in between all that smell. The same way you would react under all of that sweat from a guy.

MadeInAmerica · Answer

Yes I think so, however their are webistes (I think in Japan) where people can buy soiled or used women underwear.

airborne532 · Answer

I smell my friends sisters panties whenever I get the chance

JustCallMeLeon · Answer

I've done that a couple of times. I like how my girl smells down there. I've also seen my girl doing the same. ;) Nothing to be ashamed of.

Wingedz · Answer

In japan we put it in our mouth and eat them for lunch.  . . . . . . . . . (just kidding for god sake who would do that)

RegularTK421 · Answer

It's weird. That's behaving like an animal or a dog, fuck all that. I say leave him now, cause that's some creepy stalker shit.

10dsw · Answer

Lol there's a website called Pantydeal that sells used panties right here in North America

CyberToothTiger · Answer

If it makes you uncomfortable you need tell him, i really never saw the need to smell any of my ex girlfriends panties.

jman46241 · Answer

Not something that I do, but if it doesn't bother you then I guess it's not weird.

AtomicCheesing · Answer

I have smelled her pits after she has not showered for more than a day. I can't judge.

tazman2908 · Answer

i have done it only to girls i am seeing never just some stranger or another worker

Anonymous · Answer

Very much as they smell like you and it's a really big turn on.

cupidkisses · Answer

it is weird in my opinion. he must have a kind of fetish

ColinHarvey · Answer

No, that's normal, ask if he wants you to piss in his teeth too.

Anonymous · Answer

It's not weird. You should play with yourself and get them all wet for him first.

Anonymous · Answer

no, why would it be weird. he's your boyfriend. he shouldn't weird you out. if he does, then why are you with him?

Wonderer89 · Answer

Kind of odd... each to their own though 😊

CapnHawk · Answer

Panty sniffing is nothing new.

SarahsSummer · Answer

A. but Not for this website...

Anonymous · Answer

kick him! i would never do such thing with my girlfriend.

billytrash · Answer

It’d be weird if he didn’t

PiuBravoRagazzo · Answer

It's ok you weird if you don't smell his

SteamBuns · Answer

Nope. Wait... I think I'm just fxcked up

ASEXY · Answer

That's weird and gross...

itamario · Answer

not really, smell is also a stimulant

cooldude25 · Answer

I love sniffing panties.

Ephemera1 · Answer

That's weird bro

Anonymous · Answer

No.. i like doing that, too :)

zombiebabe · Answer

it sounds weird

Decentguy · Answer

its normal

Anonymous · Answer

Very common.

TonyRyanAgain · Answer

Yup, that's gross.

My boyfriend likes to smell my dirty panties is this weird?

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