Girls, you see an attractive guy you've never spoken to, do you get turned on?

[Anonymous]

I've been debating this for a couple hours or so now and starting to question if I'm normal lol.

If I see a guy I think is physically attractive, I want to talk to him and I get nervous/butterflies around him. I don't get turned on though. A random guys naked body doesn't turn me on either. I only get turned on if it's a guy I have a crush on or some sort of emotional connection with. Even then he has to get me in the mood by saying/doing something. It can be something as simple as "f*ck my life", "wouldn't you like me to", but he still has to put the thought into my head.

I won't just randomly start thinking about him in that way. I don't think I've ever actually fallen for someone just for looks either. Usually the "obviously attractive" guys are the ones I ignore. I might think he's hot but I don't make an effort with them unless I'm feeling confident. I've always fallen for my friends.

Is this normal because apparently this means I'm demisexual? I thought most girls were like this? D:
Also, bonus question: what is the difference for you in terms of "feelings" when you see an attractive girl compared to an attractive guy?

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+1 y

After feelings are established on both sides though or I'm in a relationship with the guy, I get turned on just thinking of him getting out of the shower or seeing a tiny little bit of skin. He can be fully clothed and I'll think he is sexy as hell and want him right there and then. Even me being naked around him gets me incredibly turned on. My boyfriend actually calls me a sex pest lol. I'm just referring to BEFORE emotional feelings are involved.

[Anonymous]

Yes you are demisexual. A demisexual person never feel sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.

I guess you want to say, if you are not in a relationship with a guy or don't have a crush on or some sort of emotional connection with them then you are not feel turned on by them? But once emotional connection build then you find same person as a turn on? LOL

Definitely you are demisexual...
What's wrong with it baby?

[Asker]

I just don't think of someone in that way straight away. I like people for their personality and physical contact/sex is something that comes afterwards.

[Opinion Owner]

Personality isn't gender specific traits. So, you can like girls for their personality and then want physical contact/sex with them? If you don't distinguish your feelings when you see girls and guys before an emotional connection then you are not heterosexual. For heterosexuals they can feel attraction to their opposite based solely on appearances, if they don't feel it then they aren't heterosexual.

[Anonymous]

I don't get turn on when I see attractive girls. But I feel attraction. But if random attractive guys or attractive naked guys don't excite you and if you only get turned on if it's a guy you have some sort of emotional connection with then you are Demisexual.
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A question
How often did you see random guys naked body in real life? Do you ever see them naked?

[Elastephen]

No. I might think to myself that he's cute and it ends there. I like to observe a person's attitude because I'm not going to be dating a pretty face if decided to approach. Anyhow, I've got control over my urges lol

[bunanababa]

it's normal. i am like that as well!