When we men see a woman we find hot, we get a tingling pleasurable sensation down there and a desire or craving in the mind to do something sexual with her; that's a clear sexual attraction.
Most girls say they don't feel any such attraction by visual stuff and that any significant sexual attraction follows only after there's an emotional connection. But they say they find handsome guys with a good face and fit body attractive and call them hot. And they say they'd like to date guys in good shape.
So, when women look at a so called hot guy, do they just admire the aesthetic appeal just like anybody would admire a fit, athletic racehorse with some muscle definition and good proportions more than a fat, silly-looking pony, without any sexual attraction involved? Or is there at least a little bit of sexual attraction involved when girls simply look at a guy with attractive features and a masculine physique? Obviously straight women feel sexual attraction towards men in some way and that is what makes them straight, but from simply looking at a hot guy alone, do you girls physically feel any sexual attraction like guys do? at least a little bit?
Girls, do you feel no sexual attraction physically when you simply see a "hot" guy?
Some girls definitely do experience something with just physical attraction because that's why we have one night stands, so its definitely not something with all women.
I can find someone attractive enough to know I would be up for dating, or going out with him. I dont get horny until I have actual feelings for him. Think of it this way, there's a difference between finding someone physically attractive and actually loving rhem. You can find about 10 girls physically attractive in a room but there's only one you might fall in love with, she will mean a lot more to you. Thats how it is for being horny over a guy. You dont just feel horny for a handsome face or nice body. I might smile at a guy if he's attractive and I want his attention, but until he means something more to me I dont want to just jump into bed with him
When I say a guy is hot, it means I am attracted to him. he's gorgeous to look at. I dont get horny, just excited over an attractive man, who I would like to get to know more of. It could just be a crush but that doesn't mean I'll get horny for him anytime soon, not unless he shows interest in me and we actually want to move forward.
@Psychosocial hell no. Looks are great but they don't do much in making me horny, thats a combination of things that includes chemistry, a bond , a good personality, etc
@Raja54 im not sexually attracted to women. I used to find lesbian porn a turn on when I first started watching porn because it was all so new to me, but it didn't last, it got old. I haven't been into it for years.
If I do watch porn, I like to see the guy being excited and really into it, if he doesn't seem like he's having enough fun I won't want to watch it.
Horny as in aching for contact and would crawl in to bed with them if asked? no. But a good looking man is nice for the imagination.
That being said, I've also had lustful thoughts about a man I found to be kind. A man I've seen regularly interact with his kids at the park. And another who is always smiling and has a great attitude with life. None of them look like that.
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When you have such lustful thoughts about a man you like, does it just feel nice on a mental level or does it cause some physical sensation of pleasure in any way?
I think women do get physically aroused (wet), but the man needs to be like a 9 out of 10 before that happens. Like a Jason Momoa, Michael B Jordan, or a Chris Hemsworth type.
What makes us wet is observing something about his character. You need to understand something about women. Attraction/desire is linked to respect. When he does something we respect, it makes us feel attraction to him. When we care about him and he talks about something passionately, takes charge of a situation, protects us from something, that makes us wet.
His physique doesn’t. We need to get to know him and and he us.
Arousal is VERY psychogical/mental to women. The men who understand this, win at life.
We do get that feeling. Girls are experts at denying their sexuality, and many women actually don't recognise that sensation for what it is. I read a study where women exposed to porn said that they weren't horny, when physical tests found that they actually were. It's the way society teaches us that women don't have the same sexual need as men and should hide and control it.
A guy can be viewed as attractive to plenty and in my eyes but I may not be sexually attracted to him. On the other hand, I can be physically attracted to a guy and couldn’t see myself being romantically interested.
I can come across a guy that’s ‘my type’ and he’s attractive in my eyes.
The guy in the photo does nothing for me, but when I see a man that does... I feel my heart beating stronger, my shoulders get tense, and I become aware of my breathing.
He looks confident, well dressed and put together so therefore he catches my eye. I notice him and appreciate what I see, but I don’t feel any “deeper” attraction
If you see a woman display the same kind of aura too, what would be the difference between the way which you notice and appreciate such a man and such a woman?
hmmm possibly... the thing for me is that once I actually get to know a guy and like him, I can feel all types of physical and emotional attraction just by looking at him. So yes and no... lol
The guy in the picture is actually a big zero to me. I like a cute guy, sure, but he has to have some personality and a sense of humor, too. Then I feel some attraction. Frankly, most of the hard-body types like that guy are egotistical jerks.
@Raja54 lmao now there's a word for everything, yes I'm attracted to men only, men who I have a connection too. Those terms imply that you need to bang every single available men to be straight
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