¿Does my female friend have a crush on me?

[Anonymous]

So she's very complicated to read so yeah. We hangout when she's in our hometown, she's playful, she compare our hands sizes or to feel how cold she is.

She laughs at my jokes no matter how bad they are and we seem to talk for hours and hours without stopping and when I drop her off to her house she sits down in the sidewalk so we talk a bit more.

Now she don't text me at all when she's in our hometown (unless she wants to hangout) or when she's away in her work as a teacher. She always starts the conversation over text mainly she sends a selfie of her or her work and we talk a bit and then she ghost me and this cycle repeats (like we don't text in like 3 months and I do start sometimes but she ghost me after a while).

Recently she said that she will come back when she makes a bridge of a day off vacation (5 de mayo so no school for one day) and she will come to hangout for one day. I don't believe her cause she lives far away and for her to come just to hangout just seems really out o the world to me.

So as you can see I'm confused cause her actions contradict each other and I don't know what to think. I'm thinking to tell her like hey I like you if she comes that one day

[dovey234]

Hey! A woman comparing hand size is a love language too. They want to initiate the touch. There can be reasons why she do that.

Such as, Physical Compatibility, Subtle flirting, Confidence and Assertiveness, and many more reasons.

In my opinion, she likes the attention she gets from you when you both hangout. She likes being around you. She maybe have feelings for you as well but nobody can read minds so it's of course hard to figure out.

She works and maybe ghosts you because of that? I don't know the answer to her ghosting you but I would really prefer to initiate a conversation about this with her. If you're not ready to confess your feelings, the least you can do is talk to her about her ghosting. Say it as a friend, best friend but you need to know why she does that.

At last, If you really like this girl, you should tell her before it's too late. I hope I helped enough!<3

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe she just hates texting but likes seeing you when she sees you. Either way I don’t think she’s that serious about you.

[liggang]

They don't touch your hands if they don't like you. Would you be all touchy Feely with a hideous obese woman? I doubt it. Women don't want to be touchy Feely with guys they don't like. They don't want the wrong guy to get the wrong idea.

[liggang]

But it doesn't mean she has a crush. Maybe she just wants some dick.

[MGTK7]

Was gonna say maybe she's just lonely and likes gus company but definitely true

[Friendlybro79]

You gotta talk to her my man. We can't read her mind but I can say maybe she does like you as more than a friend so you gotta figure out how you feel about her and talk to her. Good luck.

[Nessie6]

I had a friend like that. Shared everything with him, enjoyed so much having ji around... didn't want to date him but I would definitely have slept with him if opportunity presented itself...

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

Just ask her out and she will get the hint. You'll never know if you never try.. 👀

[DishLady]

Some girls just have a flirtatious disposition. Is she also flirtatious with other guys?

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a lot of wishful thinking.

[Asker]

I'm sorry I don't understand

[In_Trance]

Nope