We were helping clean out a house for charity. We were working in a cramped kitchen. She was holding the bag and I was grabbing the bug infested junk. Another girl came in and started cleaning behind me. My freind turned but she turned and stood in a weird spot to collect trash in. The diagram shows her position. Essentially every time I had to throw something away. I had to look at her ass. 2 minutes in I noticed that she was not in the best position either for the other girl to collect trash. I wanted to say something but I was not sure how to ask her to get her but out of the way and to put the trash bag where both of us can easily reach it. Without sounding mean. Girls why would she do that? She could have easily backed up and held the bag in a way that both of us could have easily reached it. Like so.
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Because a bunch of people don't seem to understand the diagram let me explain it. I am the green dot. How much I have to turn around to throw away trash is the dark green arrow. My female friend who has her ass in my face is light blue. The way she is facing is a darker light blue. The others friend is purple and how much she has to turn around for trash is dark purple arrow.
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Well I guess she is trying to flirt. I was watching the game with her and a few friends. She was on the couch eating hot wings. I was sitting somewhat behind her munching on mine with 2 of my mates. She got up and got a drink and to wash her hands. She comes back stopped in front of me bent over the couch showing me her ass during which gave her brother a drink and some napkins. Then went and sat back down right next to him.
Girls, Why would my female friend purposely stick her ass in my face?
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Well, sometimes girls do stuff like that because they want to get attention from you. This is possibly a sign that they like you. It is unfortunate that this makes you uncomfortable because it probably stained your view of that girl, maybe thinking about her in a bad light now. That was maybe what she wanted, attention from you, but she got the opposite. Or, maybe she was genuinely clueless? Unless you said somewhere that it seemed like she was doing it on purpose? In which case, just ask and say something like, "Hey, I think that it would be more effective for everyone if the trash bag was right here..." that way it doesn't offend anyone but the whole party is happy in the end.
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Well I don't think it is a sign that she likes me cause she turned down a date with me last year and freindzoned me hard. She was most likely wanting attention. After I tried to date her she went out of her way to look prettier and to take more pictures. Well ya know maybe. She was way more confident in herself. I doubt it stained my view of her cause of what she did before but it just seemed like a blatant attempt at attention. I doubt that she was genuinely clueless. Like there is ops and then there is hey his head is at my ass level. I think that I'll enjoy having him look at it for a while. Good suggestion but girl I would have however I have annoyingly found that women have a one track mind. If I asked her to move and she wanted attention she would take it as an insult. No matter how I put it.
If she dating someone? Maybe she remembers that you liked her and she is trying to make you like her again so she can get some attention. Now I will tell you an ugly truth, when woman are bored and they are craving attention they often go for guys who where already interested to begin with. So its maybe that or she started really liking you. Is the other girl good looking? She could also have been blocking you from the other girl.
No she is not dating any one and I don't think that she ever has. So you think that she wants attention and cause I did like her and she knows she can trust me. That she acted like that for attention? Yeah I kind of already knew women enjoy getting attention. I just did not think that she would try and get it from me. The other girl is married so I doubt the was blocking me from the other girl.
Well if she did then she would have to just come out and tell me. I'm not even chancing trying with her other wise. When she turned me down for a date it was very clear that she just enter to be friends. After she turned me down I did a nice thing and told her that she was a pretty and smart girl. That I would see her again with our friends the same time we always hang out. Since she was always putting herself down and I though she would like me trying to show that I was actually into her and not just trying to get into her pants. She just took those words threw them on the ground and told me never to compliment her again.
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I have done a lot when younger not knowing I did that may have caught the attentin of a lot of my guy friends. We girls don't pay attention to these things. So.., stop focusing every little thing we do n think has certain sexual purpose. If you want a girlfriend focus on how to get one... Read up on how to date girls.. Otherwise, we girls have an atenna and can sense creepish... If u know what I mean.
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Who said anything about being sexual purpose? All attention guys give is not all sexual. I was just wondering why she stuck her ass in my face while staying in an awkward spot to collect trash. If it was a guy freind then I would have asked him to move and reposition. Since it was a female freind. If she was looking for attention she would have taken it as an insult. I did not feel like having that talk so I kept my mouth shut. From the answers of the other girls. I'm guessing that she just wanted attention and cause she knew that I was a safe person to get it from. She tried to get it. Most likely she was looking for a reaction.
There is ops my ass is in the wrong place sorry. Then there is hey his head is at my ass level. Every time he turns to throw stuff out, he has to look at it. I'm pretty sure that you would not put your rear within 1 foot of a guys head and not notice. Especially when he has asked you to open the bag a bit more towards him once or twice. But you do have a good point a lot of women do things and don't know that they catch the attention of their guy friends.
Maybe it was a way of flirting? Other than that I don't have a reason why. But telling her to get her butt out of your face is not mean. Lol many of times my guy friends will say, " I see that you are backing up Sam and I appreciate that but your big tits are still in the way" I crack up every time because it's funny. So next time just tell her nothing wrong about it at all.
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Well flirting probably not. Getting attention probably. Like I told the others she freindzoned me hard last year so I doubt she was flirting. I wish more women were as fun as you. If I said something like that she would blush bright red and shyly wonder off and get away from me. She is a shy girl. Also she asked me not to compliment her so asking her to move her nice ass out of my face before it goes off would not go over well. Though I'm guessing she was looking for a reaction.
Because she just wasn't thinking... you should have said something. I would have jokingly teased her... "so are you intentionally playing goalie on the trash can or is that just a happy coincidence". She would have laughed, apologized and moved.
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maybe she was not. Though I'm pretty sure she was. She looked back and down at me twice. That would have been one that she would have enjoyed. She loves soccer.
Just because she looked at you doesn't mean she was looking or paying attention or thinking jsut that her eyes were in your direction. I wouldn't think too deeply about it.
Still doesn't have to mean it meant anything... apparently Ido that type of stuf when I am completely unaware.. If your not interested... think no further cause it seems like nothing but if you are talk to her...
it probably does not mean anything and I know if I bring it up things will get messy. Which is why I kept my mouth shut in the first place. Still it made a nice unque question dont you think.
Either she likes the attention or she just wasn't thinking. Either way you're thinking way too hard about this and making it a much bigger deal than it needs to be.
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Well I just thought that it would make a good question.
This is funny Hun she's probably not thinking about this as hard as you don't read into it
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I know and she is not an over thinker. She probably just thought that she wanted attention and she knew that I was a safe person to get it from. So she enjoyed having her ass in front of me.
She was obviously trying to get u to notice her bc she likes u r trying to make the other jealous.
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She might have been trying to get me to notice her. Last year I did flirt with her and try to ask her out. But she just wanted to stay friends. She probably misses the attention and compliments so she tried to get my attention. As for liking me I don't think that she does. At least not more than a friend.
Maybe but that seems like a weird way to get it. If she wants my attention she knows what kind of clothes to wear to get it. Why put her ass in my face to get it?
Thanks for the update. You could have just moved the can like you did in diagram #2. Look at all that sexy white space in the lower right quadrant in diagram #1! If you can't ask a girl to move her booty then move what you can.
maybe women are weird that way. They do something subtle and then expect us guys to know exotically what they want/mean. Thanks for the answer soulbabe.
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