Why are women so scared of being called a slut?

[Anonymous]

whore/slut/hoe/

you call a girl a slut and her world is ending

Guy: are you even wearing underwear
girl: Yes! im not a slut..

Guy: where do you buy your bra's
girl: im not telling you, im not a hoe

Guy: would you let your boyfriend kiss you?
Girl: hell no im not a slut


Like damn...
you a hoe for saying you not a hoe
who are you trying to convince?
me or yourself?

[FusionGuy]

You've honestly got a well solidated question, but unfornately most women arn't going to tell you why their insecure about their own sexuality. but i guess society tells them to think like this. There was this one girl she's a redhead and she wanted to sleep with me randomly after class one day, it was out of no where. and she's like to me 'i hope you don't see me as a slut'. I didn't have a response to this cause her action and words had me speechless. What was actually going on in my mind was 'come to my car, be quite and suck my dick!' lol

[FusionGuy]

so all in all, it doesn't really matter whether they get called a slut or not especially if your benefiting from it, just be tactical about it.

[windknowsmyname]

Well it takes an emotional toll on them when they are branded for something there not/are. Like if society do t think it's okay and they get treated like crap for it they'll avoid it. But in porn, so/so's, and clubs don't mind that sort of words then she'll be less offered to not at all. Other weakness includes being called fat ( fat shaming) compliment, and pointing out there insecurity.

[gigi5678]

lol I have no idea where hat came from but I've been called a slut by someone I thought was a good person and friend based on someone I confidentially told them and they basically shouted it and also called a slut by a boyfriend (in a non sexual way lmao) so I say that calling someone a slut is definitely not ok but a girl using that to fabricate an excuse or to make someone feel bad or just being idiotic is just stupid

[Anonymous]

because those are usually insults, plus most of the time those can easily be jokes. for example my friend goes

"would you suck my dick?"
and I go
"bitch, I may be a slut, but I'm a classy slut"

[JetplaneJane]

Well, do you like being insulted? It's never a good thing to be called a slut because 99% of the time it's being used as an insult.

[Asker]

i don't mind being insulted actually,
when people insult me it motivates me to better im able to
but women are so afraid to be called that one word... you can call a woman anything else but a slut. women HATE that word and i don't understand why...

[CrystalChild]

I'm not scared of it, I just don't like being disrespected? Do you like being called a loser, tool, or asshole?

[Asker]

it doesn't bother me because i know its not true.
like if someone called my something im not i wouldn't give 2 shits lol
but every woman is offended by the word slut...

[CrystalChild]

The don't use the phrase. It's classless anyway

[Nadzzz]

No I'm not scared cause I'm not one
You can call as much as you wish

[cupidkisses]

I don't care how people call me as I know who I am and who I am not

[pinklaptop]

It's just straight up rude and I take much offense to it

[Anonymous]

Women don't believe sluts are real. But I guess Dairy Queen isn't real either.

[JetplaneJane]

We know sluts are real, but it's still an insult that most people don't appreciate being called. It's a derogatory term.

[JetplaneJane]

The asker wanted to know why we're scared of being called sluts, and the answer is feelings. Lesson #1 for you on how the world works: insults hurt people's feelings. If those words were simply proper descriptions then they wouldn't cause emotional damage and be considered rude. Honestly, do you even have any friends with the way you are?

[Opinion Owner]

@JetplaneJane Yeah well sluts fuck up lives too. They hurt people and families - and they cause emotional damage with in society as well. Oh and "Yes", I have friends. And no, none of them are sluts. Don't make this personal though. You really don't want to go there. Let's just stick to the subject matter.

[JetplaneJane]

Where I'm from, women are called sluts just for sleeping with a few different guys in a month. There's no harm in that and no reason to shame them.
The way you use slut makes me think you mean something similar to homewrecker or cheater.

[Opinion Owner]

@JetplaneJane Oh yeah sure. A slut would never do those type of things. Never...

[JetplaneJane]

Someone who is accurately called a slut could do those things, yes. But not everyone who is called a slut would. If someone is innocent of causing any harm, don't you think it's reasonable that they wouldn't want to be called a slut? Is it really that strange to you that a woman who sleeps with two men in one week (who are both single and consenting to a one night stand) wouldn't want to be called that? She didn't do anything wrong but still people insist on calling her names.

[Opinion Owner]

@JetplaneJane Do I have to speak on "female nakedness" and the negative effects it's had on the nation again? But women a just being women. So it's no use. Let's just go to the forth wave and get this shit over with. Then later we can see the end result - Did "female nakedness" prosper the relationships of our society or not. The government gave you the green light so we'll see.

[JetplaneJane]

... What are you even saying right now? You told me not to go off the topic of the question but here you are, flying off the handle on some seemingly personal tangent.

[Opinion Owner]

@JetplaneJane It's the same subject.
Female nakedness - a womans right to be a "slut" but still receive the respect of mankind.

[Opinion Owner]

@JetplaneJane People can't handle losing arguments - So they remove comments lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Well the "N" word is a derogatory comment. Not "slut". Slut is a description.

[Eternallylucky]

That is because they are religious

[Asker]

not only religious people

[SovereignessofVamps]

I would just start laughing.

[Anonymous]

You're what? 14? You mean girls, not women

[Asker]

These days i can't really tell the difference.

[Opinion Owner]

Well you wouldn't. Girls are who you hang out with. Women are who you're a long way off from knowing anything about

[Asker]

Nah, trust me I know both and they're basically the same these days.
And no I'm not 14 I'm 17.

[SunnyCaliGirl]

It's a very degrading name for women

[Asker]

why though?
its just a word...

[SunnyCaliGirl]

It's a word that has a degrading meaning behind it, words are not just words every word has a meaning behind it and they are used to describe situations, people, and things

[AnaWryneck]

Lmao agree

[Anonymous]

I am not. I don't give a shit.

[ButtHurt]

People don't liked to be judged.

[Anonymous]

because its usually used as an insult.

[Asker]

i know but to women
that word is the insult of all insults..
why?

[asdsfgag]

cause they are sluts

[DanFlingwing]

It's offensive?