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I love dark skinned guys I prefer them over white guys any day, every black guy that I've dated has been so caring but also a bad boy and they seem to have the most beautiful personalities and I seem to be the girl who opens him up and connects with him, every time I date a black guy he always makes me feel loved and he treats me like a princess, not because I want him but that's what he always wants for me. he's like my protector.
a lot of white chicks are told from a young age especially by their dads that "black men are bad, they'll ruin your life, they're dirty and they'll steal from you, they'll kill you" which is completely fucking racist. I am half white and I'm mostly friends with black people all of the 4 white friends I have are rude and spoiled and judgmental racist assholes and I don't even know why they are my friends tbh. I hate seeing people being discriminated against and I do all I can to help, but when I date a black guy people start targeting me and telling me that I'm just a black wannabe which again is just fucking racist.
but in total black guys are more bad boy and caring which is what I like so014 Reply- +1 y
i can dig it, but im not a bad boy im calm and cool. a simple man. i work and come home. i dont smoke weed and i have goals. i went to college for computer animation and graphic design in florida. i jus want love.
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that's so cute, that's what I mean "beautiful personalities" you sound so amazing and to think that white chicks only look at you for your skin colour or your stereotype. id think your a badass cause you show your feelings and men don't do that, that's very attractive. I'm not trying to be weird or anything but you honestly sound like a beautiful human
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would u wanna be friends and text sometimes/ talk on the phone?
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thats ok too nd i didn't know u were in Australia i thought i was jus talking to people in Philadelphia π lol
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na its ok i was jus looking for friends to talk to anyway so this is pretty cool
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ummm π€ that they play with crocodiles like crocodile Dundee and that they say crikey lol I don't know.. oh and that they should take iggy azalea back lol jk I don't know
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ahahahah I'm dead, I'm sorry that we gave you Iggy she is a monstrosity. Australians don't say crickey unless they live in the centre of Australia or in land of The Northern Territory, we don't play with crocs as we only get them at the top of Australia, that's so funny but just so you know what Crocodile Dundee is, is what normal Australians call a bogan or what you would call a redneck. Coastal Areas are very nice and the people who live there are well spoken and don't say crickey and Australian things you think we do. ahah. Australia is filled with A LOT of cultures, in the North there are mostly Greek and Vietnamese people, and in the east is where Chinese and New Zealanders live and the South and West are filled with Lebanese people there are more people and cultures than that but that's what I can think of atm. coastal areas don't have red dirt aha like inland does
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lol, u taught me a lot
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+1 yNot sure where you're located but in rural or small urban communities there's a lot of microaggressions, and unfortunately racism, you will see those walls disappear in metropolitan centers. People like predictability and for that it's what's their "norm", people who only grew up around people of their own race will exoticize others. This exoticizing will put you "off limits" for some or fetishize you for others.
I grew up in metropolitan centers and come from a multicultural family, when I moved to a small community for junior/senior high-school (pop. 50k) the first words out of my mouth were "Why is everybody white?" ahahaha (I left once I was 18)... But in that I got to see first hand the microaggressions towards people of other ethnic backgrounds. So it's likely your location11 Reply- +1 y
im in Philadelphia
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+1 yI wouldn't have a problem dating a black guy if he was nice. Sadly there are some real jerks out there. I asked how a girl went about meeting black guys and of course the jerks stepped up and attacked me for even thinking about it. There were three black guys I thought were interesting but two turned out just wanted to send me photos of their things and wanted nude photos of me and wanted me to tell tell them things about my fantasy and sex I have had with other guys I guess to get off. I dropped them quickly. The other guy though has been really nice and we have had some nice chats telling each other about ourselves so we can get to know each other better. Something could develop. Thats what I would want. A nice guy who isn't just all about sex.
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+1 yThere are white girls who like black guys just keep looking. Many of us are told from a young age not to date outside of our race. Fortunately that attitude is less common than it was thirty years ago. I personally tend to stick with white guys because that is generally what I'm more attracted to but that is not all white women, just me. Keep smiling. You'll find a girl. There are plenty out there 😊
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i can dig it.
It depends on how you present yourself. Most black guys tend to be players and not have a good work drive or family drive. Women want to be safe and have a solid in their life but by self given stereotype black men do not fit. If you were to dress in a scholarly or sophisticated manner and have good manners you would be able to have many dates. But it is preference for sure though. Some girls don't like black guys
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i know what you mean like im always in my work clothes but when im dressed i dont dress like a thug or rapper, i wear nice pants button up shirts. i also went to predominantly white college and highschool so im comfortable around white people its jus when im out here in the world/ non school or work setting its hard to meet the type of Caucasian female i prefer.. I don't know
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i like nice women in general not ratchet or ghetto.. nice pretty educated women who are openminded and not judgmental. i have goals and plans so im looking for a wife business partner and friend all in one. someone i can branch out, explore and enjoy life with.
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yea i know what you mean, friends is what i look for but i always seem to fall for the female friends i really click with.. so lately i haven't really been looking for any thing I've jus been working.. but when i see females i wouldn't mind being friends with and getting to know it seems really awkward like they look at me or talk to me like i have an alternative motive and its weird i jus wanna be friends and have someone to talk and text and maybe go out to places with.. friends..
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Just laugh. Laughing is the easiest way to clear the air. Tell jokes and make things simple. At the end of your meeting shake hands or something, leave an impression and ask if you would like to meet again, don't make any movement towards her if she thinks you are trying to make a move
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ima do that, i usually always leave awkwardly like ok bye lol and sometimes i get the feeling that they do being thinking things like damn he didn't even ask for my number or fb.. and thats only because of all the negetive people i get when i try to be nice
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i hope so
+1 ywell, I have to say, That I dont care about color or race. If I think he is attractive, I do, no matter if he's black or not. I mean... we dont say "what do you think about dating a white boy?", right? so we shouldn't be so... specific? about that. We are dating a guy. what color he has or where he is from shouldn't really be the matter, I think.
10 ReplyI like black guys though I had a bad experience with the other one. But still I prefer to be with black guys because they are just straight forward, blunt and know what they want. They are not much on a flowery talkers. I am currently in a LDR with a black guy. So cheer up, you will find the right girl for you dear. :-)
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI'm this girl. Sorry just being honest. It's a stereotype. Most black guys are conceited, cawky, and use women. It's the majority of asshole black guys that ruin it for the good ones. I will talk to a black guy, I don't hate them, but that's as far as it goes. I've always, ALWAYS seen these blinged out black guys dating these heavy set white chick's with low self esteem so she can shower him with money and gifts because she doesn't think she can get any better. Hope my answer helped you out :)
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not really one thing that women forget is that you choose who you date so when u pick the wrong guy u can't judge everyone off his one mistake.. almost everything u described white men do the same thing to white women too so your argument was pointless.. jus saying not trying to be rude.. but at the end of the day a lot of smart beautiful women ( no matter there race) have very poor judgment when it comes to good men and us men know it smh
+1 yIf they don't like you they either dislike your personality, are racist, have a racist parent, or you're just not their preference. Chill out. If a girl doesn't like you, there are plenty of other girls (of many races) that will.
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true
Eh not all white girls buddy
I stare like a creep when a sexy black guy passes on the street lmao
Probably that happens bcs black guys here are *very few*
But yeah if he's hot then fuck yeah
Same attraction as for a sexy white guy13 Reply- +1 y
lol where r u from?
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oh im in America in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
I like black guys. I would date a guy who's black. I don't know what's wrong with the girls you live around haha.
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where are u from? i live in philly
+1 yThere are tonnes of white girls who like black guys!!!
I think it's quite possible that the women you are talking to have some internalised racism and are afraid... it's really fucking shitty but keep looking you'll find some eventually!00 Reply
+1 yi like black guys.. I've had some fun times . but like any of my
" guy friends" past and present they have to be fun , respectful, and we have to connect in a healthy friendship level before we venture to more.00 Reply
+1 yI think that it's just this kinda thing, because we are 1 society. But we all know that we prefer our own cultures/color
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i dont prefer any color tho, i like all races/ethnic groups. this post isn't jus about white girls its also about indian and Asian girls basically non black girls.. m i wish people had a different perspective on these things i like all but i feel like my soul mate is not black or ghetto.. I don't know
Anonymous(25-29)+1 ywell it depends, but a lot of them do have a bad reputation, so the woman is more likely to be more cautious, and aware of danger. maybe ask a friend to set u up with a girl, so that at least you have a chance.
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i should try that i never asked any of my Caucasian male friends, it jus seems weird to ask them but ill give it a shot
Anonymous(25-29)+1 yMost white girls do like black guys but are cautious because well you probably know why but its nothing bad
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why are they cautious?
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It depends a lot on the area. In my city, the crowd of black dudes are real chill and I love the hell out of them, but I've been to other cities where they are super creepy and weird. Same rubbish with white dudes. The white dudes in my city are all gay haha
Opinion Owner+1 yBlack dick is stereotypically bigger than white and as far as i know that is true
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lol i can dig it
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yI don't prefer most black guys because every one I meet is really rude and disgusting, although I'm sure it's more based in their personality than their skin color. I would totally date a black guy if he was nice
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there are nice black guys, im one lol but to be honest a lot of them are ignorant and i do mean a lot like im from the "hood" and i see these people act the way they do out of stupidity and ignorance and then its jus passed down to generations.. so i do know why most girls in other races dont give me a chance but on the other hand they should atleadt get to know someone before they judge because you don't know who god put u here for im pretty sure he didn't want us to stay within our race, but thats my opinion. longstory short im different π
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yto me its because of how people were taught growing up, not to like the black people and whites always think that the blacks are going to hurt them or kill them and that all they do is criminal stuff
10 Replywhite girls have white dads. boom. Lmao
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so theyre racist?
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people who are racist aren't always the brightest people so thats ok, im a black guy who likes educated people not people who believe everything they see on tv or hear from others with out knowing the source or truth behind the matter
+1 yI like black guys
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thats wassup
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I think it just depends on the girl, and how you approach them.
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jus dont let one ruin for all if things dont work out with the one u may date
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and how so they approach you?
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I've had black guys come up to me and say some pretty gross things about my body I found that very disrespectful. If you say it in a respectful way, then that's a lot better
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im always respectful tho i even ask can i be there new friend and they laugh and say no π
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hmmm... I don't know what to tell ya now π sorry
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lol i knowπ how do i change my pic on here so u can keep it 100 with me and tell me if im ugly lol
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oh nevermind i did it lol
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hey wyd
+1 yTry a different type of ww?
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do u like black guys?
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I don't have a problem with them. If I were to based someone off a skin color that would be ignorant. Personalit/heart has no skin color
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definitely
thats not true. how do you "know" this?
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well i say hi to some and they jus look at me weird like why is he talking to meπ
+1 yI do
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u wanna be my new friend?
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