How to ask a guy what he is doing tonight?

[coffeeglass]

I'm going out clubbing, assuming the guy I'm seeing is as well, should I ask what he is doing (we haven't seen each other about a week) tonight? Or just leave it? How should I ask? I'm such a lost cause

[Louise123]

If you haven't seen a guy in a week - have you talked to him?

If not - just go to the club. If he shows, great. If not - oh well. No need to call him.

Why bother? If you THINK you are a lost cause, YOU WILL BE. Let me give you some very good advice on guys. DO NOT CHASE THEM. DO NOT CALL THEM. They have to call YOU. He should be calling YOU to see if YOU are going to be there? Guys have to be the hunters - if you call/text/email them all the time - you make yourself an easy mark. They don't respect you. They don't value you. If YOU want to be the girl of their dreams... ACT LIKE IT! Be too busy to notice if this guy showed or not. WHO CARES? There are a lot of great guys out there who would adore being with you. Remember YOU are a catch! You are beautiful - intelligent - and a sweet person. ANY guy would be lucky to have you in his circle. SO.. STOP WORRYIHNG ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE ARE DOING. Live your life - have fun - be coming and going - do what makes you happy. A guy is FAR more attracted to a confident, flirty, charming girl... than a needy, desperate, female who is begging for attention.. THAT is a turnoff...! A little mystery is always good. Make THEM wonder where YOU are...

You see the difference? Turn the tables... Let them CHASE YOU. Let them know you are interested - and THEN THEY make the move. It will be so much better and YOU will be so much happier. Just add a little more self esteem/confidence to your charming self and make them feel LUCKY to be in the same room as you! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Enjoy your tirp to the club... and dazzle the boys with your charm! SMILE SMILE SMILE ! Hugz!