Is it weird I often imagine someone is cuddling me when I go to sleep because I'm so lonely?

[Anonymous]

[Graydon]

No not weird at all. I do the same thing believe it or not even though I'm a boy and I was told most boys don't like cuddling. Anyway every night I go to sleep imagining a pretty girl laying next to me and lying against me while I fall asleep. Even sometimes I lean forward and kiss the imaginary girl next to me and say "good night sweetheart". Then I imagine putting her arm around me so I fall asleep holding her hand. So to answer your question, no it is not weird at all and I do it too because I get so lonely. I sometimes cry myself to sleep thinking I'll never find a girl. Anyway I wish you the best! I hope that you find your specal someone eventually and he will finally be real. Not only in your dreams or imagination but he will be real with you in person.

[guy42069]

No I do that, I usually lay one pillow perpendicular to mine, where another person would be, sometimes I hug it, other times I just lay against it. Its really nice and calming honestly

[SnapTsch]

not weird at all
its just a craving for having that special someone

but if its gold or bad depends on if its a craving for emotional intimacy or physical intimacy

[GeorgeDubyaKUSH]

I have sympathy for you, and I think it's cute... damn now i want to be your boyfriend just so I can cuddle with you

[king34]

I've never told anyone but I do that too, I just started it recently for some reason when I go to sleep I think about how lonely I am. just telling u this so u know your not alone, be patient you'll find someone

[Cricket74]

Humans are a social animal. So wanting to be cuddled is very natural. Buy a body pillow for now see if it helps.

[scuff1986]

no sometimes it can help to feel like there is someone there and sooner or later you will fin someone to do it for real

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No it's not weird , do whatever makes you comfortable when your sleeping , lot people cuddle pillows when they sleep it's all for comfort.

[HotCaleb]

no it is not weird LOL
I can't fall asleep until I imagine a nice babe next to me kissing and going all the way :))) you know what I'm talking about :D

[AnthonyEdwards]

no not really. tbh I am more the "big spoon" type of guy so I like to cuddle with my pillow. I guess it's kind of just a natural thing humans like to do because we are social animals😛

[Maxemeister]

I've done that before, though not really intensely, just as a nice thought

[Asad1ONE1]

No not at all. At my age probably yes, which I still sadly do lol.

[Yourfavoritedude]

Nope. It is good feeling. I am also alone at present. Lol😉😏

[Yaman2002]

wired yes but it happens to a lot of people 😜

[carlos06]

Been there, done that

[WhoStoleMySock]

Nope, that's adorable.

[Asker]

Adorable?

[WhoStoleMySock]

Yeah! I'm a cuddler, so that's why I think it's cute that you imagine someone keeping you warm and safe. And you'll have that, I'm sure you will 😊

[Anonymous]

nah I do that too sometimes

[anoddtod]

try putting a pillow next to you

[Muhammad1999]

not weird , its a normal thing.

[Nandor]

I cuddle with my blanket

[Seppelson]

no I guess it's normal

[theFantasticJ]

more sad than weird

[Asker]

Pathetic?

[theFantasticJ]

not that bad, but it shows how lonely you are

[Asker]

I know I'm honestly ashamed of it
That's y I'm anonymous

[theFantasticJ]

there's nothing to be ashamed of:)

[Anonymous]

its not bad