What if she caught you staring at her?

[Anonymous]

Guys how would you feel if you like a girl and you think your being clever by starring at her when she's unaware and than she happens to catch you? What would go through your mind and how would you feel?

[scar1]

98% of the time I look away in the most obvious way and practically run away. I try to be less obvious but it never works. the other 2% I pretend to look at something the distance or take the ballzy approach and look her in the eyes. it depends on how far away the girl is and how hot the girl is.

lately a lot of the times when I get caught the girl then girl looks at me for an extended period of time. there for what's usually going through my mind is something like "why is this hot girl looking at me ". it confuses me and there for stresses me out. lately this has been happening enough that I only check girls out when I am completely convinced I won't get caught. even then I still get caught at least 50% of the time.

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

"SHIT! She caught me! Quick! Pretend I was looking at something else! Pretend I was looking at something... just behind her! Yeah! She'll never think I was staring at HER! I mean... obviously, I was just looking at something BEHIND her, so..."

>__>

[Asker]

That's so funny!!!

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

SO IS YOUR FACE! Just kidding. :( But no seriously, that's what I do. I try making it seem as though I wasn't really looking at her. It's kinda tough though when there's NOTHING behind her. In those cases where I have no excuse to be looking at her general direction, I just don't look.

Unless I'm feeling REALLY brave! Or REALLY sexy! Like, some days, I'm wearing my sexy shirt, right? Yeah that's when I have the gutts to stare a girl from head to toe, and be like: "Daaamn you hot. ;D"

[Asker]

This guy that's checking on me has been caught and he did something similar when I caught him, it fed my suspicion that he watches me secretly!! I like your sense of humour!!

[anon543]

If it happens enough for you to be suspicious then its probably right, sometimes we're sneaky, others we're downright obvious.

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

LOL next time you catch him staring at you, look right at him and POINT at him with an angry face, as if you're going: "YOU!!! ;O Yeah you! How dare you stare at me without my permission?!"

Gosh I'd have so much damn fun if I was a girl. >.>

[Asker]

Actually I woz thinking of flashing at him!!

[TimeAndTimeAgain]

I wish every girl I stared at would think like you do. :(

[ScepMan]

"My, the floor sure looks interesting today..."

But seriously, if it's a girl I'm not really close with, I'd feel embarrassed and look away very quickly and/or find something to be doing (like grabbing my cell phone.) If it's a girl I'm friends with, I'd probably just smile, laugh, and then look away very quickly.

[anon543]

heh um basically what time said, cept I'm more like SHIT! *snap head down and look at the floor... mmm tile... aww crap she's still looking... walk away slow, real slow... book it!

[anon543]

Heh the walk away slow portion is more of a hoeping she'll say something or flash a smile

[robtheman]

the whole point is to catch her eye , she will look at you and you give her a cheeky smile , if the girl smiles back its the guys job to go talk to her , if it isn't happening that way the person is a social retard

[anon543]

Entirely possible.