I seriously feel like those people who publicly announce they have an eating disorder and talk about self harming if they don't hear what they want to hear are honestly just seeking attention. I know how hard it is to lose weight and I also know how it is to seek out the approval of others. But the truth is you don't need approval. You can have millions of people tell you that you look great but the reality of it is that you are not happy with yourself; therefore you need to do something so you can start loving yourself again. I have 3 kids. Went from weighing 180+ lbs down to 128 lbs. It's possible. Work at it everyday. Limit good intake and start working out. You have to want it. That is the ONLY way things will start changing for you.
You look fine however if you feel like self harming whenever somebody criticizes your body, then one could easily draw the conclusion you aren't comfortable in your skin. If you feel fat, then you are fat; to yourself. If you truly feel uncomfortable, make sure you exercise and eat healthy, smaller portions. Do not starve yourself or throw up as it causes more self hate. One day I hope you can look in the mirror, smile, and say "damn I am beautiful." And continue your day without worrying that you feel fat. 😊
If I was you I wouldn't worry about it because it's only going to harm you. Just love yourself and work on bettering yourself. People always looking for ways to bring you down. So don't do it to yourself. But if you want to change your body that's fine but do it the right way. A well balanced diet and exercise. That the only way you will have sucess.
why does it matter what people think? how do YOU feel? are you happy with yourself? why? why not? If you feel uncomfortable in your own skin, find the reason behind it and work on a solution. People's opinions can be toxic for your wellbeing, don't let it affect you, the only person that you need to satisfy is yourself.
I don't know if people like you that can self harm should be posting things like this? lol. People will be mean just because. Even if what they say isn't true.
Honestly, you are a bit overweight, but not what I'd call "fat" either. Yes you need to loose a bit though for your own health. But you're not grossly obese either.
So u came here to want honesty but u don't want people to say something that's going to hurt u? Wtf. Well you're at a healthy weight but you could lose some from the belly If ur going for looks that is :)
your look is fine bit don't say that you will hurt yourself because then you are unstable person and that mean you don't feel good in your skin. So girl you are good looking and if you think that you are fat then you don't respect yourself so much. You are just human and your body is still changing.
i dont think you look fa, your more of an average size if im honest
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You look fine. But if people being rude to you could trigger you, posting pictures of yourself here and asking people how you look is not a very smart thing to do.
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Anonymous
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Do you want honesty or a load of Bullshit just to make you feel good?
There are always people that are going to be mean. If you very vulnerable then i would suggest not posting anything. There will always be someone that wants to be mean just because
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