Is not having a social media presence a big turn off for girls?

[Anonymous]

I never really been interested social media. I don't know im maybe little old-fashion, more of a face to face convo kind of guy. Do girls find us unattractive? Is it a turnoff not having a popular social media profile?

[jether]

If you met her in person, i guess not. However, social media makes easier to gain trust, and serves as "social proof" trigger, then you may think that the absence of social media is a turn off, but you are just not getting the social media turn ons. (Btw, it is not worth grow a social media just to get the benefits, because consistency is more important for long term relationships than any trigger. If you dont like it, dont use it)

[Robertinho]

If a girl does not like you because you dont have a social media, then it should probably be a blessing in disguise. Whatever happened to face to face interaction, that is where it really should all be about, not behind a computer or phone. Man... im glad im older, and i dont say that too much.

[anewgirl]

Heck no. I don't use social media either. A guy that doesn't feel the need to take selfies and read about how his friend bought a candy bar at a gas station is A-okay in my book.

[thisguy24]

It's only a problem with women who are insecure and have trust issues. Face to face is the way to go or even talking on the phone.

[bjstevenson89]

Yeah, to women in 2017 it says your hiding something or you have no friends

[ruffik]

Unfortunately it's true sometimes. Social media helps to see you from a different side. It's useful that way, but if you don't have it, you might be less connected and thus be the one who is harder to reach. I an early relationship this might be against you

[KayKayRose]

It's not to me because I'm not that big into social media either.

[DrTruth]

Or is if having a social media presence equals status.