Would you think a girl who had a one night stand is a whore? Or doesn't deserve respect?

[confussionandguilt]

[SnapTsch]

She does deserve respect and isn't a whore for doing it.

But in the case that she has a taste for promiscuity, then I'd lose respect for her being promiscuous because I really hate promiscuity and have no respect for those people and think that they don't deserve it either.
And the only people I'd call whore are gold diggers or fuckbois who just have sex on their mind and doesn't care with whom they do it, with how many they do it and flaunt their body counts as a matter of pride.

But the person you describes is as normal as the next person to be will be treated like everyone else

[SnapTsch]

*described

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Non PC answer: She doesn't deserve respect, because she put herself in a potentially catastrophic position. It's unnatural for women to have sex with men they don't trust and in haphazard situations. ONS are fairly spontaneous and haphazard. No one cares about if she has a STD, it's about the lack of thought and consideration before having sex. Of course, if a man wants to have sex with you, he'll say anything to lull you into a false sense of respect and think what you're doing is fine.

[confussionandguilt]

what if she just messed around on her second date

[PoliceLivesMatter]

It depends on the specific situation. I know PLENTY of men that would use these types of women for just SEX but not a relationship or anything remotely long term. I know you probably know plenty of these men as well. Also, what does "messed around" mean exactly and did she care about this man she messed around with or was it just basically a random?

[confussionandguilt]

a guy that she went on two days, he made her laugh and dint try to convince her of anything

[PoliceLivesMatter]

So, nothing sexual? No kissing? That wouldn't be considered "messing around."

[confussionandguilt]

I just mean he didn't try to convince her, not that they didn't do anything sexual. It just happened

[that1guy_123]

Wtf is this double standard? An adult man can make and take responsibility for his sexual decisions but the woman is always the victim? Both genders are perfectly capable of making their own decisions, taking their precautions and weighing the associated risks.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Well, the double standard has its origins from BIOLOGY. Why do you think men are concerned about women's sexual past but not quite the other way around? It goes like this: Society, then biology

[that1guy_123]

You care about a woman's sexual past. I don't. It's your problem to overcome your own sexual insecurities. It's not her responsibility to change herself for you.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Why is it default insecurity? You haven't created any correlation or evidence for that. Besides MANY men feel this way, otherwise, why would the asker be posing such a question if there wasn't a stigma?

[that1guy_123]

You gave me poorly stitched answer that men and women's biologies are different therefore women can't make their own sexual decisions. Like how did you go from biology to that conclusion. That's a huge leap. But your right about one thing. I am making an assumption that you have sexual insecurities. You're clearly not interested in women making their own decisions. Most freedom loving people would think having more choices is great. The only ones who don't are those afraid of some competition. But again. I'm just making a leap here like you.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I'm using biology as a reason because you mentioned double standard. It's in a man's DNA and genes to be promiscuous, not women. Due to pregnancy, and other factors.

[that1guy_123]

Alright, link your conclusive evidence. At best all your going Google are studies that show statistical correlation to a hypothesis. In none of those studies will you find any research that identifies the specific genomes that specifically tells men to be promiscuous and women to be sexualy conservative. You know why? Because that's not dna works.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

You really don't believe there's no biological underlining? That's insane. Men are the ones that impregnate the woman, their testosterone is to account for their aggressiveness, sexual drive, and inclination to "spread their seed." A woman has estrogen which is possibly linked to her being more quiet and submissive as compared to testosterone having effects of aggression. Hence, why women with more test. are on average more aggressive. Women also have the fear of getting pregnant, emotionally abused, and physically abused MORE than men. This is why when women hookup, they forego all of this. They forgo their nature and biology.

[that1guy_123]

K I'll make it clearer for you. I don't doubt scientific facts. I don't your ability to understand science and draw proper conclusions from science. All you have to go on are assumptions derived from observations seen in society. But you want me to call that scientific research? You could have at least googled a bias survey that favored your claims. Are you even trying anymore?

[PoliceLivesMatter]

What I labeled were known facts. It doesn't require googling. I could pose a link if you want... I'm sure you'll roll over and show your belly after that 😐😐. What's the point? You won't change your mind whatsoever. All I'm saying is that BIOLOGY is to account for why there's a double standard like you mentioned and why women have faced stigma about their sexual past. It's DEEPLY societal, but what's under societal? Biology, that is.

[that1guy_123]

You got me man. How dare I ask for specific evidence. You are the science God. Everything that comes out of your mouth is not merely scientific fact, but also a natural law of our universe. You make Einstein and Darwin look like mentally handicapped snails. Forgive my ignorant challenge for proof.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Lol. It doesn't need citing man. It's KNOWN facts. Like you don't need to google if the sun exists or not do you?

[that1guy_123]

Yeah man, who needs Google when we got you for all the facts we need. The motivations and drives of each individual man and woman is analogously a simple fact like that there is s star at the center of our solar system giving energy and consequently life to earth. Why are scientist still doing research when you have all the answers we need? Someone throw this guy Nobel prize already.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

I don't think you understand the proper method of citing is all about. If you're in college, you DONT cite all pieces of information that are known fact. You don't need to cite how men and women have different levels of certain hormones inside them because that's standard common knowledge. You don't need to cite how women can pregnant and men can't. That's common knowledge 😅😂. What exactly don't you get about that?

[GideonAlmighty]

I'd think if she openly invites them in and is easy. That would classify her as a whore. I mean having a one night stand is fine... but having many one night stands with just any tom dick and harry ain't fine. I mean how would your future spouse feel you know? Laughs. But I wouldn't mind a one night stand or two of my own tho.

[CookieCutter1]

No, she's is not. This is usually why women hide their sexual past, because men and society shame them for doing something we all enjoy. Then again. I am an adult film actor (check my question). So I might be biased

[bisha12]

If a girl have sex with too many guys she is a slut if she doesn't have too many man she is ok

[TheBoar]

If I knew she has a lot of them, yes 100% whore and zero respect.
And all those idiots who say "Men do have ons too"
Yes, those guys are also assholes but a lot of guys do not do that and those guys are not looking for girls who do

[confussionandguilt]

If it was just a one time thing?

[TheBoar]

Not thrilled but if we connect I can deal with that

[Philyouup]

Why would it? Why worry about slut shamming, any dude that would shame and or not respect you for who you are, doesn't even deserve a shot at you. Hell, I had a one nighter with a girl who never thought she would, we just got caught up in the moment..

[seraphs]

She does not have to care about people opinion, what matters is if she is ok with her way of life

[sineater8]

No, i have had a lot of one night stands and i still respect most of them and some are good friends.

[bisha12]

If she dont have much nightstand she is ok but if she has many she is a slut

[sineater8]

@bisha12 i don't necessarily think so. i don't consider a woman who give herself sexual to men as anything really negative or slutty, However if a woman is manipulating multiple people and relationships to satisfy her sexual desires without regard for their feelings, then yeah i would call that woman a slut.

[Johnbadman]

Depends on how frequent it was done I guess, guys have different tolerance when it comes to it.

[joshuafreeman707]

Not in the slightest, but plenty of people are more prudish with such things.

[Scottbehnke17]

No, people like to have fun. Girls are allowed to have sex the same as guys. If that's what they want, that's okay

[TheOxfordMale]

No way i say fair play... Fuck who you want.. Men do no difference&men that say different are Shitcunt control freaks

[bisha12]

A girl hwo doesn't have too much nightstand is ok but if she have many she is a slut

[jvee9073]

It's not like she will not be respected but she is a whore

[Anonymous]

As a great man once said: "Respect should be earned, not given freely!"

[Rieser]

Absolutely not. Unless having one night stands is her job, then in that case, yes, she is a prostitude and that's okay

[that1guy_123]

Nope, that's haters talking

[Razal]

Normally no !!
But the one who has had multiple one night stands becomes questionable !!

[headrow13]

Not a whore. I have much respect for a girl that just wants to get hers.

[BlondishIdiot21]

not really a big deal

[ThomasW]

No! Only wankers would say yes

[Himig_Ng_Pag-ibig]

Nope

[RoBesPieRRe]

No respect. They're not wife material.

[abc3643]

She loses respect.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Just not dating material.

[Anonymous]

yes, pretty whorey, if you ask me

[dhruv9x]

No
No no

[Humbledman74006]

Nope she's fine

[CT_CD]

Yes and yes

[ilovyupenne]

Hell nawww