Would a high value girl walk away from fuckboys who use her for sex?

[Anonymous]

I see so many girls that put up with so much bs with the guy.

[MrOracle]

Two people each win $1,000,000. At the start, both are "high value", I think we can all agree.

The first one is "boring" - he doesn't spend any of that money, but rather invests it. It requires a sacrifice and delaying gratification, but the result is that his investment generates "free" money for him every month forever. I think we all agree that this is "high value."

The second goes out and buys cars and Jet-Skis and clothes and stereo gear and takes trips, etc. 3 years later, not only is he broke, but most of the stuff he bought is gone, deteriorating, or otherwise significantly less value than it was. Is this guy "high value"?

The point of this is: it doesn't matter how much you start out with - it matters what you DO with what you've got. The second guy probably had a lot of friends the first year after he got his money, and they gladly helped him spend it and enjoyed it - but those "friends" mostly evaporated once the money ran out. But if you looked at both guys 2 months after getting paid, the second guy probably looked like the successful one.

Girls are the same way with their social value. Some girls have high social value, and they use that to find a high-quality man to have a long-lasting relationship. From the outside, it looks "boring", but it has a lot of long-term satisfaction. Other girls take their high social value and "spend it" by partying and getting guys to buy them stuff and take them places in exchange for sex - but that diminishes their value, and pretty soon, she's going to be "broke" in social value. She might have had short-term fun, but the long-term cost is great.

[theharlequin]

Would high value girls ever get with them in the first place? Prob not

[PetrovaFire92]

TRUTH BE TOLD 🤣

[Asker]

Yeah absolutely not! shame to see a girl i know trapped with a fuckboy loser

[Anonymous]

Only high quality girls do that lol. If you're going to fuck around with fuckboys you're either really immature or just plain stupid. Fuckboys can be seen from a mile away

[PetrovaFire92]

And they have a certain look to them!, Seriously! Mostly black or mixed boys are Fuck boys so I just don't bother 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

@PetrovaFire92 almost every fuckboy I've ever seen is a semi-attractive white guy.

[PetrovaFire92]

Well I never met a fuck boy who was white

[Opinion Owner]

@PetrovaFire92 they exist believe me

[AynonOMouse]

If she is doing hook ups and is used for sex she loses her value. If she is lucky enough to not get pregnant, maybe she can stop making bad choices and not pick the same kind of people each time, but once she has kids from other guys she may as well give up because then it's too late for her to have a good chance of finding a good guy.

[PetrovaFire92]

TRUTH BE TOLD!. I don't think men want to be with a girl who had kids by more then one guy.

[AynonOMouse]

@PetrovaFire92 Yeah, I think the only ones who would are the ones that already have their own kids too and don't want more new ones.
But someone like me with no kids that wants to find someone to raise a family with, I don't want someone that already has kids by someone else. Plus the ex drama and stuff that I don't want to deal with either.

[Browneye57]

The truth here...

[PetrovaFire92]

@AynonOMouse yeah I agree I'm the same way an it would be a nice experience both of you because it would be your first kid together. An it would just be joyful and wonderful.

[Browneye57]

Nobody wants to raise someone else's crotch-fruit. And the kids will always be the first priority any single parent - just ask them!! So if you're the step you'll NEVER be the top priority in that house. EVER. At least 'till the kids are gone.

No, single parents have enough to do just raising those kids. Whatever time they have left after working and running a household, the kids need. Why deprive them of what little is left?

People just don't think this shit through.

[Miristheiss]

If she is with F*** boys and is used for sex and she willingly participates in that scenario... you can't really call her "high" value.

I'm just saying.

[Browneye57]

A high value girl wouldn't be hanging with a fukboyz in the first place.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

A high value girl wouldn't use the word "fuckboy" in the first place.

Girls who complain about "fuckboys" are essentially the female equivalent of the nice guy.

[RinXD]

She's not high value she's in her party phase that won't end until her mid 30s or until she gets pregnant

[MysteriousDarkness]

She might be one to go out and party and again she might not.

[Anonymous]

You've got it backwards. A high value girl wouldn't associate with such guys in the first place.

[Asker]

You are right

[sidzyyy]

Yaaa probably..

[Anonymous]

Yes!