Would u date a girl with the reputation of "a whore"?

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lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

If that's who she is, then no. but, found some of those reputations to be not only false, but manipulative lies. Some guys will INTENTIONALLY trash a girl, make her think she's dating, then treat her like crap. she doesn't know what hit her. These are sick people.

In that case, I support her and her fathers rights to discipline those sickos by all means necessary. Letting them go, is wrong and certain to cause damage to others.

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

It depends on what her new life is like. Of course if it's just a rumor but if it's true I'd prefer she choose to stay with just me when we dated and hopefully just me going into marriage but even just to date to get to know her. I could look past the sleeping around a bit but I would be careful how intimate I got with her considering stds

riya54 · Accepted Answer

That's a really disgusting title you can ever give to a girl. Maybe these are just the rumours and secondly if the girl is good and you two guys have a compatibility then why won't u date?

Powderpuff97 · Accepted Answer

Whores rule

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

That would totally depend on whether her reputation was warranted or not. In other words, did I personally think she was "a whore".

If I thought so, then absolutely not. I definitely wouldn't date that girl. I don't even need to say anything more about it.

If, on the other hand, we're talking about a situation where a girl has A REPUTATION for being "a whore"... but It's a reputation that's undeserved (I have seen that happen more than once)... it's a different story entirely.

I would ABSOLUTELY date a girl with a reputation for being a whore. If I knew she wasn't a whore, that's all that's important. And then, of course, I would shove that down anyone's throat, who was stupid enough to make some disrespectful comment.

ShortCircuit · Answer

No. There is a chance that she actually isn't a whore, and that it was all based on false rumors, but most people's reputations precede them. Even if it was a 50/50 chance (and it's more like 95/5), I would rather err on the side of over-exclusion. If I err on the side of over-exclusion, the worst that can happen is I miss out on a good girl (but there are billions of other good girls). Whereas, if I err on the side of over-inclusion, the worst that can happen is that she lies to me, and the truth emerges only after I've wasted years of my life on her.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Nope. Studies have shown that promiscuity is catastrophically damaging to women and any relationship they enter. Its shown to increase rates of cheating, divorce, unhappiness within long term relationships, unhappiness in sex, increased rates of anxiety and depression. Going with a girl like that is like eating poison cake, just because it looks good and just because it tastes good doesn't mean its not going to kill you. So no thank you, I would rather have some one who would actually value sex and think that sex with me is something special and intimate rather then viewing it as no different then masturbation.

Tlaos · Answer

Not sure, maybe, I'd be curious to find out the truth within the grapevines. Depends on the girl, how she carries herself - why does she have this reputation, is it false or somewhat true and why. Of course, everyone has life experiences... but for me to see past the flaws she has be really great (like STI/STD). I think the most important part is What type insecurities does she have? The labeling shouldn't be the big issue, but the motive behind it. If she's got esteem issues hmm that's iffy, trust issues ooh, ah commitment issues even worse, or whatever else you can imagine. I would want to have fun in relationship not turn into paranoid detective. I think tho, the more attractive you are the higher our tolerance (haha...) Not taking account personality

marc575 · Answer

If a "slut" had every men in her life, but she suddenly chooses you and changed her whole vision... i mean everyone seeks the love of her life so thats why you need to be openminded to hear instead of judge. And if she really had like every men she could think of, but she chooses you. She would already be ashamed she didn't wait for you. You both can't forget what you guys did in the past but try help each other not to think about it. Because she chooses you for one reason, you are the best man she ever had in her life. Take it as a chance, yes you have to digest her history but you have the most loyal partner ever

BrexitAteMyLobster · Answer

I'm not too interested in reputations over my own assessment of a person. Reputations can be entirely false. They are also heavily influenced by subjective bias. To one guy, a whore might be a girl who slept with two men. To someone else it's a girl who has slept with 20 men. I like to think that I have my own mind and can form my own opinions.

Gunnar1978 · Answer

I think reputations are overrated. Could be that the person is nice but people just talk bad of her for whatever reasons. One should try to get an own impression of the person.

(Also 'beeing a whore' can mean many different things in the views of different people.)

DOGMA1954 · Answer

Would you go out with a guy that humps every girl or woman they have been with? Their might be a real reason for that reputation or it could be mostly gossip from people that enjoy causing pain to someone because thigs just didn't go the way they thought it should. I would go out with them and see for myself.

SjE78 · Answer

yeah cos the funny thing about reputations are they are often given to some who rejected someone who started a rumour about them

for example, someone turned down a person cos they didn't feel attracted to them.
other times they could be someone jealous of the person's choices

I date based on personality and if they are disloyal or dishonest then i won't date them, nomatter what society says about them or what the did in their past before i met them

Kaneki05 · Answer

Depends what you mean is this just people calling her it. Or does she sleep with many guys which is not really a problem. It becomes a big problem when they are know for cheating then i won't touch it.

Unless if it reasonable like they cheated cause the boyfriend was stright up just not trying and was just been shit. but that would be something i would have to judge myself.

distressedanonymus · Answer

Personally I wouldn't date a girl who's sleepy around too much but women lie about this so much that men usually never find out.

If a girl I'm dating has had mmf threesome drunken hook ups or open relationships and I catch wind of it.

I don't care if we're married I'm leaving.
A girl who's slept around has the dating value of a man who's ugly fat and lives with Mom at 40, very low.

Mysoginist I know but that's how it is. Same way fat ugly dudes have to accept that they have low dating options so will a whore in the sense of marriage and kids

englisc · Answer

No. If she has that reputation there's usually a reason for it. The guys who say they'd ask her to find out more are naive. Women know that a guy won't want to commit to a promiscuous woman, so a woman like this will lie about her past, especially if she likes the guy and wants to convince him that she's worth committing to.

Ttam69 · Answer

I would get to know her first and decide for myself. If she has no standards at all for herself it doesn't paint an attractive picture, but at the same time it's her right to sleep with who she wants and I doubt she would care about my opinion in that situation!

Vanessa_Reyes · Answer

I would, I've had people call me that. Doesn't mean it's true 😏

JigyW · Answer

for me personally the reputation isn't her personality. And the end of the day you fall in love with person not the peoples opinions of her

LoU_Hades · Answer

Yes. Cum dumpsters aren't really attractive as long term partners and girls you won't be associated with, but for "dating" is this type of girls usable.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

I would have sex with her, but date her? Hell no! Every man would be laughing at you as the man dating the girl everyone else has fucked.

I have known men who married whores and they are the laughing stock. FYI, these women still whore around even after marriage.

Anonymous · Answer

Unpopular opinion: No. Dont take it as me judging, shaming, etc. I just feel sex should be respected more. I wouldn't hold it against them and if there was chemistry I would be friends but unless they renounced that lifestyle it's off the table for me 🤷‍♂️

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

I'd roll my eyes and rudely shut down the conversation if I heard that.

"Whore" barely has a definition anymore.

Either its another girl who's jealous because she's more attractive.. or it's a guy who's mad because they can't have her.

Tunasub · Answer

Reputation is just what people think they know and how she portrays herself, character is who she really is. Her reputation may be suspect but if she had good character that not everyone knew about only a select few and I was one of them.. yes. is my answer.

David92506 · Answer

It depends on how much money she wanted.

I once heard a comedian say that the difference between a whore and slut is this:
A whore will have sex with anyone as long as he has the money.
A slut will have sex with anyone, except you.

Lionboy79 · Answer

Whoa... Would you prefer either meeting a hoe or a priest? 🤔 I don't care about people's opinion so surely would meet her. And who knows, maybe she is a wonderful girl with experience? Perfect match then! 👍

pizzalovershouse · Answer

No but I've had females friends that changed from that an I never dated them but stayed friends with them cuz they were kind to people but had been molested or sexually abused so I understand how they got messed up about sex

foxrider77 · Answer

Wouldn’t date but would invite her over for some cookies and cream

Anonymous · Answer

If she has a reputation for cheating, perhaps not, if she has a reputation for being a nympho outside of relationships, perhaps yes, if she's got a reputation for being a nympho with partners, hell yes.

normalice · Answer

As long as there was mutual physical attraction, sexual compatibility, and no glaring personality conflicts, sure. However, whatever gave her the reputation of a whore might correlate to personality conflicts.

lukalas · Answer

Reputation or an actual whore, that says that shit can be wrong, if she has the reputation and she’s not actually a whore then maybe if she an actual whore hell no

ThatGuy133 · Answer

That's just a reputation. Most of that crap isn't real. I'd at least talk to her and if I'm not comfortable with the situation I'll just politely decline any further dates.

ohshee · Answer

Yes and i have ,,, because i new better and i was right

AaronKrieger · Answer

Probably not, but it depends on how I see her act with me and others.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

I’ll have to ask her about her past, specifics, and I’ll see what I do from there.

slatyb · Answer

Very possibly. I want a woman who enjoys sex, and don't care at all for slut-shaming haters.

RHK36 · Answer

I don't listen to other people's perceptions, so yeah if she's got a good personality and we click then of course.

88-mph · Answer

A persons reputation and past can be telling. Whore is subjective, few girls are virgins these days. If the reputation is true If she was an actual whore no I wouldn't.
More importantly I wouldn't date seriously a woman who has a history of cheating.
Guys differentiate between girls they fuck and the girls they marry.

Dongtai · Answer

If she didn’t have a reputation of cheating I’d love the fact that she’s sexually liberated. As long as she doesn’t cheat or have diseases I’ll date her.

winterfox10 · Answer

I have. My "girlfriend" after college had a horrible reputation, in that regard. I don't regret it, but would definitely not do it again.

MM442 · Answer

Reputations do get greatly exaggerated by people telling bigger & bigger lies inorder to ruin someone's reputation. I would take a chance and find out for myself.

Caleb103 · Answer

As long as they aren't a cheater and I don't really care if I like their personality

Beta_Wolf · Answer

Yesss, at least she'd be mine then 😝good girls gone bad, bad girls gone good

Caunsos · Answer

It is so easy for a girl to be called a whore it kind of meaningless

Laozi · Answer

Yup. Why not? It was given by the people who got a butt hurt.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd rather date a whore, because she has better dignity than a slut.

akihon · Answer

Nope she's being banged more than a salvation army drum and she's probably got god knows what along with a very messed up mental health so no.

R4vedave · Answer

Yes, because I don't believe in labels like that. Unless she got the title by cheating. In which case I hope she dies alone 👌

genericname85 · Answer

i don't give much for reputations. i'll find out myself.

Lotusinwater · Answer

I’m not physically attractive or rich Im not worth enough to have dating standards so I guess I would

esotericstory · Answer

If she can settle down for me and have a family. I'm not gonna put energy in a girl thats gonna leave me after a week.

Juxtapose · Answer

Whores are great! I'd stay with one for life, probably in an open relationship.

Tommy2017 · Answer

Lol. What has does got to do with anything. Provided she is willing to give it up, of course

ronaldo75 · Answer

No way in hell. I'm not looking for virgins and I don't care who a girl has been with but I DO have a problem with people who have played sexual games and have gotten into drama over fucking everyone they know.

sixxx · Answer

Are you talking about yourself or someone you know?

TheBootyChest · Answer

I dont think any women is a whore. So my answer is a no. What do you qualify as a whore?

BCA6010 · Answer

If that reputation was well-deserved, then it would be a hard pass.

Berethor · Answer

Why should a date a slut? sluts are not worth dating. :)

soleil2666 · Answer

If she looked like in the photo, yes. I do my own personality scanning, never believe a word of what anyone says. Never got it wrong either. The energy is always clear to see.

MrManga · Answer

If there where some truth to the reputation then no

bklynbadboy1 · Answer

Yes I would just cause people call her that doesn't mean she it on

bananathunder · Answer

sure why not... I have in the past and it was fun lol

Shamalien · Answer

Translation: “Can I be a whore and not ruin my future? Im young dumb and would like to be full of cum but I need some idiots to enable my bad decisions”

HmrssAnas · Answer

Yes of course I would , I don’t care about the reputation as long as I love her and she loves me back

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