Girls, Ladies, why do you purposely seek attention?

[Anonymous]

Just curios why women would purposely seek compliments/attention. Wether it's posting a "thirst pic" (knowing already well enough you will get likes and comments), or if you got some new dress/hair cut/ etc. and bring it up out of nowhere to get the acknowledgment. I say , don't do that, and just let compliments and attention come naurually. Nobody likes an attention whore. And don't feel like you "need it", who ever gives you the said attention and acknowledgement, those should be people you appreciate and want to maybe focus on, and not seeking it from "the world." Like you take a pic that's too explicit to share to a public social media source persay , but you're also thinking in your minds that it's "too good" to be sitting in your phone too , and that its "sad" only you can appreciate it. Just don't purposely set up a situation to get that satisfaction and attention. If someone notices - then they notice , and if they don't - they don't !

[friedchickenn]

Girls seek attention because there conceited, or there insecure and wanna feel more confident. I have a friend that loves attention and it's so irritating so I get what you mean. Some people are confident enough so they seek validation from others which is pathetic

[Redheadmatch]

I feel as though this is a generalisation. Maybe you don't notice the women who don't seek attention because they're no so in your face

[Asker]

I do notice the women who don't seek attention. It's a major difference between a woman who knows within herself that she is beautiful and confident , accepting what and who she is. Compared to the women who lack such confidence and can't see their own beauty or at least accept their beauty , so instead they seek that recognition from others because they can't find it within themselves.

[anewgirl]

I don't. I avoid pictures of myself like the plague. THE PLAGUE.

[Tootsie89]

It's what girls do nowadays I don't need validation from other people

[Asker]

But why? What infatuates a woman to do so to where she feels important? If you don't , then good for you 😌

[Tootsie89]

She just needs people to make her feel good constantly probably because she thinks she is not that good looking confidence issues and she uses her body pics as a weapon because she knows what attracts guys

[Tootsie89]

She usually is an attention seeker but we have plenty of those but I think the world says enough is not enough you know...

[Asker]

I agree with you. Enough surely is enough. And annoying. It's not the worlds problems to be aware or help with her self issues , when self issues as far as thinking "I'm not good looking enough" are irrelevant

[Tootsie89]

Yes but we can't do anything to change it or can we?

[witherwing]

Because it boosts my confidence.