Why do women hate each other so much?

[CasaNorba]

I heard this quote when I was in high school and till this day I'm intrigued by it. obviously nobody understand women but themselves yet it doesn't take more one stem cell to analyze how much they hate each other.

- As proof I remember when growing up all I heard was my mom spoke about how happy and thankful she is that "God never gave her a daughter because all girls are bound to be sluts, whores and drama queens."

- During high school in lunch whenever I sat in a table full of women all I heard them talk about is how much they hate these other girls in school and how they wish they can beat the shit out of them, etc.

but anyways I was always told that people hate what they can't conquer and don't want to understand, but if this is the case then why do women hate each other so much?

[Onlythisone]

Hate takes too much effort... I think people dislike me because I confuse them, all the women I've met who have a similar life I tend to I have an instant connection with. And most women around my age who I don't have anything in common with are friendly on an acquaintance level. The only ones that instantly dislike me tend to be older... One professor told me it was because I looked naive and happy basically but I don't remember the exact wording. Seems silly though since it was a class and people always say I look angry when I'm thinking. So who knows, they remind them about a past part of themselves that makes them uncomfortable maybe... Anyone's guess is as good as mine.

[Iwant2kno]

It’s a good question I don’t really know the answer to. I’ve experience this myself. For some reason, women don’t always like me and some really hate me with their bones! The funny thing about it is that I don’t hate other women, is the contrary. When I’m given the chance and I become friends with them, I can say I’m a good friend because I’ve encourage them to believe more in themselves or see other perspectives. Some have told me am a good friend, but other women I just don’t know why they can’t stand me (one time a girl literally said to my face she could stand to see my face & I had never done anything to her). 🤨

[gwail]

I have a close group of girl friends I trust and I'm close with. But girls like to have control and be the "better female" I don't know why. But I've noticed it happen all my life.
And girls steal other girls' boyfriends just to prove they can. not because they actually like him. Some girls can be so evil

[Secretstemptation]

Yep there are those type of girls out there

[CasaNorba]

yea unfortunately I when to high school with these types of girls and boy were they a pain

[kk123help]

I don't know I'm confused lol I don't hate someone unless they do something bad to me and not all girls are sluts/whores. I'm a virgin I dress modestly people can gossip a lot I don't know why I prefer not to gossip and be surrounded by drama I hate drama not every girl hates one another

[CasaNorba]

reason why you are a virgin and dress modestly is because you are obviously 14 and still live with your parents. but lets see how long that's gonna last, the virgin and dress up park of course

[kk123help]

fine lol believe it or not I'm actually a good person not a slut

[FakeName123]

Because women can't really improve themselves within the biological hierarchy. Their evolutionary worth is based on their fertility and health - which both are connected to youthfulness. Women can't do much about it. Yet, everyone wants to be higher within the hierarchy than they are - even moreso when they are on the lower end and highly insecure.

So what do women do then in order to compete? They sabotage the competition. Where men compete who is the best at X (=bank-account, lifting weight, intelligence, etc) women sabotage each other. At least the highly superficial ones do. And there are plenty of very very superficial people out there.

[CasaNorba]

yea our modern day culture does not help out at all on this one

[Kkaos]

Girls don't all hate each other. You're using your skewed background to make a stupid generalization about all girls.

Some girls get jealous of each other, but it's not like they all hate each other. If they hated each other they wouldn't be friends with each other.

Geez, people on this site are weird.

One one half you've got the guy who claims all women are lesbian and they prefer women to men.

And now you've got this guy saying women hate each other...

Fucking lol...

[CasaNorba]

"If they hated each other they wouldn't be friends with each other."

bro you one naïve sucker if you think everyone who ACT like friends are actual friends, sounds to me like you need to come out of your cave a little more often and see women for what the majority of them truly are.

"One one half you've got the guy who claims all women are lesbian and they prefer women to men.

And now you've got this guy saying women hate each other...

Fucking lol... "

you just made a generalization here yourself so you need to take your own advice on this one. but again you need to go out and interact with women more often so you can learn their true colors and nature a little more.

PS= I won't be surprised if you respond to this and then block me to get the last word like the majority of the simps who are joining this site now have been doing lately

[Kkaos]

Yeah, people can fake being friends... But if you think millions of girls fake being friends despite 'hating' each other, you need help.

That's true, I did make a generalization. I never said I was perfect, did I.

[silverqueen]

@Kkaos Thank you for being one of the very few guys with a brain lmao

[CasaNorba]

@silverqueen yea a lot of men do use their brain a little more often then the usual when they want pussy points.

[silverqueen]

@CasaNorba Men can think outside of that realm you know. You make men seem like they’re pigs that lack basic human decency and rationale

[CasaNorba]

@silverqueen lmao you are as naïve as this guy is, I think you two make a good couple.

seriously you'll surprise how many actual "pigs" pretend to have an abundance of "basic human decency and rationale" and actually do a good job at fooling people. anyways I hope you don't meet any of these guys in real life so you won't end up being heart broken or traumatized

[Charleslvajr]

@silverqueen Wait a minute! Is there a woman on GaG that doesn't hate men entirely? Wow, will wonders never cease?

[silverqueen]

Okay dude. Hope you can actually recover from yours because at this point all I’ve encountered are amazing guys that I don’t regret talking to. You, however, need some help.

[silverqueen]

@Charleslvajr The app has many hateful people that think their opinion is the only truthful opinion in the world! This guy included (CasaNorba)

[Charleslvajr]

@silverqueen I've been ignoring him mostly. Sorry, I'm not up on the conversation, I was just scanning when I came across your comment and I just had to express my surprise.

[CasaNorba]

@silverqueen just because my opinions don't please you doesn't mean I'm hateful. till I think being hateful is a lot better than being a follower/crowd pleaser because after all these are the people who not only can't be themselves but will always be slaves to deceptions

[silverqueen]

@CasaNorba Whatever floats your boat 🙄

[CasaNorba]

@silverqueen and beware of that 47 year old weirdo who's hitting on you in this very same post

[silverqueen]

@CasaNorba Honestly you’re one of the most deluded people I’ve seen here

[Charleslvajr]

@silverqueen Okay, the doomsayer is seriously beating the drum. I've learned to be decent to people without being a "slave" to anything. You seem like a pleasant person with some common sense so I will show decency.

[Charleslvajr]

I'm hitting on her. How do you get that take?

[silverqueen]

@Charleslvajr He just thinks all girls are self-hating sluts and that all men are wild pigs with no human brain. I pity him

[CasaNorba]

@Charleslvajr don't lie you're just tending to be "decent" cause you're craving approval hoping your gonna score with that 21 year old you been hounding

[CasaNorba]

pretending*

[silverqueen]

^ See?

[silverqueen]

He’s deluded

[CasaNorba]

@silverqueen I think I rather be deluded as well over being a naïve dimwit that gets target by weirdos that are almost 30 years older than her. again I hope you don't meet these type of dudes in real life

[silverqueen]

@CasaNorba Trust me, I can differentiate between a person being polite and an idiot who thinks the universe revolves around him. Cough.

[CasaNorba]

@silverqueen sounds like you need more practice, and I hope you get it... talk about being deluded

[Charleslvajr]

What the fuck are you talking about you deranged little lunatic?

[silverqueen]

@CasaNorba Well I hope you re read that comment and apply it to yourself

[silverqueen]

@Charleslvajr Men like him make women in this app hate all men in general. He gives men a horrible name

[Charleslvajr]

@silverqueen Most definitely deluded. That's the problem these days. Nobody understands a compliment is just that, not chasing after something. Maybe somebody will put him out of his misery and save the world one more problem.

[Charleslvajr]

@silverqueen I've met the female equivalent of him and it'll make a man hate women, that's for sure. Which is why I take a minute and get to know a few who aren't like these crazy SOBs who just can't pull their heads out of their asses.

[CasaNorba]

@silverqueen you're one to talk miss I beg for approval of others

[Kkaos]

@CasaNorba Wow, so what's happened here? A girl happens to agree with me, that suddenly means I'm after 'pussy points' apparently. Another guy throws in some support and apparently that means he's trying to get 'pussy points' as well I guess.

So basically anyone who disagrees with whatever crap you decide to say must have some hidden agenda? Have you ever thought it's simply because you talk absolute trash? ... Just a thought.

[CasaNorba]

we'll see who the real lunatic is @Charleslvajr

[silverqueen]

@CasaNorba Lol.. honestly get some help please.

[CasaNorba]

@silverqueen you're gonna need help in the near future, lmao

[silverqueen]

@CasaNorba Well everyone needs some help at some point. You, however, need to first realize that you’re in desperate need of it.

[CasaNorba]

I'm pretty sure they keep disagreeing and continually rub it in my face for a reason @Kkaos

[CasaNorba]

@silverqueen yea whatever, hopefully you won't be the one that won't desperately needs it in the future

[Mlily55]

My wise best friend: “You can hate another girl and wish her hell and death, but lord if she starts saying her period started and she’s unprepared you know every other girl in the vicinity will bust out a tampon or a pad for her. Ain’t nothing more unifying than that.”

[CasaNorba]

ok, are you on drugs?

[Mlily55]

No more than this question is

[CasaNorba]

if this question is on drugs then you must be on more than drugs for actually taking the time on answering it

[Mlily55]

Fair enough

[Mlily55]

My point is women don’t actually hate each other to the intensity that this question mentions. Ultimately most women no matter the bad feelings will stand next to each other when it counts. Especially when it comes to lady problems because we can all relate

[azzntittiz]

I never hate other women, I pretend to because it's fun fucking with that which fucked with me my entire life. I have a theory but I don't feel like doing much typing.

I get hate from men too, they often hate me with women that hate me, then try to fuck me while telling me how much other women hate me. So I am double mind fucked, I do not know what is going on, but as I say I have a theory that includes blaming men.

[NK_0913]

A lot of girls (especially young ones) are insecure, and try to take it out on other girls by talking them down to feel better about themselves..
Also a lot of girls get jealous of other girls, because of their looks, status, wealth, and a lot of other stuff as well.
Girls also can genuinely dislike each other. Not every girl who dislikes another girl is starting drama. Sometimes there is good reason to not trust or like a specific girl.

[SketchForger]

Hating the same sex as you is natural because it's a sense of rivalry, I personally do not partake in this because I can't take anyone seriously if they want to be my rival... But people who have a large enough ego can bring themselves to hate anyone for whatever irrational or rational reason.

[latinabutterfly96]

Funny how you say women hate each other yet you seem to also hate men as well. By reading your comments I can conclude that you’re just a person who hates everyone. How sad.

[CasaNorba]

first off this doesn't answer the question

second of all where exactly did I said anything hateful towards men? let me guess you must be another one of @silverqueen friend

[latinabutterfly96]

Ha, I don’t have “friends” here, i just follow people that i feel are able to give good answers.

yes, i saw her opinion to this question and it was very spot on, just like kkaos and the other guy. Not you. You seem to agree with yourself only and if anyone demonstrates that you are wrong, u fiercely get into denial mode.

[CasaNorba]

so you "basically have no friends you just go around kissing other people's asses" is what you're really trying to say. but that's ok because looking at the bright side your being honest I guess.

the rest of what you said was just a repeat of what they said, which clearly screams out that just like her you don't have any knowledge to come up with opinions of your own. but yea he was the only one that was actually brave enough to disagree with me and just because I engaged in a debate with him in return doesn't meant I hate any gender out there. you and her in the other hand just barged in out of the blue and kissed his ass just because he sounded "decent." lmao I can tell the two of you never get any attention from the males that you guys come across on a daily basis

[latinabutterfly96]

Oooook fam.

[latinabutterfly96]

Denial mode proven.

[Secretstemptation]

Honesty a lot of girls and women have low self esteem issues and when they see another attractive women they get jealous because they think why can't ibhave hair like that or a butt like that or etc and best believe if she has a boyfriend/husband with her and she catches him look at that women it's gonna hurt because the person she loves finds that women attractive too and she'll feel not good enough

[CasaNorba]

well if only they knew that love is an option and attraction isn't. and just because you're checking someone out doesn't count as cheating because your not doing anything physical or coming to any commitments with that person you're checking it out.

you know just because you decided to check out some menus does not mean you're actually make any orders

[Secretstemptation]

Just how girls are.. some can be scandalous as hell

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

Only women who are insecure about themselves are like this. I have female friendships with girls who aren’t too judgy , this is because they are comfortable with themselves and don’t care if other girls sleep around or are prettier than them.

[MlleCake]

You say that like men don't hate each other. You beat each other up more, kill each other more, go to wars with each other.

[CasaNorba]

hey at least the majority of men are honest about it and usually have more logical motives

[MlleCake]

I don't believe that at all. What is logical about drunk men beating each other up behind a bar? The violence and anger between men is legendary. Much of it illogical, most of it, if you ask me.

[CasaNorba]

hello, in case you live under a rock alcohol does cause aggression, impaired judgment, and many other things!

either way I seen women done worst things than that without being under the effect of alcohol or any other drug. a perfect example would be

- picking fights with other people under the presence of their children

- getting intoxicated while carrying their unborn kid

- using their children as puppets such as turning them into delinquents

and many others

[MlleCake]

I'm not saying any of that is ok. But to suggest men always compete with each other in logical ways, and that the violence men are well known for is not present, or somehow worse if women do it, is not very self aware.

Why do men get violent with each other? Why do men have trouble bonding with other men and developing deep friendships? What are the obstacles men face in how they relate to each other?

Why is it notable for women to have fractured relationships with other women when you wouldn't even ask the question about men?

Look a little deeper here. If it doesn't bother you that men have such trouble getting along, why does it bother you that women do?

You don't have to answer any of these questions. In fact, don't try to answer them at all. Just think about them, later, some other time.

[MlleCake]

Neither men nor women are all right or all wrong. The other problem you bring up about some women are problems. But they aren't related to the specific question you are asking, and bringing them up is a deflection form the point I am trying to make.

This problem isn't unique to women, and in fact, it seems that it might be more common in men depending on how you look at it. So instead of pointing fingers, what do we really all need to do to make it so humans get along better with other humans?

Is there something we can ALL do? Something we can ALL learn?

[CasaNorba]

women have these same issues too, and at least when we men have these issues we aren't afraid to let them out. unlike you women who are so damn hypocritical about it, you all pretend to "bonding with other women and developing deep friendships" when sharing the same presence but talk a lot of shit when you guys have your back towards each other.

fracture because perhaps they are overemotional and worry too much about it. lets not forget they are social creatures after all so socialization means more to them

again it bothers because women are very hypocritical about it from what I just said above and like I said in my op because nobody understands them except themselves yet they still hate each other.

[MlleCake]

I don't find men to be particularly self-aware about their own propensity toward competition or violence toward each other, so why is it you think women should be MORE self-aware? Why is this something you turn into a gender discussion instead of focusing on the true nature of unrest between people? You certainly have enough to go on just from knowing men.

So why make this about women?

[CasaNorba]

I never said they should be more "self-aware" about there behavior, is not like I give a flying fuck if they want to hurt or kill each other. anyways you were the one who stir this whole thing to this direction, all I asked was why do women hate so much when they are the only ones who actually understand each other

[MlleCake]

No, you were the one who made this a gendered question and pointed fingersat women while saying nothing about men. Your choice of question was not neutral.

I'm asking you why.

Why only point it out in women?

[CasaNorba]

dude women everyone here ask non-gender neutral questions here all the time. this is "girls ask guys" not "girls/guys ask feminists."

and for the millionth time I asked this because its been said that women are the only ones to truly understand each other yet for some reason they always seem to hate each other. and I thought it was illogical to hate something you fully understand

[MlleCake]

So, why do men hate other men?

(And I turn a lot of gendered questions around on the asker and urge them to see if their perceptions are biased, not just you.)

[CasaNorba]

I don't care what you do with other members here. and there are many reasons why some men might hate other men. maybe cause the man they hate acts like an asshole? maybe that other man did something offensive? maybe he's annoying?

whatever the reason is always a logical reason and we aren't afraid to show it. unlike women in the other hand...

[MlleCake]

See, and now we get at the nature of your question. You basically think women are illigical and that men always have good reasons for hating each other.

Neither of those is true.

That's why I turned the question back on you.

And you did care enough about other askers because you brought them up.

[CasaNorba]

not sure what askers you are referring to because I'm not cherry picking any of their names, you were the one who brought them up so stop trying to put words in my mouth.

and judging from what I seen from all the walks in life its 100% true. you women are all flooded with nothing but hypocrisy and ulterior motives. doesn't take rocket science to figure this one out because you all got "prostitute" encoded in your genes and I can write a whole book on this one.

[MlleCake]

And this is why I turned the question back on you. It was a sexist question from a sexist person to begin with. There is no answer for you.

Women are no less logical than men. You just believe we are.

If I told you "it's just because that woman is annoying" you would not call that a logical reason to hate someone, but you justify it if a man does it.

So, we can never teach you anything about what motivates women. It's not all the sexist shit you believe. That's all we can really say.

[CasaNorba]

yea because you are psychic after all

[MlleCake]

Not psychic, just experienced. And I wasn't wrong either.

[CasaNorba]

you were extremely wrong, all you did hear was assume shit and put words in other people's mouth

[MlleCake]

I assumed you were a sexist. You proved you were a sexist. Assumption correct.

[Ndifreke]

I doubt that is true. Your specific experience doesn't really speak for a whole. Women don't hate each other.

[CasaNorba]

those experiences were just a few example. if only I can extract all my visual data out of my brain and format them in video format

[SLSYW15]

Some women hate each other because of jealousy! And women are so difficult to understand.;)

[jennifer_bloom]

I disagree. If you understand somebody you are very unlikely to hate them.

[CasaNorba]

that's what I thought as well but it seems like this doesn't apply to women at all

[jennifer_bloom]

I know a lot of people who think they understand you when they don't understand you at all - its almost impossible to hate somebody that you understand.

[LoveBirb]

I honestly have not experienced this so I'm not a big help with this question. Your mom seems crazy though.

[Lynnh]

Natural rivalry? I guess? But we also really care about women and always stick together, 's not like we wanna murder every woman out there 😂

[Warmapplecrumble]

Women are jealous of each other, and compete. I feel like men do the same too.

[findingdreamland-1]

It is not hate it is just strong competition. I do know why. But it is what it is.

[johari]

It's all competition mentality but not all are like that

[Witchesqe]

I don't lol , I'm dating a women and I definitely don't hate her

[UsernameMadness]

It's always either love or hate with women. There's nothing in between. What can I tell you? They're just an emotional mess.

[silverqueen]

@Kkaos Thank you for being one of the very few guys with a brain lmao

[silverqueen]

That was supposed to be a comment

[CasaNorba]

are you gonna reward him with your vagina as well?

[silverqueen]

Oooh. Sorry you grew up with an abusive mom that clearly brainwashed you and made you hate women

[CasaNorba]

that doesn't answer the question, but oh well you may be right 👍 👍 👍

[silverqueen]

Because the question on itself is a fallacy. It’s already predisposed to the belief that women hate women. But it’s not true. People hate some people but that doesn’t mean it’s exclusive to women. Your experiences, though truthful, may be biased. You may have ignored or skipped those situations wherein women didn’t show any signs of hatred towards each other. Definitely your mom made you think this way since what she said is completely untrue and unacceptable

[silverqueen]

When we grow up in a certain environment we’re inclined to filter out those situations that don’t agree with it. This is an example.

[CasaNorba]

I wasn't talking about my actual question but yea ok you may be right

[Volvagia]

I don't hate anyone m8