What does it mean when a girl says you’re rude?

[Anonymous]

Literally as the question states, my friend told me I was rude and I asked her why and she literally just said because “I just am”

[SirRexington]

Probably means your rude. And by that i mean, you said something that offended her. Although offending people appears to be much easier than it was even 5 years ago.

[Asker]

Probably lol, although I didn’t really say anything offending I don’t think

[SirRexington]

And there in lies the problem. Either A; you did say something rude but dont recognize it (which is part of my problem).
B; you weren't rude but she perceived it as such do to her being a butthurt feminazi.
Or C; what is rude? As it is all a matter of subjective opinion.

[Asker]

Ah I see then

[SirRexington]

Glad i could help. Any other questions? I would love to help.

[Asker]

Another question of mine is that if you were to call a girl a dork is that flirting? Or

[SirRexington]

I'd say so. Depends on what you meant by it. Did you mean to flirt? Do you know the girl? Or was she really just a lame person? I doubt she was. in the end it's whatever your intent was. If i call a girl a dork it will always be towards a woman i know and find to be silly. Whether i have flirtatious undertones or not. But that's just me.

[Asker]

If I were to do it it would be to get a reaction, usually I get positive reactions.

[SirRexington]

So, the intent is or is not flirtatious? Is it a flirtation to get a reaction, or is it to get a reaction then decide whether to flirt?

[Asker]

Mine is usually flirtatious yes

[SirRexington]

Well there ya go. You answered your own question lol. Is calling her a dork why she said you were rude?

[Asker]

Ok lol
So if a girl were to call you a dork then it would be either one then? In a flirtatious way or not

[SirRexington]

Yes and no. Again it's all about what the intention was. Though on average i'd say calling someone else (someone you know) a dork would be an endearing motive. So in other words, it is inherently flirtatious but there are exceptions. And you didn't answer MY question, was calling a girl a dork the reason for you being called rude?

[Asker]

No I wasn’t called rude for that reason she had said it randomly without me saying anything before that

[SirRexington]

Then i wouldn't put much thought into this person's comment.

[Asker]

Ok then
Well good

[ChelseaGlow]

She’s either being mature and annoying

Or

You’re actually rude to people and she’s noticed it

[Asker]

Oh I see

[AlisonCrystal]

maaaaybe she thinks you'r rude

[Asker]

I didn’t say anything offensive though lol

[AlisonCrystal]

then it means that you are overreacting and it probably didn't mean anything. It is nice that you are interested in her behaviour. I bet you're a sensitive guy. or maybe not. either way you are nice

[Asker]

People say I’m nice lol
And that’s good

[Anonymous]

Literally what it means, you're rude!

[Asker]

Oh lol

[NickoN]

it means that you said or did something stupid

[Asker]

Oh lol now I see

[NickoN]

what did you do to her,
be nice and kind to girls, you'll always get more pussy that way :D

[Asker]

Ah I see

[ThatWeirdDude]

She want that dick

[Asker]

Lol oh