Can guys only be sexy if their muscled and lean?

[Tohhru]

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+1 y

I want broad shoulders

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+1 y

Emm achhe ohhh?
(Mho?)
Mwhooo?

[CarpetDenim]

Muscles aren't really necessary, and some chubiness is perfectly fine to an extent. To maximize sexiness, being muscled and lean is preferred, but that doesn't mean more average body types can't be sexy either.

[CarpetDenim]

MHO please

[omgjassy]

Definitely

[Tohhru]

I'm fat

[omgjassy]

Ok..

[CallMeDave]

No. One of my girlfriends told me the thing that most attracted her to me was how well I wrote when I sent her emails and wrote other things that she read.

I heard a number of women say similar things. Women in general are less interested in physical characteristics than men are. Intelligence, thoughtfulness, being hard-working, being responsible and being respectful are things that a lot of women admire in a guy - and every one of them (except maybe intelligence) is something any guy can develop even if they weren't born with it.

[dmmmmm01888]

Okay I can like a guy for his personality but if I'm not attracted to him physically then he will just be put in the friend zone, especially if I am physically disgusted by his appearance which I hate to say it, but it's the truth.

[dmmmmm01888]

I do like skinnier guys. I hate any bit of chub or fat. It just makes me feel like they don't take care of themselves

[CallMeDave]

@dmmmmm01888 I agree that there has to be some degree of physical attractiveness. All I'm saying is that a guy does not have to spend a couple hours in the gym every day to attract women.

I consider myself to be an average looking guy and while I'm in reasonable physical condition, I'm certainly not muscular and while I think my current girlfriend and the ones before her found me physically appealing enough, I don't think that was the primary reason they were attracted to me.

I feel the same way about women as what you described. Great personality + physically unappealing = friend. Great personality + moderate to high physical appeal = someone I'd like to date. Bad personality = someone I try to avoid regardless of how physically attractive they are.

[dmmmmm01888]

Yes I do agree that physical is important but it's not everything. A guy can be model looking but be a total douchebag. Another guy can be with a great personality, but also be overweight, balding, and short, so they would just be a friend

[Anonymous]

Being sexy is subjective. Personally, I find I’m physically attracted to someone who has some muscle and definition, but also has some meat on their bones. To me, being sexy is more than just outward appearances. It’s s combination of looks, character, lifestyle, and similar interests.

[samhradh_leannan]

That's the traditional, conventional idea of an attractive male physique. But men with all kinds of body types can be attractive. My boyfriend doesn't have that body type and I think he is the sexiest guy on the planet.

[laurbeansxx]

Nah. In my opinion, girls prioritize attractive face over attractive body. Guys like attractive body over attractive face. Of course, if someone's body was really unattractive while their face was attractive and vice versa, it'd throw off people.

[theventrsomeone]

What do you prefer

[laurbeansxx]

@theventrsomeone Attractive face. Plus, a person can always work out to get a nice body, but it's not the same for a hot face unless you get plastic surgery. I wouldn't date a guy who has a hot face but a really weird body, though. It'd be off-putting.

[theventrsomeone]

Then there's that awful personally to deal with, haha

[WendyRm]

I don’t think so. Men can be sexy intellectually or by their personality. Some girls are just too lazy to get to know the guy so they assume if he’s not lean then he’s lazy, boring and stupid.

[Godless_flawless]

No. It lies more with the individual personality traits. I’ve had a huge crush on Louis ck, a not very traditionally attractive guy but because he’s so hilarious!

[cflr0227]

No way! I like some meat on men, muscular or not preferably bigger and strong but not to muscular, to me the guy in the pic looks toned but scrawny not my type at all

[RTL4123]

No, guys can be sexy in many ways. Not just physical

[Parisgirl30]

No way there are lots of men that are hot in different ways

[tampaxgirl]

No but being in shape is the only way I can find guys attractive with the occasional exception.

[Furuok]

What part of muscles , arms , legs , back , shoulders , all are the most important? And how important are abs?

[tampaxgirl]

@Furuok Abs are the most important and the rest of his parts must help in making me feel small around him.

[Anonymous]

Every girl has different types/ preferences. Personally, guys who are skinny and tall are the hottest to me

[dmmmmm01888]

Yeah I would have to say so, but I don't mind guys who are lean as in thin. As long as they aren't fat

[Confidenceoverload]

i mean im lean but not that muscular and im hot some girls said

[Flower-petal]

Wow... He's hot lol
No I don't think that's necessarily true

[MlleCake]

Nope. Sexy men come in all shapes and sizes.

[JoyGirl]

No, but the guy in the pic is hot. <3

[Tohhru]

Joy girl😃 remember tohru?

[JoyGirl]

Yes.

[Jesse_kittenpup]

its depends but im fine with skrawny men

[Tohhru]

What about over weight guys

[Jesse_kittenpup]

I'm more interested in the mind and the commitment then a body

[Decentguy]

by most people standards, Yeah

[LittleCuriosity93]

Nope !

[Anonymous]

Some guys have inner hottness