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Do you prefer quiet/shy/introverted types or louder/outgoing/extroverted types for dating and why?
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Im attracted to the quieter, more mysterious guys, because I'm kinda the same way when people meet me. But with almost everyone I know I can get them to "open" up to me...people tease me or come to me for gossip/info on what's going on because they claim I'm everyones "confidant"...so when I get around quiet guys..i think "hummmm...i wonder if I can get him to open up" and I know he is different then the personality he gives off...i guess its a challenge, and also its plain and simple that they don't let others in or trust easy, and I guess I feel like I've won the challenge when they open up & become theirselves with me. Louder, "outgoing" guys turn me off...I don't care for "show offs" not saying outgoing people are, but guys...they like to brag,boast etc, etc...and I don't like it. I'm a very private person if your not in my circle I don't mess with you...until I really get to know you...and I like my men that way too. Its funny I never realized I was attracted to guys who basically come off like myself =) Interesting question! & observation! thanx! =) Best wishes!
Wow you are one in a million. It seems like all of the girls I have met only like loud and outgoing guys. Which sucks because I'm outgoing when people get to know me.
Yes I am one in a million ;-) haha!...behind every shy person is most likely someone who has a great personality!!! & my experiences have proved this!! So keep being you & the right girl will see right through the shyness! G'Luck!
Outgoing because I'm more on the shyer side and opposites attract. 2 shy people just wouldn't work!
Riddle me this: What's your first response if you're going out with a quiet guy, everythings all steady, and then suddenly he out of the blue becomes extroverted and starts spilling his guts to you, proclaiming his love to the heavens and dancing in the parking lots? Creepy, am I right? As an introvert myself, I can tell you that your feelings bounce inside of you, resonating and growing stronger. You just have to have the patience to let them become strong enough to be spoken. Anyways..Shy won't do, and loud I couldn't live with. The rest of them are easy to adapt to.
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