I think a lot of girls fall for broken guys not only because they want to help them but b/c they want to be the one to "change" them. For women like that it makes them feel "special" and like they are the guy's
"only one" b/c no other girl could do what she did for him. All most women want are to feel special to the guy and like she actually contributes/helps him in life.
I never do that but it's a thing men are famous for. This is why so many relationships are miserable. A person must want to change and work on their own personal development, the s. o should just be there for moral support, because no one is perfect.
Women are natural care givers, when we see someone who is in need of of help we want to help them get better. This is the natural Maternal instinct of a woman, we do this for our children and even men.
We're socialized to nurture and get a lot of societal messages which romanticize the idea of 'fixing' guys
Could be, man. I want one of those right now but I'm not that lucky :P I'm guessing it's maternal instinct, caring for what seems like a vulnerable soul. Just like a typical dude wants a woman that will rely on him, which stems from the alpha instinct of the ancestors.
Maybe because they're broken too?
either you fix each other, or you break more (usually this).
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some girls do like 'broken guys' for self gratification, but some others do just want to fix people because they truly believe the person deserves better. another reason could be because they feel sorry for you, but i wouldn't jump to that reason.
i can't speak on behalf of girls, each have their own reason to do it.
For some girls, its cause they're broken too and know what its like. Think you deserve better because they know first hand how shitty it is kind of thing
It's not like fixing, I mean women approach others from emotional perspective so we could feel if a man is broken heart
Women have a greater nurture instinct, that for some stupid biological reason also activates with grown up babies, not just real babies.
That's a good question that i was also going to ask recently as well but i figured why bother doesn't change his they'll act
I'm depressed and emotionally broken, have been my whole life. Where's my "many girls trying to fix me".
Not fair
There are girls that go for broken guys? So there's hope for me after all?
Because it's a project! Play the game or put the work in and find a woman that doesn't exhibit that behavior..
bored. girls bore easily, so, they take on "projects", then, when he's "fixed", they move on to the new one
I like broken girls... I guess it's the curiosity of how they truly are?
Easiest way to reform them maybe
It's maybe because we can relate.
She wants to control him.
They think that they can easily change them
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