The essence of femininity is class, and being classy requires self-respect and confidence and both are achieved by self-discipline. So I guess the key to femininity is self-discipline. Beauty which is mostly self-care is also achieved by self-discipline. When a woman is feminine, she's self reserved as well, she wears feminine clothes; clothes that show her sweetness rather than her sexuality. When it comes to her sexuality it's not obvious, it's not out there for everyone to be aroused by, it's way more special than that.
Here's a glimpse of a true feminine woman; just the vibe of love and joy.
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Look wise - dress or skirts always have my attention.
Personality wise - I'm quite good at discerning when someone is truly nice or just trying to uphold their own reputation. There's a big difference between someone who smile a lot and someone who picks up a random rubbish off the ground and bin it properly. Again, the latter kind of people always have my attention and always more attractive.
I would rather date someone with a great personality but not so good looks, than date a super model but selfish/self-important girl.40 Reply
+1 yHigh heels, frilly dresses, pink, lilac, pouting lips, long hair, lovely long eye lashes, lipstick, perfume, lots of things. There is a great new group for Women only - free - on facebook - come and join in the latest topics - this week we are taking about would you stay with a cheat? Hear what the other women have to say and get their support of you need it. https://www.facebook.com/groups/279539472814109/
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+1 yBy feminine and attractive do you mean ladylike and pretty/beautiful/cute? Or do you mean Empirically female and boner inducing at the very least? Lol😄
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Then I would have to conclude that it comes down to posture, how a woman sits, dresses, walks, carries herself and speaks. She ALWAYS treats people with respect and shows gratitude and hospitality to her hosts and doesn't speak if she has nothing to offer in conversation, a lady also doesn't burp or fart at dinner, lick her fingers or slurp her tea. She doesn't yell over a crowded room or shove her way through a crowd either, she is kind and has a generous nature and respect for other people's kind gestures and feelings. When she wears a dress, she never sits with her legs open or scratches herself in front of others and ALWAYS practices good hygiene. A lady is graceful, classy and a delight to be around.
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+1 yThis may vary, depending on the person stating their opinion. But let me clarify that you don't have to be "feminine" to be attractive. There are many women that are just as attractive, or even more, that are more tomboy and not so feminine. Although many men do prefer feminine women, I think the most attractive woman is one who has self confidence, a mix of feminine and tomboy (such as a good caretaker yet very sporty), knows what she wants and how to get it, and sets goals/challenges for herself.
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+1 ySoothing voice, pleasent smell, clean skin and clothing, long stunning hair, beautiful deep eyes like the vastness of the ocean, a nice friendly smile, easy going demeanor, laid back personality that makes her very easy to approach. Kind, caring, patient and willing to help others. A nurturing aspect to her that makes her great with children and pets, or the elderly
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+1 yCurves, smiling, confidence, obvious effort into fashion/make up/hair/completing her "look" for the day, hips, her walk, lipstick, grooming, jewelry, smelling nice, good posture, good conversation/broad interests, laughing, eye contact, a soft touch, a desperately hard grab onto a man, adventurousness, playfulness, an awareness and embrace of her own sexuality and sensuality and a apparent desire to make/keep both vibrant, aging with grace... Just, you know, for a starting place 😉
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yGood body proportions , feminine facial features and feminine shape , high pitched voice , feminine personality ( nurturing , understanding , caring, kind , somewhat sensitive ) . Likes typically feminine things like makeup , heels or taking care of others. Basically embracing everything about being a woman.
To me it's the opposite of what I am haha , since I look very masculine on the outside.12 Reply
Opinion Owner+1 y@Blunique yeah sure , though there is a difference between a little girls voice and a high pitched womans voice so chances are you still sound womanly/grown up even if you have a kid like voice.
But to most men that is still really attractive ! I have quite a deep voice and let me tell you I would rather have a kids voice any day over a deep one.
+1 yI would say I find it attractive when a woman is intelligent and can hold her own, and with that said, I wouldn't say that you have general things that makes women more attractive, it all depends on the eyes watching.
20 ReplyWearing a dress
Long hair
Makeup
Being polite
Smiling / giggling
High pitched voice
Boobs/butt30 Reply
+1 yFor looks; a narrow chin, round and cute eyes, long hair, plump lips.
Personality is a little more difficult to pin down, but I would say flirtiness, and emotional supportiveness are big. I also really like a girl who knows how to engage people socially. .00 Reply
+1 yThere isn’t really any universal thing. Be yourself and be genuinely happy and a whole person, and that comes out as being all around very sexy.
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+1 yI want a girl that I can joke with. I'm decently witty so I want a girl that is the same. I dont want to tell a joke and her not be able to come up with something to build onto that or retaliate with something equally as witty or funny. Also, thicc thighs save lives
10 ReplyHealthy weight (not too heavy or thin) and balanced proportions and a nice smile
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+1 yPersonality plays a big key. As personality pulls out how they look, by that I mean dress or what they do to their selves to look good.
10 Reply1-soothing voice, not chewing my head off, being nice to me.
2-Face, hair, frame that I like, long phalanges. (I really like long girls)40 ReplyBoys: “She’s more attractive If she ducks my dick every time I want because I want to feel like a man”
Insecure little boys... smh...
Luckily there are plenty of MEN out there who aren’t shallow and sad ☺️55 Reply- +1 y
No guy here said that. What are you on about?
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Lol, you win GaG for the day!!!
Well on looks it'll boil down to the shape her in general terms, a flat lady ain't really feminine looking (ladies no offense), but now for the personality, gracefulness, humility and integrity are great traits to that, in addition being a little reserved cuz any harm.
00 Replythere's a very long list of things a women can be to be more feminine and/ attractive.
This is my personal list since its based on what men like as well.
Higher pitched voice
Not sounding macasline
Being polite
Long hair
Not using curse words
Smiling genuinely
Being playful
Fitted clothes
Dressing like a woman
Not wearing extremwly loose clothing
Doing girly stuff
Heels
Wearing rings
Wearing ear rings
Wearing hip bracelet
Wearing ankle braclet
Having small waistline00 Reply
+1 yon the outside: healthy weight, always smiling, taking care of herself
personality: being morally conservative and responsible, still funny and caring20 Reply
+1 yi can't answer because it'll highly depend on your face and body type/shape
10 ReplyHaving very nicely styled hair and a definitive clothing style will make her look more feminine.
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+1 yHair nicely done, and long. Nice smile, caring personality.
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+1 yLong hair, thinness, kindness, loving nature, smiling.
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+1 yThis, and everything akin to it.
thedatingvault.com/.../...ESCORTS_CALL_GIRLS13.jpg00 ReplyWearing a dress or clothing that shows the body's features. And probably a personality that isn't one of a pro wrestler lol
10 Replypersonality: calm and is able to think for herself
appearance: I don't know why but uh body hugging clothes w her hair done and simple makeup with red lipstick lmaooooooo whatsup00 ReplyThe beauty that shows through simplicity with no need for artificial enhancements or forced acts
20 Replyno arm hair, no back hair, no beard or anything hairy.
good smell
no nike airs
wear stuff that guys won't wear
make you nails toe and hand
use cream to have smoother skin10 Reply
+1 yThe way she dresses shoes accessories all that more feminine
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+1 ylooks hot and on fire l am there with my hose to put out that fire lol
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love it
My boyfriend said is because my personality first.. then how I look
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+1 yWhen she doesn't cry on every damn non-worthy thing
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+1 yIf she finds me funny and if she actually puts time into her looks and doesn't have like acme break outs all over her face
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People can’t control their acne. Know matter how hard one may try, it’s impossible to stop those little pimples from sprouting. Especially if your body naturally produces more oil.
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@OctaviaWoods Truth! I've had acne my whole life (well, after puberty). I now have a fairly extensive skin care routine and it's helped a lot, but still nothing can fully prevent those breakouts I get during my period every month. Except birth control somewhat. 😛
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Exactly! That’s why I believe he’s being insensitive to say a girl is lazy if she has acne break outs.
Soft voice medium hair and overall well maintained not like some barbarian and better not eat like one. Manners, great/fun personality and hygiene totally makes or breaks.
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+1 yConfidence, consideration, openess, EYE CONTACT, and a sweet smile
20 ReplyElegance
And the way she walk and smiles, that is all10 Reply
+1 y*feminine
and attractive isn't necessarily feminine
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~ Mrs Manson011 Reply- +1 y
@Hapinus just gave the right answers.
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@PrettyRegular okay but those don't make u attractive.
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Everyone of those will make you attractive.
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@PrettyRegular i sometimes wear dresses, have shorter hair, do wear makeup, am not polite, don't smile, don't giggle, have a low monotone depressing voice, and have small tits and ass
but im not ugly
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@Hapinus eh its fine, ur not the one being a cunt
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Even if you look good in the goth way, you probably look bad in the human way. Guys care really much about how the girl looks and it's just not hot to be unhappy and wear black.
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@PrettyRegular it is to some people
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If you would find (which I highly doubt) a guy from the "dark side", I bet he wouldn't be a catch or the right kind of a company for you.
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@PrettyRegular well i guess ill stay alone then. better single and goth than taken and conformist. :)
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These days... I think a lot of the goths are the conformists. Just sayin'.
996 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Looks: Classy outfits such as dresses, healthy figure that is fertile as fuck.
Personality: She is not bossy.00 Reply
+1 ywearing her hair straight and long
is caring towards others compassionate,
easygoing, likable,
that gets my attention00 Reply
+1 ySoft facial features, large hips, and a light voice.
10 ReplyNice nails.. hair.. and put together neatly.. plus no fowl language..
10 ReplyWay she moves, walk, Generally happy , kind way she talks, smells.
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+1 yBlonde
Big ass
Tan skin
Pretty face
= Perfection00 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 ytight fitting clothes that show off her curves, maybe a dress or skirt and long hair.
00 ReplyWearing very sexy and appealing clothes that makes men look twice when you walk by.
10 ReplyTwo simple things that require even less effort than not doing them: don't cut off all your hair or cover yourself in tattoos.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yAttractive - beautiful face, nice hair, pretty eyes.
Feminine - I don't care, I prefer tomboyish girls.10 Reply846 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Cute clothes nails and makeup
30 ReplyMy wife has always been at her most feminine when on her knees...
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yEmbracing who you are with you looks, let it represent the type of person you are.
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+1 yWhen’s she not a feminazi
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+1 yI dont think that those are necessarily chorolated.
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+1 yCurve sexy pillow fight sassy biting there finger and all that shit
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+1 yI find well maintained hair so important. The hair is the frame of the face!
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+1 yFor me girls being real asff makes her attractive. (Nice hairs and azz also)
00 ReplyI don't know but I love my girlfriend's smile.. like I'll give everything on it
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+1 yHer sweet and kind submissive nature and attitude.
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Topkek at the two triggered girls who are downvoting you for saying submissiveness is feminine, which it is
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yProbably smaller in size, more curves, higher voice pitch and act like they need a mans help
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yprobably the outfits and the makeup
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+1 yBeing her self and showing it
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+1 yA very fair face and a easygoing personality
10 ReplyWhen treated like a lady. Along w/ compliments.
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+1 yBeauty , Character ( I dont like moody girls )
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