I give up, what's ro bw?
I'm a lot like you. I'll go an entire day without talking to people just so I don't bother them or just because I just have NO idea what to say! I tend to rely on others to start a conversation with me. I know HOW to start a conversation, "Hey, that's a really nice shirt, where did you get it?" "Cool! You like The Beatles, too! I'm a HUGE fan!", but, I tend to let others start the conversations as I kinda act like a silent comedian waiting for a situation to arise for me to react or respond to.
Besides, most often when I DO try to start a conversation it only lasts a couple of sentences, so, why bother.
When I was in college, I was just sitting on a bench outside the gym just killing time between classes when the gorgeous sexy blonde comes up to me, sits beside me and says, "Hi! I saw you in the cafeteria and thought you were a really neat guy and I've been wanting to meet you! My name's Jennifer. What's yours?" And we sat there and talked for about 5:00 before SHE had to get up and run off to a class but, almost immediately after that, we became the best of friends!! She was 16, about to turn 17 in a couple weeks and I'd just turned 27 a month before.
So, maybe you can try that.
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1. While I'm sure you're not trying to talk to guys the same way you're writing your post, starting with "Im pretty" comes across as sort of conceited. I know you're talking about yourself because you're asking a question that has to do with yourself, but overall, you don't go through conversations focusing on yourself and you don't compliment yourself in front of others... right?
2. Do you have hobbies that you could talk about? When you talk with your friends, what sorts of things do you talk about?
Omg girl , we have the same problem, literally
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You have to start doing it. Its the only way you'll learn
Start with casual compliment or joke & next thing you know your friends
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