Why should I respect women? Tell me?

[Anonymous]

Why should I respect women?

Every fucking day, I walk in University, and no woman talks to me. None even smile at me. None have approached me this whole time. They all talk to to other guys. I have to drive to see girls/guys talking as friends or even dating each other. I have to bare through this everyday.

It's not like I did something bad for women to hate me. I haven't done anything infact. Then there are girls that have befriended guys that have done something bad to the girl or used her. And the thought of the girl talking to the types of guys who eventually use them and not talk to me really frustrates me. It's enough to get in tears.

And you all tell me to respect women?

All this bullshit has been causing me to feel hatred towards women. It's not like I start screaming/hitting a random girl. But in private on my own, I just hate women.

Right now, I can't stand watching attractive female streamers, I can't watch a YouTube video with a female narrator. Because I know that they won't talk to me in real life.
(But all they're fake bullsh*t they say in their videos, such as, "Hey guys, what's up? Welcome to another video". or "Thank you so much for watching my video guys, I love you all." or even "Welcome all my friends" really annoys me)

Holy sh*t. Why are they being such hypocrites? I'll bet anything that those female youtubers won't tell me that they "love me", or "welcome" or even "whats up" in real life. They would probably avoid eye contact with me. So if you're like this in real life, why come off different towards us on Youtube?

I mean I'd start liking all women again if one, (JUST ONE) comes up to me right now and start talking. Sadly, this never happens to me.

I didn't even bother arranging my thoughts on this one.

[winterfox10]

I can think of 4 reasons, lemme know what you think.

1. Women are really really bad at knowing which men they should pay any mind to (like hysterically bad, it would almost be funny if it wasn't so damn painful for everyone involved), which means that you have a chance to be the man she needs to meet. If you put yourself out there, no matter how degrading it feels sometimes, you WILL find a woman who cherishes you.

2. It's empowering: Women are insecure and will frequently turn to things like social media as a confidence booster. If you show her genuine respect, and make her feel like you see her as an equal, you are planting a message/seed inside her that will give her little reminders throughout the day that she can do this, whatever "this" may be. Women need that from time to time. If you are the one who gives her that encouragement, she will remember you.

3. Respecting women will make you a more pleasant and desirable person to have around. Socially desirable people are given more business, career, and social opportunities.

4. Women are people, just like men. If you give a guy respect, the woman he's standing next to deserves that same basic courtesy.

[stevenjohnson]

Yes, women expect us to respect them even if the don't respect us or even like us, you should teach these bitches a lesson. Show them they cannot get away with treating you like that.

[therightheight]

What the fuck are you on, my dude? Women aren't a different species, some are nice kind people others can be just as callous and belittling of others just like you. just people after all. Maybe stop focusing so much on looks and you'll be pleasently surprised or if you want a 10/10 so badly become one yourself and you'll be able to find someone just as vain and inconsiderate.

[stevenjohnson]

@therightheight What the fuck are you on about? It is the truth and men should not tolerate it.

[therightheight]

This isn't a "truth". Its your perspective, and i thnk its an idiotic one. What kind of man child thinks they deserve something just because they desire it. You need to grow up and realize life doesn't exist to suit your needs simply because you are here. You want a girlfriend so badly? Stop acting like a self entitled twat.

[stevenjohnson]

@therightheight Do fuck off, women who want respect us to respect them should respect us. It is two way street. or are you saying i should respect women who are stuck up, verbally abuse me or turn their noses up at me. Stop trying to make out we should accept the league table, because that is not gonna get us laid or a girlfriend either.

[stevenjohnson]

@therightheight Everything you have said applies to women also.

[therightheight]

here's some advice: people who demand respect without returning it aren't worth a damn. Man or woman. Plenty of horrible people in the world, why waste your energy hating them? You act as if life is over because you believe a very small portion of all women hate you. Maybe they do and most likely they don't ever think of you? Why the fuck should you think about them so much? Wait until you finish school, find a job somewhere and start over, man.

[spunkygiraffe]

Well, of course there are going to be all types of people, and some of them will be cold and rude. My suggestion, try being more approachable, in general, your inside attitude will affect how you come off to other people. Try to look for the good in all your experiences around women. You may not be acknowledged because people are sometimes distracted, perhaps engaged with friends, or deep in thought. Try to keep an open mind, look for the good, and be confident.

[Asker]

im not even gonna bother reading cuz ur probably one of those woman who will ignore me

[Asker]

i just read ur answer and it turns out u were right. im sorry

[MelaninDoll]

nigga if you don't get over yourself and be nice to women or people in general. people don't gotta do nun for you to be nice to them! treat people the way you want to be treated! how about You say hi and smile at women first and then maybe they'll say hi and smile back!

[Asker]

I tried saying hi and smiled at them.
What did they do?
"Ignore me"
"Act awkward"
"go away from me"
This isn't an animated movie where the ordinary guy gets the popular girl cuz he said hi..., it's real life

[stevenjohnson]

What with the nigga comment and how do you know he isn't nice. @asker those types of crappy movies influence women who think they are better then certain men which they are not.

[Asker]

@stevenjohnson u actually understand

[stevenjohnson]

@Asker of course happens to me all the time, i even overhear verbal insults being made by the girls to each other.

[Asker]

@stevenjohnson wow...

[Blackfang]

Dude girl ignore girls and being beatchs happens 24 seven...

[Blackfang]

Girls to it to girl litterly all the time, and your going to get use to it...

[Aspiringdr]

You aren’t entitled to anything. Hate all you want but it’s really more on you. If you want to talk to girls, go talk to them. If they ALL don’t reply then you gotta reevaluate yourself because that’s really unusual...

[stevenjohnson]

If a woman does wrong then it is the mans fault. Typical feminazi mentality.

[Aspiringdr]

@stevenjohnson what did the woman do wrong exactly?

[stevenjohnson]

It is not acceptable for women to treat him the way they are. They are up themselves and need taking down a peg or two.

[Asker]

@stevenjohnson these fuckin whores tho lol

[stevenjohnson]

@asker they really need punishing lol

[Asker]

@stevenjohnson put them in the gas chambers

[stevenjohnson]

@Asker lol yeah good, there is sorts of things that can be down to punish them.

[Blackfang]

@stevenjohnson wow... yeah be like hitler!!! Such a great idea -_-

[stevenjohnson]

@Blackfang Ridiculous comparison, it is women who are being like hitler actually with their judging and ignoring of men due to looks, disability or behaviour linked to disability that you call creepy or weird. 21st century women such as femiNAZIs are carrying on hitlers work.

[Aspiringdr]

@stevenjohnson how are they treating him that isn’t acceptable?

[Blackfang]

@stevenjohnson yeah that’s why he brought up gas chambers... -_-

[Asker]

what the fuck am i supposed to do? Everytime i look at one of you, you all look like im about to rape you or something.

fuck you all

[stevenjohnson]

@Asker i know what you mean, they do the same to me or look at me with disgust, not for much longer though.

[stevenjohnson]

@Aspiringdr Read what he says and then read what I've said and you will see whats unacceptable.

[Aspiringdr]

@stevenjohnson I don't know what kind of girls he’s hanging around with that if he says hi they don’t even answer with a hello, but from what I’ve read I understand that he is saying he walks around a bunch of strangers and is getting made no one randomly walks up to him to say hi? I didn’t realize people do that in the first place so I’m confused why he thinks random girls need to leave what they’re doing to walk up to him and say hi if he is just walking by? I get it being rude if they do ignore him if he tried to talk to them, but a lot of people are mean out there, so go find some decent human beings.

[SatansAdvocate]

Because, get this right, women are people...

You should treat everyone with respect until they show you that they don't deserve it. It's a much better system than the reverse.

If you're feeling this way, it's likely that you're projecting a really shit 'vibe' which will put people off from wanting to engage with you. Trust me, I'm miserable and often worry that I'm doing just that.

[dragonslayer1516]

Just because they don't talk to you doesn't mean you have to hate them. But you have a very cynical way of thinking about women just because they don't talk to you or look at you. Trust me I know the feeling but you have to show some effort to OP in order for them to talk to you.

[andreasderjuengere]

You transfer your own frustrations onto others, so that you can be able to accept or like yourself better. But this will lead to frustration added. You could divert your efforts to things that lead to improvements.

[JCT666]

Who said you have to respect women?

That's not a healthy mindset you have there. The sooner you stop giving a fuck about gaining female approval, the better. Worked for me.

[Repa33]

So? You aren't entitled to a full comversation or interaction with anyone. Man or woman. its stupid to expect all people to approach you for no reason. You seem butthurt that popular girls dont want you. Thats life. They have thousands of fans. What makes you any different?

[Asker]

1. Nobody uses "butthurt" anymore.
2. It's thots like you that approach all the jocks and fuckboys.

Get the f**k outta here

[Repa33]

1. Doesn't matter
2. Not a thot
3. I dont approach guys. Especially not fuckboys

[stevenjohnson]

Typical female comeback to guy complaining about something they do which is wrong is say 'butthurt'. Yet they spend enough time complaining about us men.

[Repa33]

Yay. More generalizations. Nothing a woman likes more. Never complained about men, yet your entire post is you complaining about women. Hypocritical much?

[stevenjohnson]

Nobut women do complain about men, non stop. It is in the news, sexist this and misogynist that objectifying this and belittling that. Sexual harassment this and rape that.

[Repa33]

Not at all. I mean sure some do. But not all. Only the feminazis and attention whores. Not to belittle actual victims of rape and harrasment of course

[Asker]

you're the attention whore you're talking about. just look at your answer

[Repa33]

? Nope. I never claimed to br a victim of rape or harassment. Maybe people don't talk to you cause you're rude and awful?

[Asker]

B**ch, read my details. I'm not rude towards girls. You're ugly

[Repa33]

Can't even say "bitch"? What a pussy

[OldDad]

You are at the primary institution for progressive liberal propaganda. The education system make makes everyone feel entitled.

[Anonymous]

There is a difference between respecting someone and treating them respectfully. I don't respect most women either, because they haven't earned it. But I treat them respectfully.

[Blackfang]

Good question why should girls respect guys like you who question this...

[stevenjohnson]

He has every right to question why, it is not a woman right to respect, and i set the criteria for whether i respect women.

[Asker]

@stevenjohnson ikr

[Anonymous]

Because we’re people? My motto is respect everyone until they give you a reason not to. If you’re all pent up with anger and hatred towards women, of course they’re not going interact with you.. I think you need to start putting yourself out there, meet some women and realize we’re not all awful. Sure, there are some bad ones, but just because you’ve possibly run into a few doesn’t make us all hypocrital fake biatches.

[Asker]

The anger started afterwards. Holy shit

[computergeek357]

Well since the world relies on women you may want to remove your head from your arse and think it over before you swear them off for good

[stevenjohnson]

Feminazi appeasing white knight, it is the women turning their nose up at him that need to get their out of their arse. And the world needs men more then women.

[Asker]

@stevenjohnson true true u understand

[akafsj83sk2]

You sound like you have an ugly face so you need to respect them so you can increase your chance of sleeping with them

[Asker]

look at ur profile pic

[stevenjohnson]

Bullshit answer, he should not respect them.

[Asker]

@stevenjohnson wow, perfect reply once again

[stevenjohnson]

@asker i get the same, if i look at woman in the street, they turn their nose up or turn their face away and pretend to be interested in something else, i swear one is gonna get a mouthful one day.

[Asker]

@stevenjohnson damn same

[akafsj83sk2]

@stevenjohnson but if you're ugly, you shouldn't get mad if women ignore you like that. no one wants an ugly guy to be checking them out, that's creepy as shit

[stevenjohnson]

@akafsj83sk2 You are on odd troll, i don't tolerate women saying im ugly. and i come onto who i like

[akafsj83sk2]

@stevenjohnson well that's too bad. you just sound like an entitled, ugly troll who thinks he can come onto to whoever he likes. a woman doesn't have to give in if she doesn't want to!

[stevenjohnson]

@akafsj83sk2 she does and you can just kiss my arse

[akafsj83sk2]

@stevenjohnson I'm gay and as much as I don't like most women, I wouldn't kiss your ass cuz u sound like you're ugly, entitled and stupid for thinking that anyone wants to give in to your advances!

[akafsj83sk2]

@stevenjohnson incel!

[stevenjohnson]

If you gay go away. You don't understand

[stevenjohnson]

faggot

[FunkyMonkee]

How else are gonna get pussy?

[Hugemoth]

Respect people. Not just women.

[Asker]

I respect everyone. Why women tho

[Hugemoth]

Women are people.

[givenup]

Women are not human. They are monsters with nine inch fangs and dollar signs in their eyes and one hand on your best friends wang.

[BigDaddyBake]

Is this Incels Central or something?