Why does my girlfriend dress way too sexy?

[Anonymous]

I don't like that she dresses too revealing. Would it be wrong to ask her to stop?

[Aelin]

I know this isn't what you want to hear, but it's not your place to ask her to stop. You can absolutely tell her that it makes you uncomfortable when she shows off "x", but understand that doesn't mean she has to change how she dresses.

Some girls like to show off what they've got, and get the looks and/or attention. If that's what she wants to do with her body, it's her decision to make.

And, if you have a strong relationship with your girlfriend, this is a type of jealousy that can be overcome. There might be a piece of your relationship you feel insecure about that makes you feel this way. Talk to her about it.

[WifeInNeedOfAdvice]

There's really no need to dress so sexy when you're not in the market. There's been a few times my husband to parties and I have gone out and I dressed in a cute party outfit that he felt happy showing me off- but that was something he liked when he was with me. Day to day why do it if your man isn't comfortable with it? Let her know.

[WifeInNeedOfAdvice]

I notice the women in this question are more on the side of "she can dress how she wants you go girl!". The thing I've learned though- is I never learned anything about making a man happy from such feminist ideas. I could've ruined my life listening to feminists. Since a man who I fell in love with- fell in love with me- but he had trust issues, I've worked for years to make him happy. I've spent time reading online what men want. Sorry, at the end of the day, guys' wants do not change due to what feminists want them to want. I'd rather just do what a man really wants rather than listen to old bitter single cat ladies about how I should act in a relationship.

Single women gotta compete so I don't see why single women shouldn't flaunt what they've got- but when you're with a guy- it draws attention. If you're happy with your guy do you really need all that random attention?

[Crocuta_Hyaenidae]

You seem like a very considerate wife with a good attitude!

Why advertise if the product is truly off the market, right?

[WifeInNeedOfAdvice]

@Crocuta_Hyaenidae
Yeah I don't see any reason to.

[Enaya]

It’s her body. You can’t tell her how to dress. Ask her why she does and if you don’t like the explanation, you are not supposed to be with her

[Itssssonlyyymeee]

I honestly would not mind if my mind ask me to tone it down a bit... BUT it’s all about how you deliver the message.

[Itssssonlyyymeee]

Because I also don’t like a man telling me what to do 🙃✨ good luck buddy

[ForteExe]

If it's bothering you she should respect that. If she doesn't you can't force her to put on a sweater, but depending on how much it gets to you it might cost the relationship. Ultimately it's a matter of priorities but you should talk to her regardless.

[Miristheiss]

Grow sime balls, tell her how you honestly feel and realize there are BILLIONS of women, she may not be the one for you. Find someone you are compatible with. Don't settle, go for someone wuth the same boundaries.

[tzdc21]

No it would not be wrong at all. In fact you should do that and gauge her reaction. And if she still continues to do that, then that is fate doing you a favor by telling you to dump her and find a woman who won't dress like that and respect your wishes and feelings more.

[burntgold]

I mean you can suggest it but at the end of the day she’s a grown women and she ain’t gotta listen to you 😂

[Jooying]

Don’t force her, but you definitely have the right to talk to her. Tell her how you feel and let her make the decision.

[Aenetoo]

A better question is: Why do you have a problem with it?

[Asker]

She gets attention from other guys.

[Aenetoo]

If she's attractive, she'll likely garner attention no matter how she dresses.
If she loves you, and you're both secure in the relationship, there shouldn't be a problem. If you feel there is a problem, talk to her about it.

[Kelliblondebabe]

Well if she has any principles she'll tell you to like it or hike it! It maybe makes her feel good

[Dchrls78104]

No, it would not be.
If you do ask her to stop and it becomes a cause of falling out for the two of you, it might be time for you to take a hard look at your relationship.

[CuChullan]

Yes it would. Stop thinking like a controlling fool. A woman has the right to dress as she pleses.

[Alpha09]

Either say something which I wouldn't recommend, or don't since she's a grown women.

[samoht89]

I thought he was a grown man too, but, grown men don't complain

[Anonymous]

What does she dress like? If you ask her to stop, there’s a good chance she might not take too kindly to it.

[Cask23]

Dude what's wrong with you, enjoy it. As we get older women tend to mellow out and start dressing more conservative. Why push it?

[xyz94]

Yes, it's her body and her choice. Are you worried she is interested in another guy?

[shalu555]

When she slap you you slap yourself
Do u know why because she is my life my body i can do anything who r you who tell me that

[ci0nk]

You should ask her why she does it maybe she just want to look attractive for you and if not you can still say you're uncomfortable with it but at the end it's her body and her decision

[stormbreaker06]

yes. be a man and tell her. don't ask. You tell. she'll love you for it even if she argues with you.

[burntgold]

You think because a man is TELLING a women what to do something she will listen to him? Well guess what buddy, the answer is no. We don’t let men tell us what to do.

[burntgold]

And demanding things is extremely unattractive and a huge turn off.

[stormbreaker06]

@burntgold when and if you become a lady you'll understand

[burntgold]

Nah. Every grown women I know doesn’t like being bossed around by men but think what you want.

[stormbreaker06]

@burntgold you are talking black women? right?

its not really about being "bossed" around but the man taking charge as a man and leading his women the proper way.

[burntgold]

Ofc your racist ass thinks it’s black women. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO not just black women. WHITE women and PERSIAN women from what I have personally heard.

[stormbreaker06]

@burntgold its mostly black women that want to be the dominate ones. That;s why many black men are bitching black women for white women.

[burntgold]

Shut your dumbass up how you 28 and you on this app go get a job with yo old ass, smh ! if you want a bitch that you can boss around like a dog then get a white women cause black women ain’t soft like that.

[burntgold]

Bye 👋🏾

[stormbreaker06]

go get a weave. snowflake.

[burntgold]

get a bigger dick with your small white dick ass no wonder white women leave y’all for black men

[stormbreaker06]

haha!

[stormbreaker06]

or maybe i'm leaving black women for white women.

[burntgold]

Go ahead, you prolly ugly asf anyway 🤷🏾‍♀️

[stormbreaker06]

black women don't want me so screw them. i don't care.

[stormbreaker06]

i'll be glad to take care of other women and treat them like a lady.

[najekim]

You can politely put in your opinion. But it's her body and she has it to flaunt, she can.

[HereIbe]

Dude, grow some confidence! You've got a hot item, so let her show off. Appreciate her for it.

[flatisin]

lol dont waste your time

in dating
and dont tell her

[TsubasaCorrupted]

You can ask her, but be ready for likely backlash. Get over it.

[Anonymous]

She is a cheap attention whore with no class or dignity.

[Braidlyke]

Let her know that it bothers you