314 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I would never stare at a guy anywhere. I do think in the gym you zone out while doing cardio and you may be "looking" in the direction of a guy while zoning. I have had a few times where I realized it might look like I am staring at someone and I redirected my vision towards the monitor on the treadmill or something along those lines.
Now, as far as glancing or noticing guys and girls in the gym, sure, it is hard not to notice someone who is in shape because I am so interested in fitness. But, for me, a hot bod is just not enough to be interested in a guy, so I would not stare in hopes of meeting him.32 Reply- +1 y
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Hahah, this question made me laugh. I love the comments too :) But personally, when I go to the gym I just keep to myself. I want to do what I went there to do and get out of there to a nice ice cream cone (if only the guilt would pass). Headphones and my ipod are all I need. I actually find it kind of uncomfortable when I see people staring at me. (No not out of shape. Short, 105 pounds ;_; )
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i don't really stare at sweaty guys beacuse sweaty guys in a mess don't really look that good to me. but yeah I have stared at a handful in my lifetime..but those are exceptions. I look att hem from the corner of my eye or sneak peeks at them to make it look like I dont' give a sh*t lmao. I prefer to look at guys when they are not sweating though, in nice clothes, and nice hair.
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umm if a guy is working out he is gonna definately sweat ,if he isn't sweating then he isn't working out
+1 yIf it's something worth staring at, I do. Most of the time if they're doing exercises I don't see often, or if they're doing exercises differently than me. If their form is crud, I'll give them friendly advice.
Other times, it's simply a case of full-on male-on-male admiration. Someone wraps up their legs and does a 250 kg squat, when you can barely do 150 kg yourself. Or someone does chest flies with 50 kg dumbbells, or performs a dozen perfect chinups with a 30 kg vest. Or someone who's just got the best defined arms you've ever seen.01 Reply- +1 y
do you admire their c0cks when theyre in the locker room or shower too?
ya girls are very sneaky about it, usually done through mirrors, or multiple mirrors lol. I get the most attention when I'm squatting I think, girls like muscular bums. pullups too, a few girls have old me its hot to watch guys do pullups since they can't do any, shows your strong or something I guess.
i try not to stare at girls at the gym but its really hard not to when they are wearing yoga pants! love those pants.41 Reply- +1 y
i love watching girls with a good rack running on a threadmill ,its really distracting
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+1 yi stare,
but only because a lot of guys go to the gym (I find) and they stand in front of the mirrors, spending the majority of the time checking themselves out..
like they just realized that they have a newly found muscle or something..
it makes working out much more entertaining to watch. :)
but then there are also the guys who go to the gym to get in shape/ train for something,
and they great to watch because they are clearly working out for a reason,
and their perseverance is inspiring, :)
we generally don't go to the gym just to stare though, it just so happens that the guys standing in front of the mirrors flexing are standing in the most visible locations, trying to be seen .25 Reply- +1 y
I actually hate the mirrors all over the gyms walls lol. Its not like I can't stand looking at myself, don't get me wrong. But seeing some guys just stare at themselves when they workout is kind of weird lol.
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there useful for like techniques and stuff..
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Well you go to the GYM to work out and get in shape, not find a girl, don't you ?
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i actually find mirrors help, makes it easier to make sure I have good posture if iam lifting. not like iam doing the corny "wheres my beachball?" routine, wish I had a big mirror at home, and above my bed ;) haha
+1 yI love going to the gym!
Guilty as charged lol I love watching guys workout I don't know what it is... Maybe about the sweat they have going on, or the way they are doing something... I'm also guilty when it comes to looking at there butt when they walk past me... What can I say they wear sweats... But it's like pay back they look at mine I look at theirs ;)21 Reply- +1 y
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Yeah. If I'm there for more than an hour, I gotta have something to look at. If an attractive male happens to be an option, I'm going to go for it! haha
Of course too, I feel like some guys kind of like to be looked at. Show off their muscles or whatever. haha11 Reply- +1 y
yep I do that sometimes,it kinda motivate to work out more harder
+1 yI wouldn't say stare at them but yes I do glance around to see all that fine, toned muscular arse but I would say that guys look at girls in the gym as well probably to see all our parts bounce...Which isn't a bad thing either way you should feel proud if someone checks you out! :)
plus there is just something about sweaty toned guys that's a big turn on for me...21 ReplyI only hold the eye contact with guys I'm interested in approaching me ..that Attracts me. After a work out bring two bottles and walk over and share one with her and chat. Then you will know why she is staring. Don't ask her if she wants the water. Give it to her and tell her you brought it for her.
10 ReplyI can't help but look and mentally droll when
I see a girl in spandex or Lululemon outfits. So it would be normal to expect a gal to look at certain guys too.
I don't think guys would feel creeped out as girls do. We crave for such attention even though we don't have feathers of a peacock but would have a raised flag pole if you can see it!00 Reply
+1 ylol like a stalker ? no do you have that problem often ?
I hurry up and do my work out and get out of there, to many guys want to talk I usually just got off of work and I'm tired and I don't want to talk to anyone, so I bring my music and keep my head down05 Reply- +1 y
yeah I'm like that to I just want to go work out and not be bothered.
its kinda frustrating sometimes because women always think your going to chat them up when you end up working out next to them grrrr I hate that their body language gets all weird sometimes.
wish they had a mens only gym where I live. - +1 y
lol I understand I'm guilty of that because some guys like to talk to me and I just don't feel like it but I'm had women try to talk to me to I guess they want a friend to work out with it but I don't want it to be me, apparently the gym turns me into a bitch.
I've only heard of women only gyms though, I've honestly never even seen a men only one I didn't know they had them but I guess men need their privacy to - +1 y
i think going to the gym is a complete bore without a bud there for support. you can do more, get a better workout, challenge each other and do more then you could then if you were by yourself, youd have a spotter etc. I usually try not to start at people but iam not going outta my to not stare at people, people are always going to be in your line of vision. I think staring is rude, and I just don't do it. just quick glances I suppose lol but hey iam only human, I've gotten plenty of smiles from
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from girls but I've never taken advantage of it. iam not even in the best of shape, lots of muscle with a beer gut lol a little bit chubby but I think most women like that. well at least for me it works
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girls in the gym I mean not in general lol
I am always dying every time I am at the gym. Guys always notice me staring even though I am trying to be discreet, then they always start flexing haha. I look at guys no matter where I go, I am like obsessed though I never really do anything then just stare and give a flirty smile ha ha ;D
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+1 yMy mates do that all the time, their normally thinking 'OMG isn't he fit?! 'XD I don't do it since that's not my kinda thing and I'm too busy making sure I don't blow any of the machiney things up =D
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lol so what's your thing ?
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hmm...as far as guys are concerned I don't have a thing XD I watch shyly from afar and kinda hope they stare my way (which never works lol =D, its a failure tactic)
+1 yIt might not look like we do...but trust me...we do! Girls are just sneaky like that!(;
We're looking at you most likely because you're flexing your muscles, and it's a turn on...if you don't try to show off.
It's pretty hot!23 Reply- +1 y
i caught a girl watching me two times and since then she is kinda embarrassed being caught by me
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yeah, she was checking you out.
I don't care if they look at me... I mean I go there to work out and when I workout I'm in those zone! they DO STARE kinda annoying but hey you'd stare too if a guy had 4% Boyfriend and was ripped up and shirtless! by the way you're arms look pathetic just quit
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Hahaha... Ur the dude with 5000 xp and you don't even have a profile picture for him to judge. Not to mention the fact that you took the time to write that cocky ass message out when you probably don't even have a gym to go to. I hope that fake ass message boosted your confidence a lot because it made you look like a total wannabe fag
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lets cut it out. I'm probably the most jacked KID on this website
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Trollololol...
2 ways
1.because they look good, and it's hot.
2. because they look like idiots, and it makes us want to laugh our as*es off.44 Reply- +1 y
#2 mean...
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look like idiots?
hey I'm a gym rat - +1 y
i laugh at the girls whose workout is funny
+1 yI'll glace at them if I think they're attractive (usualy nothing to do with muscles).
Just as I would anywhere else, but I would never stare..it's creepy, the gym is a place where people come to work out in some sembalance of peace.20 ReplyUsually just knowing that they actually care about their body and health gets me looking. Watching their muscles flex makes me imagine them flexing around me. Ha! It's always nice eye candy
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i love to flex for ladies
+1 yNope...that would just be creepy...
When I'm working out I always want to just be left alone so I can do what I do... (Yoga)
It would be very creepy and uncomfortable if someone stared at me during my workout, and vice versa I believe...10 Reply
+1 yI usally am off in my own little word with my headphones on, but if a guy is parked right in my line of sight, I've defiantly been guilty of watching and gawking at times...
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lol do you only look at the huge, jacked guys? what about the fit, ripped guys? ha ha because I just wear tshirts and I'm pretty ripped lol
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i have a preference for the subtly toned and typically t-shirt clad chap.
gawking at the huge guys is purely "holy sh*t! Does this man have no life outside the gym or does he get steriods on wholesale?" . more a human fascination than any attraction. haha
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+1 yIf they are hot I love to look at their face and their muscles moving, shifting, contracting... omg it is so hot.
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What if they aren't white a d have dark competition
+1 yUmmmm if they're hot then it's hard to not stare. hahaha. :)
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+1 yoh yess we do stare >.<
typically they don't have shirts on and typically..i catch them doing abb work outs...hottes thing ever...25 Reply- +1 y
if I went to a gym and most of the guys werent wearing shirts, I think I would immediately leave...theres no need for that type of behavior
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why ab workout? it's not like you can see their abs when they do it
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A shirtless gym? Never heard of that one before...I'd leave too
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What the f***s wrong with you guys? The gym I go to has a swimming pool attatched, so most guys are just in swimming shorts.
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Most guys just wear their swim shorts its not like their naked
Theres a pool attached just like KarKingJack's gym has
However there's a separate pool for women and all so girls are fully clothed
+1 yAt my college's gym the ellipticals are upstairs facing the weights downstairs, which gives us girls prime viewing ability. I can't lie, I like looking at the guys, but honestly if I'm looking I look at the face first, then the body. I don't want to get caught staring though because that can get pretty awkward.
00 ReplyI can’t help, where my eyes wander..lol
especially when they are lifting or running so hot, makes my day :)01 Reply- +1 y
I've got my Eye on You lol
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yIf I see a guy who is fit, I'll look, but try not to make it obvious... and if they're doing something rhythmically (like lifting weights or something) I'll end up staring cause I'm like a magpie like that...
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would it be staring from the reflection of a mirror or just glancing directly
Opinion Owner+1 yStaring in the mirror would b better, as less likely to get caught... but if there's no mirror, or I'm not in a good place to stare through the mirror, I'll just plain stare. :D
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staring in mirror is alright but plain stare is gonna distract me ;) ,if you are cute then it gonna get worse
Opinion Owner+1 yif it's too much bother to find a mirror, or if there is a real danger of being caught, then unless the guy is really good looking, I might not bother :P but also, I may try and find ways of looking without looking like I'm looking. If that makes sense. Say there's a poster behind them, I'll try and look like I'm looking at the poster :D
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i got you,girls are good at being sneaky :P ,but I am good at catching them ;)
+1 yDo guys stare at fit girls at the gym?
DUH.
haha.
I try no to, but it's so hard!
Whats not to stare at?
Muscles, sweat, hardwork.
MmM!10 Reply
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yguilty. :)
its just so sexy
i honestly never seen a guy (my age range) that looks 'bad' in the gym, I think any man who works out does a sport is just automatically sexy.21 Reply- +1 y
Plus, excersize is good for you. ;)
+1 yIf I'm attracted to them ..yes...if not...no.Im usually in my own world while I'm there anyway. I don't want to fall off the treadmill.
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+1 yif you are this ffine guy that goes to la fitness, yes yes I am
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i go to gym daily and on off day I play basketball
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lol at la fitness?
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nah
+1 yI stare at them if they have a good workout going on, they have attractive muscles, and if they are just attractive all around.
10 ReplyI really try and be sutal about it, but if a guys working hard and flexing, especially is he's perspiring, but not like dripping forget being sutal.
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***subtle :)
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yI stare at a guy when he has shorts and everything, EVERYTHING is sticking out of those shorts or is easy to see. I stare and I can't believe.
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+1 yYes ... why? because they are hot ... and recently I kind of like guy on guy exercise action haha!
10 ReplyYes when he flexes him muscles I'm like "oh damn" :$
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i do that and check out in the mirror very frequently
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I check myself in mirror to check the progress ,if a girl is looking at me while I am checking myself then I feel good and wanna workout more harder
Yep! Nothing wrong with that :) If you're ttracted to someone why shouldn't look at someone?
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+1 yGET RIPPED
You act like your minds totally melted on steroids, man.00 Reply
+1 yI like it when a guy sees a girl looking at them so they start flexing :)
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ya the hardwork is paying off
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yonly time I would stare at a guy is if he's in my line of vision. just because he happens to be there and working out is boring
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how about women working out... do you check her out ? just kidding
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yBecause guys who work out are usually good looking :)
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do you secretly watch him or just watch him normally ?
Yes I sometimes stare (most of the time I'm focused on my own workout). But only when they're not looking. Why? Because it's hot!
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+1 yYes we do. And one of our excuses is that we had nothing else to look at :)
10 ReplyI actually go to the gym. I'm always checking out guys. Its the way they look when they are lifting weights! Most guys at the gym are very sexy :p
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so do you work or just keep checking out the guys ?
+1 yIf I think they're cute than yeahh but if they just have really huge muscles for no reason then nope :P
10 ReplyIf I find them attractive or like their bodies duh! ha ha ; )
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+1 yI only stare at them if they look gud because if they ugly, I dnt care if they are well built...
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Woo, that was cold. We should call you captain cold
+1 yYes because it's intriguing...and it's sexy ;]
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some girls thinks its boring what guys do in gym
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because they can't appreciate the goodness of guys working out at a gym. lol
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ya lol
Yeah muscles are sexy lol
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just like women's cleavage lol
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ohhhhh...I see the connection now :O
I never knew why men liked cleavage until now... - +1 y
i know that clevage are sexy when I was 14
I myself like watching a guy bust a sweat .
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+1 yboredom
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+1 yyessss. The muscles... like the muscless haha.
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