When girls say they like dangerous guys what kind of danger do they mean?

[Anonymous]

I've heard that girls like guys who are dangerous because they are exciting and thrilling to be around. I also know that one of the main rules in talking with girls is that you always want to make them feel comfortable. if your a dangerous guy and there is danger around the two of you won't she feel uncomfortable?what do girls mean when they say danger?what kind of danger do they mean and to what extent?

[zeitgeist057]

Humans enjoy the thrill of danger because it releases endorphins into our blood, basically making us high.

So we like things like rollercoasters, fast motorcycles, skydiving, scary movies, videogames and other "adrenaline junkie" activities. These are generally pretty safe, even though they may seem dangerous. That is the danger that a girl wants, she wants to be safe on the couch but still watching a scary movie that thrills her. So she wants to be with a guy who makes her feel safe but at the same time he is a dangerous kind of wild guy. It's sort of a paradox but the idea is you are not boring, predictable, pushover, uncertain sort of guy. Be confident, strong, a little crazy or random and have exciting things in your life. Be excited about life. Live a little on the edge.

Though it's a tough balance. I was a little too wild for my last girlfriend and now she's with someone else, so what can I say? I don't know everything! Another thing is girls don't actually know what they want about 70% of the time they might say they want one thing but really they want something else.

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[royevans]

" girls don't actually know what they want about 70%"

f*&king this!

[aj22one]

This is one of life's biggest mysteries. I myself have seen women pass up pretty normal, decent looking, responsible guys for convicted gang members, creepers, and registered sex offenders. Weird but it happens. The best explanation I can come up with is that people (both men and women) tend to see what they want to see in people they are interested in. This is often illogical and dumb, but human attraction often is.

[zeitgeist057]

also people seek out drama, that is to say, something exciting. So a gang member, creeper dangerous type person appeals to the sense of adventure. oddly enough, they seem like they will promise more "fun"

[Anonymous]

I like guys who dabble In drugs. It adds a sort of unpredictability to them.. Guys who are possessive. Will fight over you without thinking about it even if another guy just looks at you or smiles at you. Because he loves you that much. They're rough and rowdy. Tall. Muscular. Just dangerous.

[cody321]

Its like having the kind of 'bad boy' that will do things you don't expect.. he will be a bit unpredictable which for good girls (like me) isn't the norm but cause he's a bad boy and dangerous he will protect you and hurt people to do so :)

[Anonymous]

Guys who lie to live life on the edge! Yeah ,someone may feel a little uncomfortable,but at least it exciting.I think that's how some people feel anyway.

[Explorer91]

I think the misuse the word and are unaware of the psycho people out there or the extend yet.
they mean someone who takes risks, fun, action packed, maybe emotionally unavailable.

[RockyHorror]

Men who are little reckless & like to have fun. Guys who don't wimp out easily & can be a bit of daredevil.

[Anonymous]

it means they like guys who beat the crap out of them while making sweet passionate love at the same time.