If a guy fumbles his words and is awkward a little in conversation, does that make him a creep?

[Anonymous]

I'm under the impression that it would make him creepy which is stupid because, I know from experience that, when I'm like that around a girl, I really like her and I can't help how I come off. it just happens that way, as much as I wish I could be confident around her.

does this make a guy a creep? honest answers please, I don't want "awwww that's so cute!" or some bogus answer to make me feel better. is it creepy or not? all I'm trying to say, is that it shouldn't be creepy given that all the player guys are so smooth and confident yet, turn around and cheat on the girl anyway. obviously they didn't really like her right? its not that hard to catch on to. and the nervous guys are never attractive enough (simply because they're nervous from liking her) to get a girl friend even though they'd stay committed to her.

this is what I understand on this.

[girly1986]

Definitely a confident guy is more attractive than a nervous one. You can have these long eye contacts with them and all the other flirtatious body language.

I have met a few guys who were nervous to talk with me, blushing a lot and stumbling with their words. A few I did like and I was willing to go out with oney, but he never asked and later I asked myself and few I didn't like that way (I still stayed polite, but didn't wish to go out with them).

I think that these guys are not creepy. I f the guy is cute and nervous to talk with me, then I feel that I like him even more, cause its clear that he likes me much. And then I like to play around with him a little, tease him and I feel more confident than with confident guys.

So for me it depends on the looks and how intelligent he is.

[Asker]

i guess that makes sense. I'm a big blusher! and I get nervous and stuff, girls say I'm cute, but not hot. also I've had girls say I was a bit creepy too :(

but I don't understand how, yes I can have good eye contact with them and talk to them and be confident after a while, and sometimes they might catch me looking from far away, and I can get puppy-dog eyes, but c'mon I just care about girls is all.

[LilLana]

I agree with the comment below, it depends on your personality, how you look, how comfortable she is around you.

If a guy stumbled when he's talking to me I'd give him a chance. I sometimes stumble on my words too when I get nervous so I'd understand where he's coming from. Talking a little bit slower helps and act confident even if you don't quite feel it.

[Anonymous]

totally understandable...girls can get this way too. DOES NOT MAKE YOU CREEPY lol it's very sweet ;-)