Under the assumption that
--You listen as much as you talk
--You don't say stupid sh*t
--You acknowledge what she is saying by showing interest and not changing topics to whatever you just want to talk about
If you don't do the above, that's probably the reason why. If you do then:
--You are probably revealing too much about yourself too soon
--You are always available to talk when she wants to
--Whenever you talk to her you come off as too nice
--You don't make her feel like she needs to keep your interest, you make it seem like you need to keep her interest most of the time.
It's true though, talk too much on the phone and talk all the time and instead of getting texts like "Hey, how are you? What have you been up to?" you'll get no texts at all.
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They are turned off by quiet guys too, they're basically picky as f***, because they can be.
How talkative are you talking? I mean if it's to the point where the conversation is like 80% or more about you and mainly you, then that is a little too much. I think being talkative is a good thing. My friends also have no problem with talkative guys. It's a good thing because the conversation always has interest and there is less awkward silence. But when your being talkative it has to interesting and involving. You can't just ramble on and on about nothing.
I like talkative guys just for the simple fact that they don't let a conversation die it just keeps going . So for me its a plus on that . (: But When girls start doing that its maybe because they're just not interested so best advice is to go on to the next .
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i'd prefer I guy who's more talkative personally.i'm shy and quiet so it would help bring me out of my shell.
depends on the girl and what you talk about and a billion other things. don't worry about it so much and just do your thing. some girls love it.
Outgoing guys are sexy :)
It depends what is coming out of his mouth.
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