P. s. I'm very talkative, it's how I vent, make banter, and express the stress and issues I'm having, I have a "talk it out" approach. I'm a social butterfly, usually the life of the party and always making people laugh, but always ask "what's stressing you out/ troubling you" as not everyone is as open with their problems as I am.
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It's good to discover that @ G@G more people think "Lobsters are mermaids for crabs" than "Talkative guys are unattractive"...🤣🤣🤣
No the combination of 1 talkative and 1 silent is good ( it good be in either of them) but when you find your soulmate, there is no such thing , both end up complementing each other's talks and it becomes very beautiful. And both become silent together, which is very beautiful. When you shiver seeing the guy or hesitate, it's not love. When you respect each other's silence, talks - it's love :)
I've absolutely no need to come by and if anybody be able to talk to you look at the factor talk so much that I can't even talk of speaker today and I have multiple issues and personalities who voices seasons of myself until multitude of different personalities and levels and skills emotional promise it's actually very very difficult to be able to even comprehend let alone manage inside of becoming completely and utterly insane so you think you're a talkitive bunch youhave no idea have you been quite often on occasion managed to being annoyed with myself so yeah
MissDawn7961 | 1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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1 y
it can be but it can be taken care of in the right way ! Say Mister Talker asks his lady friend something ! she tries to answer him but he won't be quiet long enough for her to do so ! what she has to do is wait , roll her eyes and say to him - when your finished talking then maybe I can answer you before I forget what you asked me in the first place - ? I have a brother who asks me a question and I go to answer his unexpected question but he does not have time for my answer so I say some baby talk and he repeats this back to me and then says to me - I am going to tell my doctor you said that or he says to me your a smart aleck - !
There should be balance between listening and talking.
Besides, there is always girl who would suit your character. (If she is type of quiet person). But even a quiet person would talk a lot if the topic is her interest.
But it would be nice if u can supress urself a bit if u do realize that u might be a bit too much sometimes.
I often do find that I supress myself from talking especially during sex as the forces at play are= Talkative Guy + ADH (Hyperactivity) D + (Hypersexualty Disorder). a lot of energy there. I try my best to make her climax dozens of times during a week rather than talk the Mrs to death ⚰️🤷🏽♂️
Are you rambling about politics or video games? That’s a turn off for girls. Also if you are talkative out of nervousness they can pick up on that.
But if you are funny talkative and make them laugh that’s a huge plus. But I usually notice these kind of guys cock block and try throw other guys under the bus to make themselves look better. It can work too.
Overall it’s probably better to be insecure talkative vs insecure quiet. Women like the strong silent types but sometimes they can mistake their quiet behavior as insecurity, even creepiness.
I’m personally not very talkative in group settings but I try to force myself to say something. I’ve been told I’m the guy who speaks up at the right time.
No. Being social is not unattractive. It's what you choose to do with it and the company you have can play a role in how you choose to communicate can. If you have nothing to talk about that peeks others interest can make you boring and being bored can lead to lack of attraction. You just can't always expect other people to desire to talk to you though. And most introverts like myself would rather listen than speak foolishly.
It's only a problem if you're not a good listener and you're steamrolling people in conversation. Otherwise, as an introverted extrovert, I'd welcome the break lol.
No not really. It kinda depends how talkative you are. I don't mind someone alittle talkative because when we're hanging out or dating it makes it more interesting in a way cause you're either telling me about your day or even a little bit about yourself. Also it makes it less awkward because being silent the whole time makes it more awkward.
Now that's just hilarious I almost never talk about myself yet I'm continually talking almost Non-Stop about everything well then again this is largely due to the fact that I spend large amounts of ours alone researching things without speaking at all and then people that go with you speak a lot and I don't speak for hours and hours and hours and hours and I've learned a 400 different things so I do have a lot to say about various things because it always seems that everytime I go and study into any sort of subject for an extended amount of time and a lot to offer on the subject somebody goes and has some sort of issue or needs information on said subject so I tend to overlap or eat and then yes most people find me very annoying but whatever.
Belliebella | 283 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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1 y
It really depens: if you are talking all the time then thats just annoying. If I feel like im talked at, and there is very little back and forth word exchange then I get very easily bored. Im not a person who necessarly likes to talk about myself a lot either, but I get bored so easy when people just tell me all these things i can't a) relate to or b) I can't come with some sort of feedback
Yes yes but are you smart would you most likely become annoyed with me because I'm just a never-ending fountain or knowledge and know almost everything about everything and more often than not I'm just continually prove people wrong so they end up being annoyed with me because of their stupid and most people don't like to be proven stupid so a lot of people find very annoying unless they themselves are smart and they agree with me then they don't find me stupid what are not stupid rather annoying and because they actually know what I'm speaking about although I do have a tendency to over elaborate on things so if you ask me simple question you will get to the entire lecture on something that would have been easily answered at the single sentence you will instead get to the entire novel
The difference between talkative and entertaining is being socially aware. To me, if people care about what you have to say. You're not bringing down the room. You're entertaining and people are happy to listen. Then it's not an unattractive trait.
Lobsters are totally mermaids for crabs. On another note, it's definitely attractive but some people talk so much ABOUT THEMSELVES. I went on this one date once, and the guy didn't ask me a single question! Just talked the entire fucking time- awful😂
It isn't, it has advantages as keep the flow of a conversation BUT not let her to express herself because you want to continue talking yes it is. So my advice is watch if it happens when you talk with a woman and be sure it doesn't become an uncover monologue.
Although I would say from experience, we do get to know each other and progress our relationship 2-3 faster than most as we are constantly telling each other how we feel and what we want, as we are talkative and hyperactive 😊
Honestly, I'd rather have a guy who talked a lot over a guy who doesn't.
Seriously, my ex didn't know how to make conversation, nor did he know how to keep a conversation going. Yet, he was so clingy that he constantly wanted to talk to me on the phone. Drove me crazy. So many awkward moments,
If someone just can't enjoy a little bit of piece and quiet once in a while and overfloods people with useless information - unattractive in any gender. But that is the extreme, it is important to find middle ground.
Don't push too hard lol 😊 some guys need encouragement, Others process their emotions and thoughts in silence as there is a lot going on in their CPU 🤷🏽♂️💻
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1 y
I absolutely hate how talkative I am. I wish I was not necessarily silent but also not as easy to get along with. I feel like people take me as goof ball and not as seriously as they do to peers that are quite
If not a quiet listener then you need to meet a guy like me. I am extremely talkative and we'd do some damage together as we are constantly speaking our mind and driving people crazy whom are around us.
No I can't stand guys because they're always so quiet Me: Hi how are you? Guy: Good. GOOD? Is that all you got to say GOOD can't expand on that? Like Jesus see what I have to work with?
As a guy, this is the way I see it: 1. Initially guys like that need help coming out of the shell 2. You could tell him how you feel 3. Unfortunately he might just be like that, it is a characteristic trait which you cannot change. At this point it is your choice if you want to stay or go...🤷🏽♂️
1) True but how would you tell. 2) You could but if theyre not in their shell it would probably keep them in longer. 3) I feel like guys like this are just hopeless and not worth the time, unfortunately, that's a lot of guys today.
1) see how talkative they are with their friends 2) maybe but communication is key here, your words will plant a thought in his mind 3. I used to be like that, and a 17 year old girl thought I was worth the time... and now I'm advising you 🤷🏽♂️
I would say yes and no. I'm not one that like to talk so people that talk all the time bother me but they're also cool cause they can talk at my place and they're easy to talk to in general
I think talkative is a great quality to have. Talking to a guy who has one word responses are boring. As long as you can also listen then I don't see that as unattractive.
depends on the person. if the person is interesting and charismatic then talking is a good thing. people who talk fast and use a lot of extra words come off as anxious and unattractive. people who talk a lot and don't listen tend to be annoying.
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Screenwriter | 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.
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The middle ground on both sides is preferable. And there's nothing wrong with silence when it's called for: while holding hands, enjoying nature... reading books...
Took a cute girl home once after a night out in 2013. I was just looking for sex 🤷🏽♂️but we ended up talking all night. At 5 in the morning my house mate messages me "would you two shut up, have sex and go sleep already? I've got an exam tomorrow and I can hear everything!"
People start to loose their minds around us and decend into maddess as mine and her ever thought is vocalised twice as fast as anyone can think to retain their sanity.
We actually did a research paper for behavioural science and physcology on whether it is possible to talk someone to death 🤣
It is possible, but the deceased has to loose metal stability first. The method would be suicide but we led the person to it if we were locked in the room with a introvert loner type who likes to be alone with their thoughts. That person would see death as a relief from our nonstop chatter. 🤣
Only under these conditions could you actually talk someone to death.
Cool 😊 I also do Swing dancing, Kickboxing, can operate a rifle professionally, and goal keep during football. Positions and activities crazy people thrive in, like yours truly 👔
I try to be, I think some adults my age take life far too seriously. Stay crazy, immature and hyperactive... observe any child, that's where the fun is at 🤷🏽♂️
donnny2367764 | 103 opinions shared on Dating topic.
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Only a fool talks too much non-sense or shares their entire life story to strangers... impresses no one in the end
The fool you are referring to is me son. Talking out loud about what's on my mind and how I feel helps me vent stress and the issues I'm facing and allows the women in my life to help and feel closer to me emotionally.
I've been called many things, I fool is not one of them.
For women, I think it depends more on what about and how he talks. If it's whining, bragging on himself, or empty rambling, then she won't like it. If he's humorous, intelligent, and sweet-natured, then I don't think women mind.
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1 y
It can be, more so when you are more of a talker than a listener. Girls like feeling heard and being understood. It is also hard if you constantly turn a topic back into relating to yourself, or even if we just want to drop the subject and you can't drop it and keep bringing it back up. it really depends on the type of talkative you are.
Depends. You shouldn't be so talkative that you over power the other person. You also shouldn't give one word responses. You need delicate balance where both parties can speak their mind.
I talk for a living so I enjoy being quiet for a change. Also, the more someone talks the more likely you are to learn information you normally wouldn't if they were quiet.
It is, and I am a babe magnet 🤷🏽♂️ it just has to be the "right kind of talking" and this will vary per girl. Also, let her talk as much as you, don't talk over/ at her.
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