Will you date a girl who dresses on the cute side?

[Anonymous]

For you to know... i'm not a kpop or anime fan. I only follow Korean girl group's because their fashion is perfect for my taste. Will you date a girl who is past teenage years and this is her style?

[Meta1087]

Well yes I would, however it's totally up in the air because it has to compliment their personality as well. If they are not mature while dressing like this and still act in their early teens, it beings that look as a kiddish look instead of a cute one. If they act mature and dress like that, it would definitely not be a problem since it is still cute.

[Asker]

What do you consider mature? I am an independent and responsible girl but still sometimes my inner kid bevomes alive so i wanna ride on a slide or talk in a higher voice. Only once in a while tho lol.

[Meta1087]

That's only an issue if it an ALL THE TIME thing. Everyone has their inner kid, I do. I like getting on and doing stupid stuff. Running around and just being a kid again. There's no problem with doing kid things, only when it's not a big deal. Being mature is about making adult decisions, wether its worth doing something if it will prohibit other things. Like purchasing something that you may or may not use for the next 2 days and then forget about. A kid will impulse buy everything while a mature person would rationalize it and think. There's a lot to being mature, but having the occasional kid fun isn't bad. Just making it a constant thing is not being mature.

Like I had an ex who was very sheltered and made impulse decisions. She was never very mature and she just seemed like she was acting way younger than she was all the time. You want to avoid that and still act your age, but that doesn't mean stop being your inner kid. Get a coloring book, go play in the park on some swings, just don't make your life style.

[dante7631]

I think you should wear whatever you want to. If you like it wear it. There are plenty of people on this planet that will date you without worrying about what you wear. Don't let others try to force you into things you don't like. If you like a cute dress wear it plain and simple.

[AuroraRoseat]

I don’t think it matters as long as they don’t look unpresentable. It’s too childish for my tastes but there is nothing wrong with it.

[311WasAnInsideJam]

My girlfriend dresses up like a j-pop princess literally everyday. It's kawaii as fuck and I love it.

[Asker]

How old is ur girlfriend

[311WasAnInsideJam]

24, this September

[FunkyMonkee]

Sure! Why not? But, do you notice they're all Japanese? Japs have a thing for women dressing like little girls!

[Asker]

Korean but yea. The east Asian culture accepts this way more and western culture sometimes even shames women for this, which i find pretty stupid and against the quotes that westerns use such as "yolo" or "live the way you want"

Im also west Asian so i like to be cute and feminine, dont know how westerns will react once i migrate

[FunkyMonkee]

Every Japanese movie I've seen in the past decade or so has teen or adult girls dressed like little girls.
IF Western world shames them for it at al it's because, over here, it's seen and treated more like a sexual fetish and if you do ANYTHING of a sexual nature out in the open here, you're instantly labelled a perv!!
I agree!! It's supposed to be the land of the free, but we're not free to do a lot of the stuff we'd like to. You can't even shot fireworks on the 4th of July to CELEBRATE that freedom! At least not in my area. Across the state line an hour west of here, it's perfectly okay!
No clue what "yolo" is. "You only live once"?
I have no problem with you (Asians) or anyone dressing the way they want. It DOES look cute.
There's a blonde woman a few blocks from here that likes to dress up like a baby doll, the platform sneaker, white knee-high stockings with garters, white/pink little girl frilly skirt, pig tails, tiny backpack, the whole works. I've only seen her on the street 3 times but I only just "met" her about 2 months ago!
Because there's still so many old guard puritans and bible thumpers ere, they might look down upon your attire but I'm pretty sure a lot of the younger people will pretty much be okay with it. My aunt is in her 80's and STILL can't get over me having long hair even though I've had it since the late `70's. I wonder if they'd bitch about Jesus if he actually existed and suddenly showed up with his long hair? Their world revolves around him, but they'd be the first to bitch about his hair!!

[WTFever]

No, that wouldn't go well here, but something like that to go out to dinner would be good, but the rest of the time not good.

[Asker]

What would you be doing the rest of the time?

[WTFever]

I live in the Namib desert. That style would not do well in a desert.

[PaintcanYork]

That depends. Girls who like to dress cute is someone who is absolutely fine to date. But if you're saying the like to dress as a child then something might be wrong

[SergeantSmoke]

Yes! Hands down! Korean Girls make my eyes water! You're all TOO CUTE!

[SergeantSmoke]

However, if a Girl dresses like that, and is NOT Korean, (or of the Asian area) it's a bit weird... Most of the time, if I've seen that happen, they wear excessive makeup to LOOK Asian. (Case in Point, only Asian Girls look good in that kind of wear!)

[Asker]

Oh that's what I thought about... i basically look like a white girl and not sure if people would approve of this

[SergeantSmoke]

Well, it also certainly depends on the person, and how much is worn! There is SO MUCH that depends!

[SergeantSmoke]

Also, dressing cute can be cute, without you dressing up and not TRYING to be cute! For example: I LOVE school uniforms. And even though people must keep up the dress code, I find it to be adorable!

[Alephus]

Sure, but that also depends on the person. In my opinion, cute is never bad :) as long as you enjoy what you wear you should be fine. Never do anything forcefully

[naraku]

Yes. A lot of the girls I have dated are Asian and have similar or same fashion as these girls or sometimes even a bit more cute.

[Asker]

Is it weird if a non_east Asian dresses this way?

[naraku]

I wouldn't say it's weird. I have known some non-asian girl's to dress that way. I don't know if it always works so to speak, but no harm in trying it out.

[SjE78]

tbh if we both clicked and we liked each other she could wear whatever she wanted and i'd see her as beautiful whatever she wore

[Crazychickgold]

I honestly think that style is cute, as long as you r confident in it there will be people who appreciate it. More power to you.

[holograph]

Yes I would. Not really sure why a small number of people are saying "no." It's a no-brainer answer as far as I'm concerned.

[StephenCF]

Indeed I would. The fact that it doesn’t have tomboy written all over it like most young girls’ clothes where I come from, will make me wanna date such ladies who take pride in their femininity 💃🏻👗👠

[Kezzz]

Yes I would definitely give that a chance. Dressing cute is better than dressing sexy.

[Asker]

Why is it better?

[Kezzz]

Because dressing means you're not overdoing it. Not trying to physically attract some by dressing sexy and showing of body. I'm not saying it's bad to dress sexy. My preference just leans towards cute.

[kittycat119]

I love this style. It's how I dress also. I see nothing wrong with a girl being feminine and cute

[SirRexington]

I mean their attire is interesting, looks like it belongs in an actual anime. I think some of it is"baby doll" creepy.

But I do tend to like "cute" clothing.

[AndyCandySandy]

In general I'd say yes, but i depends on the girl who's wearing it. Does it suit her? Is her character, how it should be? And so on

[Dreagon]

Provided she is a cool person I would. But it's not necessarily a style I go for.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

By my own definition of "cute" then yeah, sure. But the pics shown in your post seem to me a bit on the childish side.

[whitehide]

I don't tend to date girl based on which clothes they wear, but that does look a bit childish... each to their own I guess

[GermanGuy87]

Yes I don't know why more girls don't go for the cute look. If a guy says he doesn't like it he is lying. This is instantly appealing to men

[Girther10]

Absolutely all these pics are adorable- way beyond cute!🥰💞😘

[happysultani]

Ummmm it's not a bad thing but it depends on the girl and what exactly what they are wearing, in my point of view I love cute girls not sure about these pictures though