I'm sorry that I'm posting on this question, even though it's directly aimed at guys. But I Just want to say one thing: Girls are very subtle about "checking out" other guys, we're not as obvious as guys "checking out" other girls. It's hard to catch girls checking out other guys. You Just have to keep a sharp eye on her, if you want to ever catch her doing it. Usually guys are pretty easy to catch out when they are "checking out" other girls because they make it obvious and they have a hard time hiding it lol... But it's the opposite for girls.
Firstly, no need to apologize, I would like lasses to answer as much as lads, that's why the question has a twist. The topic is Girl's Behaviour and under details I ask "Girls, have you ever been caught by your guy checking out another guy?"
Secondly, with the women I date, like most things with me, it is not what you expect. The first thing I do when I check out a girl is her eyes, followed by her face, followed by her hair. Hard to pick this up in comparison to your standard ass/ boobs guy.
Second, I'm quite confident with my sexuality. So despite being a straight male, I'll comment on how hot another guy is to my girl, and get her thoughts on the matter.
Ohh I didn't read the description lol the first thing that I looked at and caught my attention was the title 😂😂. So I didn't notice that there was a question in there for girls. Well I'm single lol so I don't have a guy, and even if I "checked out" other guys it wouldn't matter because I'm not in a relationship. So I can't really answer that question.
And I can see where you're going with you're statement, it would've been hard to catch you "Checking out" another girl if you weren't looking at her butt or breasts. But still you'd be looking at her slowly checking her out whether it be her face or something more Intimate. You'd still be staring at a different girl no matter which part of her you're "Checking out". You'd still get caught lol cause you were staring at another girl. Period.
In other words it you "Checking out" another girl would be Just as obvious lol. It doesn't matter which part you were "Checking out". You would have still been staring at her, no matter what area it was... if you get what I mean...😂
I get what you mean. But I am usually the settler in a relationship as I often play hard to get and 100% of my many relationships have been female initiated. So I have never truly been worried about her cheating on me.
This gives me the confidence to say things like "he's quiet hot" or "he's got a cute butt" as I know she's not going to cheat on me. Equally I say "check her hair out, looks cool" or "you should try doing the flick design with your eye liner.
My philosophy has always been "we are human, and we will be attracted to people other than our partner, best to be open and honest with your feelings rather than doing it low key and feeling guilty about it" if you think he's hot, then tell me, it just means I'm gonna have rough sex with you tonight...😈
Wow! Haha mind games. And here I was thinking that all the girls played "Hard to get". That's a complete feminine thing that you do lol. Tbh I'm sick of mind games, I'm a general straight forward unless I'm nervous and have a hard time admitting anything. But be honest, Isn't what you're doing kind of manipulative towards you're girl?
Like, what I mean is you're pressuring her to look like other women and then you're too over confident about her not cheating on you. And I'm speaking facts here lol. But you're last statement is correct. No matter whether you're in a relationship or not you'll still find other people good looking. But try not to express it so openly is what I'm trying to say, to avoid offending anyone. And LOL SEX? 😂😂 what will sex do to shift my attraction elsewhere? 😂
Yes, I've been told this before, that I date and behave more like a girl. I just want her to be open with me, as I am confident with my sexuality, saying out loud what she's already thinking allows her to be more open with me. Also jealousy is a healthy part of a functioning relationship.
When I stop feeling jealous, something is wrong. Jealously means to me that I am attracted and possessive over her, and you only feel this way with someone you love 🤷🏽♂️ otherwise they're just an NSA.
I'm not pressuring her, she's always looking to change her look up so I'm helping her by keeping an eye out. Remember, I not only date like a girl but I talk about other women, with my girlfriend, like a girl, not a guy. So she can bitch or swoon over other girls infront of me freely. My fav opening line is "Ron, see that basic bitch in the yoga pants..."
I don't understand you last question regarding sex, can you please rephrase?
Of course there's nothing wrong with a tiny bit of Jealousy it's a relationship obviously 😂. But a little bit of Jealousy is one thing and being over possessive is another, sure you can be Jealous bit don't cross the line into possessive avenue. Also I know you want her to be open with you, but don't push it. Instead of bringing her closer you'll accidently push her away if she feels pressured.
Of course if she's already looking to change her current look up then sure, you can give her recommendations 😊. I obviously didn't know the whole story of her wanting to change her look up, as long as she's comfortable with it, sure you can make suggestions.
Hmm to take it a step further, my close friend at work, he's bisexual and his girlfriend is straight. Lovely couple, both with a nurturing personality. Their relationship is open and often they find a hot guy they both can have sex with. I quite like that dynamic for women who would like to have sex with more than one man in the same session.
@Ronald_25 I didn't get that.. And any woman who has sex with any unknown man is a slut and guy is a stud. Period. Lol just tell using your commonsense, would you let any strange put hand in your wallet? Let him come in your home? No! Then wtf you would let him cum in your butthole (or cunthole for women)!
Alex, this is the way I see it. When I settle I will settle with a bisexual girl. I don't like men having sex with my wife but I encourage her to find women to have sex with. In this instance, she is not a slut. She is the mother of my 4 children, a loving wife and a professional at her work place. Labelling her a slut and him a stud is arbitrary as women who wants lots of sex from different guys should be thought of as no less than a man who wants lots of sex as different women.
That would make the accuser sexist, are you sexist?
The thing is men need to have certain good traits in order to fuck a cunt while women don't need to do much effort to get their holes filled with jizz hence they a seen as meaningless sluts... and guys as king studs.. not the same bc of different amount of effort
Not entirely true. When it comes to sex and one night stands, women are the gate keepers, the can allow as many or as few people in. I find it far easier that women sometimes to get laid. I often have women who make advances on me but I deny them, because sex isn't everything.
However when it comes to settling down, men have the power, and thus this sets the economics of sex. All on this thread, please educated yourself on why men now have far more power over relationships and sex than women:
I have one time. He was exercising and sweat was dripping off him at the gym and at the time I wasn't in shape. I was too skinny at time. I was just 117 or 118 and at 5'4" and male should be about 130 to 140 for normalcy. I'm 138 lbs now.
Lol I'd like to apologize then because I'm usually that guy. One of my all time favourites was when we were sharing a sports hall with the women's netball team and I caught one of them biting her lip as I walked past. I was down to my black vest and tight shorts around my gluts whilst flexing my arms on purpose 😏 I love making girls all hot and bothered 🔥😳
Also, I am British so I am 6'0" 120, which coverts to 265lbs so I believe that makes me a Super Heavyweight as the international kickboxing federation caps Heavyweights at 234lbs i think.
Well kinda, I prefer dating bisexual or bi curious women who usually have the same taste in women that I do, so I'd be like "check out her eyes, very beautiful" or "look at her hair, very shiny, I have some Indian herbal oils if you want to get yours like hers?"
Lol your preaching to the choir lad, me to, my favourite move is catching them from the side of my eye, wondering my eyes until it locks onto hers, seeing her panic and try to act normal with flushed pink face 👀😳🤭
Hehe, I wouldn't term mine as sluts though, women get horny too, and there is only so much masterbating they do before they start getting cravings. My favourite is when I suddenly become very hot and do my kickboxing work out in vest, shorts and black leather sparing gloves, catching a girl from the side of my eye biting her lip is one of the biggest joys in life for me. I love making girls hot and bothered and then and then leaving them high and dry, I'm such a twat 😂
Well girls do check guys especially when you are nicely dressed.. (I've a good dressing sense I've been told) And once you understand female behavior you can easily bust them lol... it's fun bc most guys don't know about female phycology
This is true @alex_x988 once you have the gender's phycology figured out, you can have some fun with them.
Blueskys, I've caught out so many netballers. Let's just say the guys who play netball don't have the most masculine physique. So you get netballers peering at the kickboxers during their water break. I've been spanked by one of them before at a club once, best experience of sexual harrasment I've had.
Sky, I'll say this, on average guys are better dealing with catch out than girls. When I've been caught out, I just smile sweetly and watch her melt...
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