Why are you girls so sensitive?

[Anonymous]

Making big issues out of small ones.. :/

[toulouse]

I dont. I don't MAKE a big issue out of anything. if there is a problem that should be addressed I address it rationally.if it involves other people I discuss how to approach it with them. we then go from thee. discussion is important so everyone is heard. I have guidelines criteria for how to determine if something is a problem. me not feeling good about it for example is not sufficient. there needs to be some relevance to the issue otherwise I really am not allowed to waste time thinking about it.

of course on the other hand many people like to provoke others into getting upset which is inverted form of blowing things out of proportion.

for example this post. you obviously are trying to inflame women. you did not say why are people doing this or that. even tho you now that even if you singlehandedly know 1,00 women you FEEL do this that is not sufficient information to determine anything other than you look for irrational people or you are irrational therefore see everyone else as being irrational. Since one person can not singlehandedly determine the behavior of billions of people- I can only decide that you do not eel well & hope to make others feel unwell- by asserting your arbitrary negative view towards people for no reason other than it gives you a temporary illusion of power.

Of course studies show, people who have positive feelings towards/ impression of / basically 'good things to say about others' - live longer , more fulfilling, healthier lives.. So really at the end of the day who has more power.

[tokioangel95]

The answer is a simple one. We are taught to do so. As children, girls are taught to show emotion, and that verbal communication is essential to their success. Also, because women are placed in the role of nurturing their children more so then men, emotion and communication are stressed in their elementary education. Now, if this is so for women, then why not for men? And why would you want a women to act more masculine? If you want a masculine companion find a man to fulfill your needs. I am not insecure in my womanhood nor am a squealer. I do require communication and, at times, I can be emotional.

[Mesonfielde]

Oh my f---ing god. (That goes for your overzealous genderal identity).

By the way, male children should not have their emotions and verbal communication suppressed either. This is currently an error in the "gender-centered" individuals of our society.

[paramore80]

It's not that all girls are sensitive, it's just that you probably have only interacted with the sensitive ones. If you ask me, I really don't like being sensitive. For example, if a guy wants his space, I'm not going to make a big fuss about it. Hey, sometimes I want my space, too. Sensitivity to me is a sign that the girl is in doubt for some apparent reason. She doesn't want you to leave her, she doesn't want anyone stealing you, or maybe she's just a b**ch. Whatever the reason, we can all agree that some girls are more touchy than others.

[bunny420]

Look into evolution and memes. Those are the two main (or only) variables.

[Rose321]

Well for starters its like when we ask why are guys such priks nothing is a big deal to them they don't take anything seriously..

Some things guys think are small issues can be a big issue to a girl. Or any other person for that matter, guy or girl.

[josei]

... I know plenty of guys that do the exact same thing. They get angry over some really small things too.

[Anonymous]

They're all trolling you because they know they can get away with it.

[Mesonfielde]

lol

[bel42]

Well maybe what you consider a small issue is a big issue to someone else.

[Anonymous]

Depends on what the issue is if it's worth making a big deal about it then I will.

If it's not then I rather not start something.

[Anonymous]

might be small issues to you, but not small isues to us

[Mesonfielde]

Because they're immature.

[Mesonfielde]

I knew they'd disagree. But it's a fact. The moment you start bitching about small things, the easier life becomes, and everything becomes better. It just takes growing up, getting past things. Seeing them from a new perspective, where they don't matter to you as much anymore.

[bunny420]

Start, or stop?

[Mesonfielde]

Fffffffff a wonderful typo!

Yeah, I meant "stop". Haha, whoops.