Girls why are you so damn picky, shallow, and stuck up? I know I'm gonna take a lot of crap for this question.

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I think I've finally realized why girls are such d-bags to girls. I'm not one because it's not me but it's making me want to not be as nice as I used to be. I've noticed how picky, shallow and stuck up girls are. You have to say the right thing, act the right, and do the right things. It's like we have to be perfect or something. If we're too nice you dismiss us as not protective and clingy or annoying. If we don't say the right thing you don't talk to us back you just ignore us. If we don't do the right things then you get p*ssed off. I've never known any guys to be so picky like this. So why can't you be a little less picky for once and make some guys happy instead of pleasing those d-bags all the time.?

greeneyedgal1 · Accepted Answer

Hmmmm, all of the attributes you mentioned about girls certainly doesn't apply to me. Maybe in your experience you have encountered girls like this but not all of us fall into this mold. There are actually really nice girls with a good heart, intelligence, sense of humor, grounded, want a nice, loyal guy and will be true to him. It will depend on her maturity level, experience in dating and life.

I cannot tell you how many guys have treated me like sh*t and I am one of the nice girls. I consider myself to be the type you can take home to mom. I don't play mind games or engage in drama. But, life has taught me that not all guys are douche bags, and it's kind of a 'weeding' process in that you keep looking until you hopefully find the right one.

I am not going to tell you to have hope or keep looking because it sounds like you have your mind made up. However, I also don't think it's a fair assumption to say all girls are like this.

kiki_bu11 · Accepted Answer

I don't think I'm picky, shallow, or stuck up. I started dating the first guy to ask me out. I didn't care that he was one of the biggest nerds in school. I didn't care that he was overweight and his whole face was covered in acne. I agreed to go out with him because he was a nice guy who was interested in me. And guess what? I fell in love with and married him.

He is far from a perfect human being, because no one is, but he's perfect for me, and that's what matters. He doesn't have to try, he just is. Also, he is probably what you describe as "too nice", but I don't find that clingy or annoying. I think it's sweet and kind.

I don't deny that some girls are the way you describe. I just know that I'm not one of them. So please don't group us all together. I think that "douchebag" has become the male stereotype and "bitch" has become the female stereotype because they're the ones that get the most attention, but they are not the majority.

peace-love-couture · Accepted Answer

I hang out with guys,and guys are more picky than girls.Except guys are picky about appearance.

Society says girls have to accept guys completely,behavior,attitude and appearance.Society says guys can be extremely picky about appearance and not give a rats a** about personality.

In my opinion,guys only care about physical appearance and are extremely picky about physical appearance and put that above and beyond attitude or personality.

MrKkibbles · Accepted Answer

It probably seems like girls are more shallow because confidence isn't nearly as important for them in our society since guys are traditionally supposed to be the seekers, it still plays a role, just not as big of one. Its just like in sales, being aggressive is more desirable than being passive. How often do you hear about nice-girl syndrome? As for physical appearance I have to disagree in a way, I do admit that the vast majority of us with lower standards would be the nice-guys, and to make matters worse, our lower standards can reek of desperation even if its not.

martyfellow · Accepted Answer

Girls aren't really very picky, but shallow, oh yes...  Stuck up, sometimes!

Anonymous · Answer

what are girls supposed to do? just take any guy that comes along just because he wants her? girls have to have some standards. no one expects perfection but come on if you're clingy and annoying then its a turn off? if you don't act masculine then its intrinsically a turn off and there's not much we can do about that

a lot of guys are probably less picky because they are just happy to get some p**** so they don't really care how the girl acts as long as he has a chance at getting it.

in order for your question to be answered more helpfully, you should give specific examples on HOW a particular girl has been picky, shallow, and stuck up in your opinion..

cherrykitty · Answer

I swallow if it tastes OK, Not like Pie Or apples ... But if it tastes like DEATH IN MY MOUTH, I will go to the bathroom and spit it out and wash my mouth out ...

Like If you eat Sour Fruits, Pineapple, Type of sour, it Will make you Taste better and maybe more girls would swallow...

You are what you eat...

soulfulleyes · Answer

i don't like douche bags so I don't try to make them happy.. hahaha and I don't think of myself as stuck up and shallow (maybe a little picky only because I know what I want) but it would be like saying why are guys such shallow d***s, it goes both ways

ltaylor · Answer

I think that you're looking in the wrong direction. Sure, there are bitchy, self absorbed, shallow girls out there, but there are also girls who aren't. I myself think it's stupid that other girls play games and manipulate and demand so much from guys.

For future advice, when a girl starts acting like that, either confront her or stop chasing after her, it's not worth your time. There are plenty of decent (single) girls who deserve a boyfriend way more that those bitches!

italia0824 · Answer

Not all girls are like that! Unfortunately there girls who do that...and based on the description of these so called girls, why would you want to be with those type of girls? Even if you were to be in a relationship with one of them you would be walking on eggshells...I would pass on those prima donnas!

beerY33 · Answer

I think you've just been hanging around the wrong girls...

Xenophobia · Answer

Just stop talking to the girls with crazy expectations. Those are the type that were meant to be single.

curiouskitten · Answer

Yes some girls are like that but other are not like I have a cousin like that and I see how she treats people and I know how that makes guys and girls feel and I hate it :-P

Anonymous · Answer

Guys aren't picky? Are you kidding me? Guys are a hell of a lot more demanding than girls

EddyMetal · Answer

Because they're naturally bitches. You've seen the light.

Anonymous · Answer

wat the fcuk you stupid prick.. you don't understand what its liketo be a girl! itts really hard. all girls deserve more then d***smacks like u. I hope you never get girl. turn gay..

Hartmut · Answer

That's a very nice generalisation, there.

Girls why are you so damn picky, shallow, and stuck up? I know I'm gonna take a lot of crap for this question.

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