Do you find shallow girls annoying?

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I mean the ones who don’t have anything to offer outside of looks

strathottawa · Accepted Answer

Sadly, yes. Over the years, I've found out I'm a sapiophile (I enjoy the company of intelligent people, and seek that out in partners). I've always been afraid it makes me seem like a snob. I can get along pretty well with non-genius people, of course, if they're fun or interesting... but truly dim I can't abide. A while back, I was living in an international flat-share in London. Of the seven of us living there, only one was a girl and she was also the only English person. She would have over this Kiwi girl who I thought was REALLY cute, to the point where I fumbled my words around her, and just started "hiding" at the other end of the flat, if she was over. But sometimes, we would cross paths, and I would talk bollocks to her, and I eventually figured out that she was a few sandwiches short of a picnic; not just uninteresting (though I could drool over her all day) or shallow (nothing to say about things outside her life), but well and truly dim. As much as I wanted to jump her bones (IF I could have managed it), I don't think I could have made it even through some minimal pillow talk. What a loss!

mobiusforniner · Accepted Answer

That's a misrepresentation of someone's character. You choose to see them this way, it annoys you, and so you post it here. I know some women who appear to be only a pretty face, or "shallow", as you seem to define it it. But when I truly got to know them and learned about them; I found them to be fragile, broken and even tragic inside- with life experiences molding them into what they are. Are they annoying? Perhaps, to people who don't invest the time or patience to truly know a person. I guess doesn't that make you shallow?

dustybiker · Accepted Answer

Of course it’s annoying, it’s designed to be. It’s a defensive mechanism in a large supply of others we filter through to protect ourselves. Everyone has more to offer than looks. We all have some measure of walls, trauma, what-have-you. Everyone means something to someone. It depends on if we are willing to try and get through to a person.

Let_me_think · Accepted Answer

Yes. The fact that they don't have a personality that offer any sort of intrigue is quite frustrating. Moreover they usually have this unrelenting ability to get whatever they want with a few words of pity and fake depth. What annoys me even more is that people don't always point it out and they get away with it

rjroy3 · Answer

I care more about a girl being a decent person alongside attractive. So I don't really care if she's "shallow" in some ways.

Too often people label caring about any superficial factors as "shallow" Just like people often times wrongly label certain behaviors as selfish that merely don't benefit them.

Wanting to date someone you're physically attracted to is not shallow or selfish. Sure if that's ALL you care about sure that's shallow. But that's rare in my experience.

I've met maybe one truly shallow girl who was just a shitty person. She's a single mom that got knocked up just out of highschool who became a nurse and has been bouncing between partners for the past 10 years or so.

Truly shallow people tend to not do very well longterm, but Additionally. There's a million fish in the sea so why would I even care? That's how they choose to be in life. Next.

Chriscunning · Answer

Not really.

Despite how shallow and empty they seem, everyone has a story at the end of the day. Everyone is usually interesting to speak to and have a good laugh with.

Not sure if I would jump into a relationship with them, but all-in-all they not that annoying.

MotorcycleMan · Answer

Not as annoying as useless.
OK, I looked at you. You're pretty. I think we're done here. lol
OK, I'm exaggerating. I love beautiful women, but not for long if that is all they are. That being said, most people have something to offer if you get to know them a little.

BCA6010 · Answer

Yes, especially when they live in the easiest country on the planet to be more than that, and even moreso when they start b*tching about "being objectified" when that's all they carry themselves as.

It comes back to the physical appearance vs personality question, and my counter-question: why should those be mutually exclusive?

Purpleronnie · Answer

I wouldn’t say annoying no and I don’t agree that there are a group of men or women that have nothing else to offer than they’re looks either. I take everyone as I find them and try not to judge by looks. I’m sure the people who are pleasing to the eye would hate to be branded as having less to offer than those less blessed. If anyone could make you “annoyed” by just being them then perhaps it isn’t “them” who have a problem?

tropicalbreeze · Answer

Nah. The photo was awesome. I've seen worse shallow women. You know. If they were the surfer dude try hard type of stuck up women or fashionista stuck up then yes annoying. Otherwise I'm cool with it if it means their grooming and hygiene is so on point :)

Birdlegs · Answer

I don’t think anyone is actually shallow I just think most of them aren't good at talking to people and if they really just don’t have anything else going on you can just put your personality on them and put them in situations were they can be actual people

jshm2 · Answer

No. They offer great sex and no strings. but that is really the only thing they are interested in so win-win.

It's pretentious girls who think they have something to offer. when they are just moody, argumentative bitches, that I find annoying.

Anonymous · Answer

Jealous?
Men rarely post such things about their own gender.
This proves most girls are just jealous and a cry baby when they can't compete with better women.
Then you just stain the name of a beautiful woman even if she is caring, smarter and funnier.

RasberrySlushPuppy · Answer

Not annoying, i think it's foolish to understimate a goodlooking girl. Her social network will naturally be bigger so her resources for happiness will be diverse. The longer you get to know her you'll unlock her secrets. Every girl is different anyway, some are more guarded and some are kind open right from the start.

Pj1981 · Answer

Yeah I'd never want a relationship with someone like that but if they have looks I may consider tolerating annoying long enough to have fun. My uncle used to say "inject her, reject her" I'm just playing I have never ever been that guy but I find humor in the saying

OpenWine · Answer

not anoying I just have a hard time keeping up a conversation with these kinds (it kind of feels like the girls who are like that just have no interest in me, I'm not their type or whatever the fuck they want from a man that I may not have so I should not just assume they are an empty husk).

if the girl really has nothing to offer I would gladly have someone else have a try. I like my future relationship to be at least of the same depth or higher than my long time friendships

ThatNoUVAtYourEyes · Answer

That depends on her upbringing.
There is no necessity to talk deeply meaningful stuff or astro physics if someone is genuinely nice/knows how to be soft and loving and is well behaved.
It is shallow and angry/mean that is a huge red flag/a person to run away from as quickly as possible.

atlas56656 · Answer

Yes, as hard as I tried to be civil I really do find that shallow women who clearly have nothing going for them other than their looks to be rather tiresome to be around, relying on their looks often means they haven't really developed personality wise or worse they are quite narcissistic and can't hold a conversation.

slackbabbath · Answer

It’s kinda shallow to say anyone has nothing to offer besides their looks. Everyone has something more to offer.

YollyM · Answer

I don't find them annoying but I feel bad for them because having a real personality is what sets you aside from everyone else, your personality is what makes you YOU!❤️

EmbraceThePain · Answer

Annoying? Well, specifically because they are shallow? No I find them distasteful human beings, yes.

dtweed1996 · Answer

It depends on how shallow if they are the type who uses there tricks to charm a guy I'd like to avoide them but if they are shallow in a way that doesn't involve tricks to charm a guy it will be pretty entertaining

md_tilley · Answer

As awful as this may sound, yes. No personality is an instant killer for a lot of guys, myself included, so it would be quite annoying.

Rachelspiks · Answer

I dislike them almost as much as I dislike shallow men.

Bluemax · Answer

I've generally found that very few people are shallow.

Babygirlsweetheart1 · Answer

No. If you mean chicks in 100 layers of makeup and obviously fake or overly done up hair... You just look kinda dumb like you're wasting money and time on that stuff. Trying to be trendy.

Browneye57 · Answer

Oh, well, if they're really cute they get a pass. ;) What's WAY worse are the ones that think they know everything and argue about everything. That is way boring AF. LOL

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Sometimes. Other times their mindless chatter can be comforting.

Anonymous · Answer

Some folks have no skills, and aren't a benefit to society.

Often times it's not their fault, and our consumer culture is perfectly willing to let ineffective individuals survive along with the rest of us. Shallow individuals aren't annoying, they're a symptom.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Yeah... kind of. I mean who would want to knowingly deal with someone who has nothing offer besides her physical beauty?

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Not really until they talk which reveals they are shallow which can be annoying and disappointing.

Majeston · Answer

Annoying because you have to do all the work to keep her entertained

7Roses · Answer

Being shallow is an annoying trait but I don’t believe anyone has only looks to offer unless you’re a real low person. It is easy to be kind. I think that kindness is something to offer.

Fireguy17 · Answer

yes, there needs to be more than just a pretty face.

Asianguy123 · Answer

if I have their look I would be shallow. I will attract anyone without lifting a finger I would see the chance on working as a prostitute or singing or acting and make a fortune. so I will think that life is really easy.

Anonymous · Answer

they're a complete dung beetle. and they're just a bunch of low-intelligence girls who think they can get all the guys because of their looks. Girls who use their intelligence and put their body in the background are stronger than them.

AdithyaR · Answer

I wouldn't be annoyed cause I wouldn't be engaging with them in the first place. I don't get along with shallow people.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Honestly yes I don't go after traditional beautiful women, she would need to have something else going for besides her looks.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Yes but no. Most girls have very skewed outlooks on what men desire. Id rather a superficial shallow girl over a career woman any day but i desire a traditional woman more than either.

Hmmmsomething · Answer

No I like them cos they're real and honest, down to earth I find the opposite annoying, people who pretend to be deep. jus so they appear like a "better" "nicer person in their head... They annoy me

FlynnSchaffer · Answer

yeah i do its more about personality than looks you should be focusing on someones good personality more than if they're sexy

Anonymous · Answer

A girl who offers good looks are not shallow unless she also is a gold digger and / or a feminist. No I don't find sexy non-feminist non-gold diggers annoying.

Feminists on the otherhand are always annoying.

EssenceOfLight · Answer

No. I have GFs since I was 16 and I don't notice such behavior anymore. Girls need sometimes being that way.

magiusX26 · Answer

of course. yes looks matter but so does things besides looks, often just as much if not more.

scooogy · Answer

I recently had a girl turn me down saying "There are other beautiful girls out there" 🙄

Anonymous · Answer

Our entire society is based on that tho so I don't know

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

If they don't offer anything good besides her looks then they don't have a good personality. That is a major turn off.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, but also a lot of girls who think they have something more... don’t. For example a lot of girls emphasize the education or career.

MrMountainLion · Answer

I like them if they're a nice person but I'm a bit 'deep' myself so I wouldn't chose them as a serious long term partner unless they were intuitive and understanding in other ways

SenseiSeptred · Answer

Not annoying, but incompatible. There is a clear miles apart difference.

Dchrls78104 · Answer

Yes, I do; what they generally talk about is part of the annoyance.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Not annoying unless she is rude then I have a problem.

crazy8000 · Answer

Not anything. I become indifferent to them. it usually messes with their heads.

Caliguy88 · Answer

They are not for me. But if it works for them, whatever. Good for them.

Better_off_here · Answer

yes i am all about a woman who is nice inside and outside. if she don't have respect for anyone then i will not have any for her either.

dolemite89 · Answer

absolutely, i’ll hook up with a shallow girl but i don’t wanna hang out with a girl long term that i don’t like talking to.

wonderfulstation404 · Answer

i don't really mind my real problem is when the girl isn't willing to learn...

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

That……… “they tried to send me to Rehab and I said no, no, no”

Guardian45 · Answer

Nice to look at, but if that's all there is, then they get boring VERY FAST!

dragoblack · Answer

Absolutely. Brings any kind of attention to next to none

Clarke498 · Answer

Annoying? No. Because i won't be around them for them to annoy me.

Nick473 · Answer

Its more unattractive than annoying. I just can't see eye to eye with someone like that

Hillary86 · Answer

Yes but ones who tend to be shallow tend to be big women I witness this with my own eyes.

FoghornLeghorn99 · Answer

Yep! Other than a quick fuck, they are useless.

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