Because his lustful, is degrading, and is disrespectful to all women. Not just men, but younger generations of children believe that that's how a woman should be and that is not how a woman should conduct herself. Men should not even be talkin about a woman's body, let alone Be lusting after women because this is why we have so much rape, cheating, divorce rates being high, jealousy, murder, you name it all in the name of sin. Being beautiful is one thing, but women cannot control their looks just like men cannot control their looks. We should be all be respectful towards each other. And that cannot happen if such people does that and change the way how Society should treat other people. Is those kind of guys that I avoid anyway because first of all, a man should not even be doing that to a woman let alone me as a person. I wouldn't want to be involved with somebody who lust after other people. You can compliment a person without being a pervert.
A woman who carries herself with class, respect, dignity, Etc would naturally complain because it's there's a way men and men already sexually sensitive as it is. Plus it causes men to have unrealistic standards about women and what they consider women ask sexually. They already got that problem in Japan.
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It's those kind of reasons why a lot of men are called pigs or dogs because they don't act like human beings. Act like they can't control themselves. I have more respect for men that tells a little woman to put your clothes on, or just simply ignore her. Guys who do exactly what you described I'm just desperate to have sex with any type of woman that they already left after. That's not a man to respect. And that's why some women divorce their husbands, cheat, or get involved with other men. It's not that hard to see a woman who shows her body have nothing else to offer but just sex and maybe a child if not God forbid disease. Other than that, nobody in their right mind has to be mad or jealous of a chick who choices are to basically prostitute herself. We're not even supposed to be seeing each other's nakedness before marriage in a sexual manner. Good thing with social media is easy to see who is doing what. Get caught, all we have to do is drop you. You wouldn't like it if we done it to you, don't do it to us, that's all. If we didn't love you, we will just leave you to do what you want. And find somebody else. Not hard.
Plus a lot of those girls, teenagers and women often times have no self love and try to seek validation from men. Whether they have daddy problems, mom whoring around or have that history, divorce hurt them, rape, rejection, etc, most of them have one thing in common: they want somebody to give them the security they didn't get at home. Or are so desperate for a man to pay attention to them they're willing to play the hoe even if it's detrimental to time. They feel there is not other way. And it's sad. It's not worth ruining their lives over. Then the good few are natural homewrackers or golddiggers. You asked, this is why. It's gives women and females as a sex and gender as a whole, a bad name.
If some women do it by themselves how can it be degrading and disrespectful towards all women? Maybe they just need some attention and compliments from guys, why is it bad? Why do you consider a female body to be something bad?
And why do you think that all guys who leave comments under such photos are desperate? I guess that all guys are different. Not all comments are lustful and lewd as you described. I think that you have a very simplistic perception of guys. And honestly I don't think it's right to mix crimes which you mentioned with the intention of these girls just to get some attention and validation from men.
I guess that girls are different too and they have very different opinions on men and on the ways how to act with men. Real life is more complicated. I have heard a lot of stories of how people who wanted to do a one night stand with each other got married and started a family. I guess blaming girls who are craving for attention is wrong because craving for attention is a natural thing. People like you should explain their position to such girls without blaming them or showing them despise because all people who don't commit a crime and don't treat others bad should be respected.
But the main question I want to ask is what would agressive and hateful comments towards such girl's picture change? Do you think they would make her stop doing that?
How is degrading and disrespectful towards all women? Like I told you before Oh, a woman should not be displayed like that. A woman has to be covered no different than a man has to be covered. It's a protective sexuality, and relationship between a heterosexual man and women especially in a marriage. It's important because now people ha e the right to make such judgements and it effects us as children. It's why a lot of girls, and me at some point included always want to have big breasts little stuff because we thinking that's the only way to get a guy's attention, and that only shows that we are willing to neglect ourselves for what we are naturally given for something that another person may not even want or desire in the first place.
First of all that has nothing to do with it being lustful allude, but when you choose to like and it comes in general based on that, then you are doing self. You do not have to say curse words for something sexually degrading to actually do so. It's about the intent that makes it a sin.
I don't have to think. My own father had done so plenty of times before, and knows plenty of guys that he grew up with, work with, and I have also done the same thing. Especially in Facebook, most of those men, especially Italian are married.
The only way they would make anybody stop doing it in the less they bring back the traditional values that will bring scrutiny and dishonor to their families. That would affect their jobs, and their livelihood.
Back the and my grandma who is 96 can tell you that they didn't have it like this today. When she saw how women are behaving and dressing she was shocked. Even she said it was whorosh. See a lot of people don't know better. I have none to do about it being simplistic. It's what should be done and what should be done. This is why everybody is suffering because they don't have respect for any kind of common sense to know that what they're doing is hurting everybody else not just themselves. That's why girls like that often times get married to even stay married, or ho hopping to another man while legally married, but shame the men who don't lust after them.
Even my own father had made a comment stating that one of the women that he ended up seen on his live feed post it, how she should overall cover up because she's enticing men to lust. And everybody and their mama blasted him dating he must be gay, or how he can't get a wife or he better not have children. Mocking him on top of that. And he had to correct them saying that he was married, do you have daughters, and have messed around with 40-plus women before he married. His past actions hurt my late mother and they're marriage was already atrocious. He threatened to have me taken away, cheat on those women and divorce her. It broke her down as a woman. And she wanted to leave, commit suicide, and all. She died of cancer. If you think there's nothing wrong with it, then that's your business. But when other women don't want anything to do with you, or use you, treat you like a commodity, she on you, divorced you, have sex with anybody else other than you, don't complain about what women do.
It's bad because now they assume that every woman has to be that way, and it hurts others because there are so many good people especially those that are secure that don't deserve to be mistreated by other people. It's bad because so many of them get sex trafficked, raped, targeted or killed. They would jeopardize their safety and the safety of others because they no longer care and they feel that they of undervalue. And it's those type of people that sings conservatives, religious, insensitive women especially if they're secure in themselves, because the Goodman and even some bad men will show them attention as opposed to the ones who flashed herself. I know such girls and have family members who do the same. One of them was raped and tagrtted. And still does the same thing like nothing ever happened. I don't talk out my ass.
At that point I don't care what other dumb women, girls and careless people do. I care how I will be perceived to others and being an example to young children so they can see they don't have to be like the world to be loved and liked by other people. Plus a lot of those same girls are jealous of people like me, because I naturally attract guys without having to do so. And I'm not all that great looking myself I believe I can admit that. It's usually them that are the most vocal about the envy and insecurity. Mind you just because they get married and start a family that doesn't mean that it's all b o a. They can easily get divorced, and not at a 10 times you never know, they might be having open relationships and you still wouldn't know. At that point that is not a healthy marriage and that's not a marriage in the first place.
Why do you think so many girls especially are depressed and they want to commit suicide? They talked about how much they want a boyfriend even though they may not be mentally stable? hop from partner to partner, but is emotionally unavailable whenever a good man comes around and do want a relationship with her? It's psychology. I nicknamed that one the domino effect. When all it takes is for one piece to Tumble over and everything else falls down. But now it will quiet a lot of work just to put it all back up. That's why their often miserable, and complain about where all the good men gone, etc, etc. Yet they can't look within themselves to see what's wrong.
My father even knows a few people who are his ex co-workers that got cheated on by women like that. And have female friends whose husbands got caught checking these women out on social media, got the evidence and had to divorce or the husband already hooked up with those women. See it's funny nobody don't want to talk about these things.
OK, I have a female friend from one small Middle Eastern country. Women here are taught exactly what you are talking about and even if a girl there would be seen walking together with a guy who is not a relative, people would start spreading rumours about that girl. If a girl would have sex before marriage and others would get to know about that she would be slut shamed by everyone and nobody would marry her.
But the truth is that all girls have the same needs, even those living in Muslim countries. They want to explore their sexuality and making out with guys without being judged. 90% of marriages in this country are arranged marriages because girls are afraid of being stigmatized and slut shamed and don't date those guys whom they like for this reason ending up getting married with a stranger. That's a society which follows the principles you described. They judge others and get judged and do what society telling them instead of doing what they want. And believe me men there are more lustful and more disrespectful towards women than men in western societies. In my opinion such living conditions are a nightmare, I wouldn't like to live in a country based on such principles.
These women and young girls are struggling like that needs to be seeing a psychologist or therapist, not display themselves online and an end up hurting another person or get themselves killed and kidnapped God forbid. And where I came from in New York City, you'll be hearing stories about such women that are raped, kidnapped, or killed all the time. Nobody has to like what I have to say, I don't like knowing that these things happen, but it's the facts. I at least try not to judge, and show compassion and let them know that they are loved and I don't have to do all those things to try to receive it. But a good amount don't want to hear that because a lot of them are bitter and resentful. And arw often using these men. Had a lot of crazy guys even on this site try to do the same thing to me.
But see what you're not understanding is that in the Middle East, it's the exact opposite and it's still the same thing. Has nothing to do with going on here. It has everything to do with people having mixed up morale and they will use whatever loophole they can find to do what they do. As God had stayed it plenty of times, if people wants to have sex they need to be married. A lot of those girls wants to do what they do without the consequences like anybody else. And no is pretty much the same thing, it's just that in those countries those men can get away with it. Here you don't get away with that unless you don't report it.
I have been sexually harassed, almost been raped, have dealt with some form of assault at some point, and even had somebody make such threats. It has nothing to do with what's better from any country, as everything to do with again how one chooses to sin. The middle East are backwards.
The top main reason why a lot of those girls are like that, and yes I have friends who are indeed Muslim and have background in the Middle East, is because lots of those men are not faithful, and they can have sex with different women, but the women have to remain virgins. I was once friends with a Muslim who took advantage of one of my close friends, used her, cheated, lied, and married a non Muslim woman who also wasn't a virgin. So what you're telling me is nothing new. It's double standards. They don't have no true fear of God and they have misconception about who God is and they twist up true scripture.
Don't get me wrong, I don't think that girls should show off their bodies to strangers in order to get some attention. But I don't think that it's such a big deal and that they should be slut shamed by other people. If they are already adults they can do whatever they want because they already take full responsibility for their life. Getting attention from guys by posting appealing photos is not nearly as bad as spreading rumours about other people or bullying others
So I am very much aware of the majority, not all, treat their women.
What you don't understand that it is a big deal because I just explained to you multiple times before. What we choose to do as adults, is going to affect young children. It affects some marriages, it affects the relationships that we have with people, it affects our community, it affects our livelihood, it affects everything.
The problem is that so many of them do not take full responsibility for what they do, and many of them think they don't have to. And it is bad because again a man should not be looking at a woman's body who he is not married to. You especially as a man is sexually sensitive to any stimuli between you and that woman. That's why a lot of men do not want to be faithful, or have sex with just one woman because now they see every other woman's body. They're not really fully committed to they're seeing who should be their wife.
If a man even looks at another woman who he's not married to he already committed adultery with her in his heart. That's why a lot of these men that complaining about alimony orders of the stuff, nine out of 10 times are divorced. I just wanted to talk to me reasons why a lot of women don't want have sex with their partners. Because they feel like they're not good enough. And it when a woman explains that to a man, then the guy I don't want to listen. Because like you said you think it's not a big deal. So if we look at another man and not want anything to do with you, and give him a lot of attention, that we're not receiving from you, then you want to complain about how we're cheating on you. You're right, as adults we are responsible for what we choose to do. But we are not entitled to your love and attention no different than you're not entitled to our love and attention including sex. That's why you don't do it. Because you got to respect each other. And if somebody that you love says they don't want you doing it, and you shoot the do it anyway, then that's not love and it's definitely not respect. That's why there are laws, that's why there are rules, and that's why there are regulations to follow. People need to stop thinking that they should have everything that they want but there is no consequences in life.
A wife especially needs her husband's undivided attention. A woman does everything as you can to please who she is with, that's why back then when women were abusing those matters oh, they allowed the divorce to happen, and that man will not be permitted to marry that person's daughter again. And why women were considered The Possession property of men, because now other men who are not suitable to marry their daughters, are going to use them and abused them. Smart father's especially would not marry off their daughters to somebody like that. What is another reason why a lot of women aren't faithful either men because they receiving their attention from many men. But still want you to try to take care of them and treat them like princesses while they garnish your paycheck. I don't blame some men for not wanting to get married.
I am so sorry to hear about your experience. Receive my sincere condolences 😔 No I can understand your opinion better.
But honestly as I know that unfortunately women are being used, raped and killed regardless of whether they flash their bodies in the Internet or not. Unfortunately any girl can become a victim :(
Most of people are going through wanting some kind of intimacy with the opposite gender, I think it's absolutely normal and healthy and such people don't need visiting a therapist.
I mean society has changed and now private life of other people should not be a business of other people I believe. One girl can keep her virginity until getting married, another girl can lose it with her boyfriend and third girl can lose virginity in the young age and change a lot of sexual partners. People have right to have their own opinions of course but the problem is that they usually impose their opinions about private life of other people which ends up with slut shaming. But usually that slut shaming doesn't have any positive impact, people just insult such girls for their life choice. The girls doing that are already adults (I was not talking about minors) so they can't being changed by offensive and judging remarks of strangers in the web. So I just find such kind of behaviour counter productive. I could see one girl on GaG who has very big boobs and always posted questions with pictures of her wearing revealing clothes. Despite on a lot of negative comments from girls she didn't stop posting such pictures and just recognised that yes, she likes attention.
Well that is on her. Has nothing to do with anybody slutshamming anybody. It's however God had design things to be, and people choose to do what they want but they want to do what they do without consequence. People that complain about that are those who cannot accept their reality. The only reason why a lot of them don't like being called that it's simply because most girls is not all of us have been told that a man would not want to be with a woman who hasn't had sex. Now that woman has sex, the guy still doesn't want her or leaves her anyway. Again, you're not a woman so you don't really know what all of us have to go through. Just like we're not men we don't know what all of you men have to go through. We can only listen to your account and experiences and hope to learn from them so that we won't make those mistakes. I rather not do what a man hates. But it's very sad that if we talk about these things they still don't listen. The truth isn't anything that a person post is up that asking to be judged. There's nothing wrong with judgment as long as it's not unrighteous judgment. And you haven't done it yourself and is made blameless. The only way those girls end of changing is unless they go through a traumatic experience or is neglected from the attention of other men. Well if you only need somebody to hold a hand and just say it's okay they don't have to do those things anymore. But what a lot of those women don't see is that the same guys they're trying to attract are only going to use them for sex, and then try to come for women like me and you are still a virgin and never been with anybody. That's what they hate. So that take what they can get.
Jesus said "Don't judge and you won't be judged". So I don't think that it's really right to judge anyone for wanting attention because they don't do any harm.
I think that reality is different for everyone, because different people have different living conditions, goals and face different circumstances.
I think that girl can simply change after falling in love and starting to date with someone. I know some cases like this. I guess that if people would think more about their our morals rather than thinking about the morals of other people and blame them the world would become a better place.
And honestly I don't think that for guys living in Western societies it really matters whether a girl is a virgin or not. Though of course guys would try to avoid girls who had a lot of sexual partners.
Girls should be vigilant of course when they are dealing with guyß, but in reality guys are used by girls as well.
By the way I think that men are lustful and lewd for a reason called procreation. If men would lose their libido and stop being attracted to female body, they wouldn't have any reason to have sex with girls and in most of cases wouldn't even try to chase the girls. So in this case humanity would disappear very quickly. I don't approve when men being rude and annoying with a girl, I consider it being disgusting. But blaming men for being lustful and calling them animals for this reason is not right.
Actually you can give judgment as long as your not doing the same sins. Or else how can you judge angels according go their works. Everybody says that line but forgets the verse after that one. You may not think is right to judge anyone for wanting attention, because you personally think it doesn't do any harm. But it does do harm all those things are your perogative in the way how you think it should be. But one day hopefully you will learn. At the end of the day when people have to face God for themselves they can't say that nobody told them.
Nothing but insecurity/jealousy.
How do you think what is the reason for them to be jealous? I mean for example in GaG where most people don't know each other?
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not all girls are the same~ some are extreamly jealous of other girls~
Yeah, I agree that girls are different. But why to be jealous on GaG, where strangers compliment strangers?
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