Are you kidding?! I wish I was your weight! I'm 140lbs at 5'8.5". My sister is 5'2", is a 00, and does nothing all day, eating whatever she wants while I run three-four miles everyday. And still an 8. It kills me.
My family is the same way. Greasy, fat, Italian Armenians. They constantly tell you how "fat" you are and how you will never find a man because I "have 20lbs of weight to lose." And then they cook these huge meals, making you eat everything on your plate. Seriously, if I lost 20lbs, I'd be a stick. They tortured me to the point where I stopped eating.Then they tortured me about that.
You will never please your family members is my point, so don't worry about it. Take their opinions on your weight with a grain of salt.
You're not fat and your friends are assholes. My girlfriend is 5"4 and 111 and she is beautiful (not saying that for obvious reasons) but I honestly don't see any "fat" so to say.
You should feel fine in your body. As long as you take care of it (nothing ridiculous) you don't have to worry about your size. Buy your friends some beef jerky for Christmas.
Jesus girl, you are not fat! I just got out of the eating disorders inpatient unit, and they sent me out once I reached a healthy weight: 110 pounds at 5'3''. You're an inch taller, so that almost makes up for the other six pounds. Keep that in mind. Don't go too much lower, or you'll end up like me.
Your not fat.. your healthy.. and your freinds are pretty harsh fer encouraging your to loose 10 pounds.. in all reality you will attract real guys because your a real chick.. keep your chin up and don't look fer the guy.. out of no where he will find you..
that's doesn't sound fat to me. maybe the friends you hang out with are just a bit shallow and don't know how their words can be hurtful at times. being healthy has nothing to do with weight and being a bit heavier than others doesn't necessarily mean you have more adipose or non essential fat. there is a difference and if you do decide to diet, do so healthily by working out and eating right.
Woah! You re by no means fat, and don't let anyone convince you otherwise! You'll get noticed by guys who are interested in you for your personality, regardless of weight, and to be honest, those are the kind of guys you should want in the first place. For me, I find girls who are extremely skinny to be not very attractive, so you sound just perfect!
It's terrible that family would say such horrible things to you. "...I looked terrible naked!", in my opinion if a guy can count your ribs, then you are too skinny. Cameron Diaz in the first Charilie's Angels movie was bony and did not look healthy.
Really?! this is nuts... you're more than okay, in fact I weight 125 & a little bit more and you can see my bones! I'm a guy & I can tell you that we like skinny girls! butttt is way more better to have something to grab on like meat! The only thing people are going to see if you drop your weight from 116 to 106 is bones so don't do it! it's insane!
are you making this up? 5'4 and 116? uh... that's far below skinny. that might even almost be annorexic? are you TRYING to kill yourself? in my opinion, that f*ckin skinny is completely unnatractive. I don't know what your deal is or if that was just a typo but I have a friend who is 5'6 and 130 and she's freaking tiny. TINY.
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While I'll admit being overweight is a bit of a turn-off for me, I have found a few plump girls attractive in the past, mostly due to a combination of a cute face and fun personality. Surprisingly, bodily appearance is not as big of a factor as I'd have thought, because I'm much more focused on faces, expressions and a good sense of humor. :)
I hate when my friends call themselves fat, or say I look anerxioc (I know I didn't spell that right! :p) and it hurts my feelings sometimes. I am 5'3 and 102 pounds. It's perfectly normal. Just like your weight. Hell, some of my friends are shorter than you and 120-130 and no one calls them fat! I don't even know if you can be considered chubby...
I'm 5'4" and 115 lbs. I have never felt self-conscious about my weight at all. But if you really feel troubled by it think of it this way: We aren't overweight (just look at us. it's the truth), and we aren't unhealthy sticks. We're comfy just like girls should be.
sounds like your just short. short people don't carry weight well especially females. my advice is shoot for 5 pounds if yu don't like the way you look since your short 5 will look like 10. yur NOT fat yu just sound like a meatball like snooki lol good luck.
OMG ! If you are 5'4 and ONLY 116 lbs...you are far from FAT ! Sounds to me like you may suffer from the signs of anorexia...Go to your doctor..If anything you are underweight !And in my oppinion most guys like a little meat on their women's bones !
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Your friends aren't very nice.
I should just point out that to an extent, confidence is more important at getting yourself noticed than physical appearance alone.
These girls are making it worse for you, because they're battering your confidence. You need to hang out with nicer less judgmental people.
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thats messed up!
love your self and all your sexy curves
im a size 16
usually a 14 in summer and fall 18 in winter and 16 in spring
dance in your room its an awesome work out go til your a sweaty mess shower and in no time you will have sexier curves and a thinner waist
imma big girl I just ignore the skinny butt heads =]
Your friends are douche bags. They're clearly insecure about themselves so they take it out on you. Trust me, you do not need to lose any weight. Think about it, the healthy weight for someone that is 5''5' tall is 120 lbs. Someone of your height is 117 lbs.
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Are you kidding?! I wish I was your weight! I'm 140lbs at 5'8.5". My sister is 5'2", is a 00, and does nothing all day, eating whatever she wants while I run three-four miles everyday. And still an 8. It kills me.
My family is the same way. Greasy, fat, Italian Armenians. They constantly tell you how "fat" you are and how you will never find a man because I "have 20lbs of weight to lose." And then they cook these huge meals, making you eat everything on your plate. Seriously, if I lost 20lbs, I'd be a stick. They tortured me to the point where I stopped eating.Then they tortured me about that.
You will never please your family members is my point, so don't worry about it. Take their opinions on your weight with a grain of salt.
5'4'' and 116 -- THERE IS NO WAY THAT IS FAT! Losing 10 more pounds is ridiculous.
Get rid of your anorexic "friends."
Agree!
You're not fat and your friends are assholes. My girlfriend is 5"4 and 111 and she is beautiful (not saying that for obvious reasons) but I honestly don't see any "fat" so to say.
You should feel fine in your body. As long as you take care of it (nothing ridiculous) you don't have to worry about your size. Buy your friends some beef jerky for Christmas.
Jesus girl, you are not fat! I just got out of the eating disorders inpatient unit, and they sent me out once I reached a healthy weight: 110 pounds at 5'3''. You're an inch taller, so that almost makes up for the other six pounds. Keep that in mind. Don't go too much lower, or you'll end up like me.
Your not fat.. your healthy.. and your freinds are pretty harsh fer encouraging your to loose 10 pounds.. in all reality you will attract real guys because your a real chick.. keep your chin up and don't look fer the guy.. out of no where he will find you..
that's doesn't sound fat to me. maybe the friends you hang out with are just a bit shallow and don't know how their words can be hurtful at times. being healthy has nothing to do with weight and being a bit heavier than others doesn't necessarily mean you have more adipose or non essential fat. there is a difference and if you do decide to diet, do so healthily by working out and eating right.
I am going out with a big girl but I like all women small big in between I think some man are picky.
I noticed big girls when I am out with the lads in the pub and even driving down the road.
I do think it helps to ware the right clothes that suits you and shows you off right.
Woah! You re by no means fat, and don't let anyone convince you otherwise! You'll get noticed by guys who are interested in you for your personality, regardless of weight, and to be honest, those are the kind of guys you should want in the first place. For me, I find girls who are extremely skinny to be not very attractive, so you sound just perfect!
It's terrible that family would say such horrible things to you. "...I looked terrible naked!", in my opinion if a guy can count your ribs, then you are too skinny. Cameron Diaz in the first Charilie's Angels movie was bony and did not look healthy.
Really?! this is nuts... you're more than okay, in fact I weight 125 & a little bit more and you can see my bones! I'm a guy & I can tell you that we like skinny girls! butttt is way more better to have something to grab on like meat! The only thing people are going to see if you drop your weight from 116 to 106 is bones so don't do it! it's insane!
are you making this up? 5'4 and 116? uh... that's far below skinny. that might even almost be annorexic? are you TRYING to kill yourself? in my opinion, that f*ckin skinny is completely unnatractive. I don't know what your deal is or if that was just a typo but I have a friend who is 5'6 and 130 and she's freaking tiny. TINY.
While I'll admit being overweight is a bit of a turn-off for me, I have found a few plump girls attractive in the past, mostly due to a combination of a cute face and fun personality. Surprisingly, bodily appearance is not as big of a factor as I'd have thought, because I'm much more focused on faces, expressions and a good sense of humor. :)
Ditto! =)
I hate when my friends call themselves fat, or say I look anerxioc (I know I didn't spell that right! :p) and it hurts my feelings sometimes. I am 5'3 and 102 pounds. It's perfectly normal. Just like your weight. Hell, some of my friends are shorter than you and 120-130 and no one calls them fat! I don't even know if you can be considered chubby...
I'm 5'4" and 115 lbs. I have never felt self-conscious about my weight at all. But if you really feel troubled by it think of it this way: We aren't overweight (just look at us. it's the truth), and we aren't unhealthy sticks. We're comfy just like girls should be.
sounds like your just short. short people don't carry weight well especially females. my advice is shoot for 5 pounds if yu don't like the way you look since your short 5 will look like 10. yur NOT fat yu just sound like a meatball like snooki lol good luck.
You girls are the ones I like to stay away from.. Not that your not cute and loveable. Its that your needy and can never be pleased.
OMG ! If you are 5'4 and ONLY 116 lbs...you are far from FAT ! Sounds to me like you may suffer from the signs of anorexia...Go to your doctor..If anything you are underweight !And in my oppinion most guys like a little meat on their women's bones !
Your friends aren't very nice.
I should just point out that to an extent, confidence is more important at getting yourself noticed than physical appearance alone.
These girls are making it worse for you, because they're battering your confidence. You need to hang out with nicer less judgmental people.
thats messed up!
love your self and all your sexy curves
im a size 16
usually a 14 in summer and fall 18 in winter and 16 in spring
dance in your room its an awesome work out go til your a sweaty mess shower and in no time you will have sexier curves and a thinner waist
imma big girl I just ignore the skinny butt heads =]
dont be so sensitive be happy
Your friends are douche bags. They're clearly insecure about themselves so they take it out on you. Trust me, you do not need to lose any weight. Think about it, the healthy weight for someone that is 5''5' tall is 120 lbs. Someone of your height is 117 lbs.