Should I send her another text?

[Anonymous]

Long story short a girl that I know that didn’t answer my text for 2 weeks and she told me today she was going through a lot. I sent her this “ I just got off work. But It’s okay. I hope everything gets better for you and I’m always there for you you know that. I just wish you would communicate that to me. If you are having problems I want you to tell me and I’ll be there for you or give you space or Whatever you want. I understand you are not obligated to tell me anything and we don’t have that kind of relationship but I want you to be honest. I’m not saying you are lying or anything please don’t misconstrue my words but if you don’t want to talk at that moment just tell me or you don’t wanna get lunch with me say no I promise I don’t take it personal. Sorry for this long message. she didn’t reply back. I felt I needed to say because she ignored my messages

[AnonUser1902]

I think she will appreciate that you put in effort to let her know that you are there for her, but just know she probably won't reach out. I'm sure she is going through personal stuff she wants to deal with privately but knowing that she had someone to turn to if she needs might be comforting. Just don't feel bad if she doesn't turn to you, give her space and let her sort it out on her own. You've done your part

[AzureGirl]

If she’s going through something then leave her be. Pestering her isn’t going to do anything but make her want to talk to you even less.

[Asker]

Yea I know I made a big mistake sending that long text, so I shouldn’t send her another text?

[AzureGirl]

No. Just leave her be. She’ll talk to you when she’s up to it

[Asker]

Okay but she basically ghosted me for two weeks I understand she was going through something but isn’t it the right thing to do is tell me not right now I’m going through hard times instead of ignoring me?

[AzureGirl]

This girl is just your friend isn’t she?

[Asker]

Yea I guess

[AzureGirl]

Then she’s not really entitled to talk to you or give an explanation of what’s going on in her life, sorry to say. You being pushy about her opening up is just really off putting if you’re just friends to one another at most.

[gangbang101]

he's not being pushy. He's being desperate, clingy and apologetic for no reason. Huge turn offs and sets a huge alarm for girls.

[ķalar]

You should have ignored her text for a day then replied in kind way would have been better then what you have sent... from personal experience always take your own time to reply those kind of texts or talk with someone close to you before replying.

[Asker]

I did take a day to respond. Maybe I worded the text the wrong way but I had to express how I feel because she keeps playing these games where I feel she isn’t being honest and she’s leading me on

[ķalar]

Well if she is playing with you ignore her.

[Anonymous]

leave her alone. Being the "nice" guy won't get her to drop the panties. If she wanted to talk to you, she would. just my 2 cents. happened to me and every guy. move on.

[Anonymous]

Absolute cringe you sent.

[Asker]

What you mean?

[Luxhian]

do good to her and leave her alone

[outside_Toronto]

walk away